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What do you silently judge people for?

999 replies

Shandan35 · 15/01/2021 15:42

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

OP posts:
silverfonze · 15/01/2021 21:18

Not working particularly when long term and married .. just unbelievably stupid unless disabled/ good reason or privately wealthy

roarfeckingroarr · 15/01/2021 21:18

@MellowYellow101 fair. This thread is bringing out a certain level of entertaining mental.

roarfeckingroarr · 15/01/2021 21:19

@penguinhats absolutely not. It's inherently human to judge and categorise people. I'm sure I'm judged too but it doesn't upset me.

Serena1977 · 15/01/2021 21:20

Inadequate packed lunches
Taking or picking up children late from school
Smoking
Poor hygiene

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 21:21

because I'm not good at Maths you do.

There's a big gap between a Maths degree from a high-ranking university - which might not be reachable for everyone - and basic maths in your normal life and average job.

RosesAndHellebores · 15/01/2021 21:22

@Mookie81 I may be guilty of judging those who wear flip flops in cities or in Sainsburys. They are for the beach or the garden or generally relaxing

MarthasGinYard · 15/01/2021 21:22

'This thread is bringing out a certain level of entertaining mental.'

Do you often refer to other women as 'mental'

MellowYellow101 · 15/01/2021 21:22

[quote roarfeckingroarr]@MellowYellow101 fair. This thread is bringing out a certain level of entertaining mental.[/quote]
Lol I can assure you I'm actually quite mellow! 😆

MellowYellow101 · 15/01/2021 21:23

On that note, I'm out now!

MarthasGinYard · 15/01/2021 21:24

You don't sound quite so 'mellow'

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 21:25

@penguinhats

Wow really nasty thread. Quite an eye opener! Genuine question - do the people who judge so much on here think they are perfect themselves?
Why having such low standards that a little bit of self respect and effort qualifies as "being perfect"?

No one pretend to be a perfect parent, but bit of a shame to give up entirely and become a lazy one.

woodhill · 15/01/2021 21:28

"The 2 or 3 hours could be including your normal meal time. Its not necessarily eating between meals. For example, tomorrow I need to go clothes shopping (allowed where I am) but I don't want to be out after dark as it will be freezing. I'm hoping to go out before lunchtime. That means I will need to eat when I'm out and about. What's so wrong with that."

It's just that eating in the street connotation- it was frowned on when I was at school. Maybe have something in your car.

I thought the shops were closed everywhere?

ScrumpleApples · 15/01/2021 21:29

People who do extended breastfeeding.

People who gesticulate with their knife or fork during a meal.

People who say "we was."

MarthasGinYard · 15/01/2021 21:31

I've actually realised I don't 'silently' judge in RL

I'd be quite happy to do it openly regarding most topics Grin

TeacherNMum · 15/01/2021 21:31

What a post, filled with replies from secure human beings who have few insecurities about their own behaviour/shortcomings/parenting skills Hmm to anyone who feels offended by any of the replies, you can guarantee the poster is a worse cook/employee/parent/person than you are, or they wouldn’t be responding on a Friday night; they’d be cooking/working/parenting/volunteering Smile

Miranda15110 · 15/01/2021 21:32

Young children with ears pierced. So common.

MarthasGinYard · 15/01/2021 21:32

'or they wouldn’t be responding on a Friday night; they’d be cooking/working/parenting/volunteering'

Absolutely Grin

woodhill · 15/01/2021 21:32

@MarthasGinYard

Posters who have never danced in a bat wing nightie to Kate Bush....
I've done it whilst the record was playing on my dps old gramophone and the window cleaner rapped on the window, scared me half to deathSmile
SheldonesqueIsUnwell · 15/01/2021 21:33

penguin

I’m far from perfect. I can be an absolute hole.

But nothing will ever make me like spitting or hawking up greenies in the street. 🤢

AnnabelleMarx · 15/01/2021 21:33

Goodness it’s going to be awkward for chocorange to decline medical help for her sick child when she turns up to ED to find it staffed by dozens of people with young children in nursery so they can their jobs.

As she certainly won’t be the kind of roaring hypocrite who’s all cats-bum about it until she discovers it’s useful to her.....

MarthasGinYard · 15/01/2021 21:34

'MarthasGinYard
Posters who have never danced in a bat wing nightie to Kate Bush....
I've done it whilst the record was playing on my dps old gramophone and the window cleaner rapped on the window, scared me half to death'

Grin

Fantastic

AmoElCafe · 15/01/2021 21:35

thought the shops were closed everywhere?

You thought shops were closed everywhere in the world?

Mollymarvelous · 15/01/2021 21:36

@Gwenhwyfar school level maths is a essential life skill like reading and writing. I’m not personally judging someone with a number disability . I’m calling out the way being ‘bad at maths’ seems socially acceptable to say out loud. Especially in a professional environment.

Mollymarvelous · 15/01/2021 21:37

Is it a Friday night ? God I don’t know what day it is anymore.

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 21:37

or they wouldn’t be responding on a Friday night; they’d be cooking/working/parenting/volunteering

😂 I love the goady posts from posters who feel so insecure they actually care about a random comment on an anonymous forum.