What do you silently judge people for?

[Shandan35]

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

Sending their kids to school with last night's dinner stained on their jumper.

People who don't know the difference between your, you're, there, they're, their etc etc

Honestly, having children before being married. I almost hate myself for admitting it, but it is what it is...

People who insist on clarifying their preferred pronouns after their name on their email signature.

“Emily Smith (she/her)” etc

It’s become common in my industry and it’s fucking tedious. I don’t even need it if I’m emailing YOU do I 🙄

@AmoElCafe

Sorry *@woodhill*, I didn’t realise that the poster had specified that she was in the U.K.

I'm not sure tbh. She may not be

I would love some retail therapy

@ChocOrange1 whole countries have parental leave up to 13 weeks post partum and then everyone goes back to work. Literally everyone.

@Mooballs

NHS staff smoking outside hospitals..

We shoot up in the staff loos.

😂

People who post constantly on social media while on holidays. I think they're having more of a brag than an adventure.

People with filthy houses. Two day old dishes in the sink & nowhere to sit kind of filthy. (Especially one SAHM friend who admits she doesn't like cleaning, so, just doesn't.)

Parents who get to DC's school at 2pm every day. I secretly think if they have so much time they should get a job!

Drama queens who turn the remotest thing into a 'me' drama. I have one of these in my life & it's draining. I have to watch everything I say or she uses it as a trigger to some drama & starts wailing.

People who eat designer salads, wear designer clothes, buy fancy houses they can't afford.

People who go to the same holiday spot every year, same time. I just don't get it. So. Boring.

[quote Mollymarvelous]@Gwenhwyfar school level maths is a essential life skill like reading and writing. I’m not personally judging someone with a number disability . I’m calling out the way being ‘bad at maths’ seems socially acceptable to say out loud. Especially in a professional environment.[/quote]
Yes, but I think it's hypocritical to be so understanding of people 'with a number disability', but judgemental of people who are simply bad at maths. Neither can be helped.

" I’m 40 and still feel “young”."

You can FEEL what you want, but you're still middle aged!

@peaceanddove

People who don't read. I will continue to smile and be pleasant, but they are dead to me from the moment they announce they don't read books.

Poor grammar, either written or spoken. It makes me wince inside.

May I ask why? I'm wondering because I go through phases. Sometimes I read a lot and then I stop, or only read on holiday or whatever.

@Tenyearsgone

Another thread full of cunts.

Don't judge me

😂😂😂😂😂

@MAK93

I have one I could get really flamed for...

People who breast feed children who aren’t baby babies anymore 😳🤯

Well the advice is to try for 2 years because it also provides health benefits to the mums not just the babies. So if it reduces your chance of cervical cancer or whatever, why would that be a negative thing?

Wearing football strip tops when not playing football
Union Jack tattoos

@LadyMonicaBaddingham
Why? (And I genuinely don't mean that in a confrontational way. Just interested) I always associate that kind of view with my parents' generation.

@TrickyBiscuits oh Christ no! Please don’t tell me this is a “thing” now 😩

@Horehound

I’m more referring to older children, 2 would be my absolute cut off though!

Using too much plastic, and wipes for everything. Wet a cloth, much kinder to the planet.

Lazy people who could work but prefer to live on benefits instead

Badly dyed hair. Especially the badger stripe effect where you can see the grey coming back at the roots. Looks awful and cheap.

Long fingernails on men

DH bought me a lovely ring from a high end jeweller and the manager who helped us was very charming and helpful, but his fingernails all differing lengths and jagged. Given the profile of the store I was surprised and repulsed in equal measure that he thought that was the right image to give off? Def judgey on my part!

@mum2jakie

Vaping. It's like adults sucking on a dummy! I saw a senior manager with a vape and he really went down in my estimation.

I agree, they look like dummies

@LadyMonicaBaddingham

Honestly, having children before being married. I almost hate myself for admitting it, but it is what it is...

Curious as to why?