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What do you silently judge people for?

999 replies

Shandan35 · 15/01/2021 15:42

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

OP posts:
Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 18:16

why do people want to get the baby years over so fast?

sleep.

WiseOwlRelaxing · 15/01/2021 18:17

@Iknowwhatudidlastsummer

Couples who charge their guests to attend their wedding, have a paid bar or any other way to invite more that they can afford.

Thinking about it, anyone who invites people and expect them to pay.

Couples with a hierarchy of guests and "evening" guests.

Oh yes, i was shrugging to 95% of these, but this one makes me wince
Raaaaaaarr · 15/01/2021 18:17

I know I am alone with this but people grooming themselves in public

Robbybobtail · 15/01/2021 18:19

People who write/say “STAY THE FUCK HOME!”

Or posting a black square on their Instagram, or hanging rainbows in their window or any kind of fake virtue signalling when you know they’re not arsed about this stuff in private but just have to be a sheep in case it looks like they’re not doing what they think is expected/lauded behaviour.
This is (one reason) why I don’t use social media, it’s rife on there.

AintPageantMaterial · 15/01/2021 18:19

People who smack their children.
I think they are shit parents and hateful human beings.

WiseOwlRelaxing · 15/01/2021 18:21

@Robbybobtail

People who write/say “STAY THE FUCK HOME!”

Or posting a black square on their Instagram, or hanging rainbows in their window or any kind of fake virtue signalling when you know they’re not arsed about this stuff in private but just have to be a sheep in case it looks like they’re not doing what they think is expected/lauded behaviour.
This is (one reason) why I don’t use social media, it’s rife on there.

Oh wait, yes i do consider myself above this behavior!
OhMsBeliever · 15/01/2021 18:21

Smokers
People who wear crocs with socks.
People who still use text speak. U dont need 2 nemore.

Parents who do things differently to how I did things - I am the perfect parent so everything I did was right and correct. Everyone else is wrong. (Gazes lovingly at perfect childrenGrin)

hitsvilleuk · 15/01/2021 18:22

Anyone who judges others for childcare choices
We do not all have the the same lives

Jaypreen · 15/01/2021 18:23

The unnecessary use of literally. Being in tears figuratively doesn't really work.

Those who have to turn every thread into a platform to launch an argument from....

MrsHugsxx · 15/01/2021 18:23

I know someone who gives their children to the grandparents every Friday night to Sunday morning. Every single week.

converseandjeans · 15/01/2021 18:24

People who have those Facebook posts with quotes
People who post on Facebook about something bad happening & everyone asks 'what's up hun?'
Cyclists in Lycra when they're just out for a quick exercise - it's not Tour de France.
SUV drivers who can't park properly.
People who put their kids into every extra curricular going so they don't have to spend much time with them.
Parents who get overly involved in their kids lives & want to know why their child hasn't been selected for a particular team (thinking youth football in particular)

Dinocan · 15/01/2021 18:24

People who have loads of children. There’s just no need. Also, it’s always the ones who harp on about sustainability/low waste/washable nappies, they have 3/4/5 kids. I can’t take them seriously.

Jaypreen · 15/01/2021 18:24

All of that Robbybobtail

MrsHugsxx · 15/01/2021 18:24

And people who say they get up in the morning and just get dressed without a bath or shower.

roseyrose2020 · 15/01/2021 18:24

@Robbybobtail

People who write/say “STAY THE FUCK HOME!”

Or posting a black square on their Instagram, or hanging rainbows in their window or any kind of fake virtue signalling when you know they’re not arsed about this stuff in private but just have to be a sheep in case it looks like they’re not doing what they think is expected/lauded behaviour.
This is (one reason) why I don’t use social media, it’s rife on there.

Totally with you on this! I hate the lecturing posts on fb. It is usually someone who is a key worker or knows a key worker so feels it is their right to lecture others on staying home and doing the right thing.
Fembot123 · 15/01/2021 18:24

@mumnowformerrockstar

Parents Pushing three or four year olds in a buggy Three and four year olds using a dummy/ bottle Children eating take aways Women walking down the road smoking a fag Women drinking pints
Women brainwashed by misogyny
Jaypreen · 15/01/2021 18:25

Those that write and say "So" at the start of every sentence.

Staffy1 · 15/01/2021 18:25

@Raaaaaaarr

I know I am alone with this but people grooming themselves in public
You're not alone. I hated seeing people fiddling around with mascara and lipstick on trains while peering into tiny mirrors. Just irritating. I even remember one woman cutting her finger nails on the train - gross!
Persianparadise · 15/01/2021 18:25

Some of these comments are just silly. I thought I would join in anyway lol
Here goes
Older women with long hair
Women smoking when pregnant
Parents walking about with buggy drinking red bull
Snobs
Over sharing on fb
Helicopter mums
Performance parenting
Babies with ear pierced
Sahp who have nannies when they are home all day.
Lots of tattoos in wedding dress
Fat brides in boob tube dresses
Football stripes on holiday

MiriamMargo · 15/01/2021 18:25

Smoking whilst pregnant, smoking whilst pushing a push chair, smoking anywhere near children !

Babies/toddlers with anything other than milk in the bottles.

Mothers who let their young teen age girls wearing revealing clothing and loads of make up.

oh I could go on............

HerselfIndoors · 15/01/2021 18:25

People who believe and spout stuff without looking at or bothering to understand the evidence/empirical reality. Whether it's woo cures, trans ideology, conspiracy theories, vaccination scares, whatever. When people are sure any "official", authorised or scientifically proven facts must be a big cover-up, but happily accept whatever someone tells them on Twitter or what some passing charlatan says will fix all their problems in return for ££££. Drives me mad! Especially as this describes most of my family members Hmm

Selfish clueless twats who stand chatting in doorways / in the school gateway / middle of pavement so everyone has to squeeze around them, even more so in pandemic times.

People who let their dog jump on you and then act all "aww he won't hurt you". JUDGED.

lovelemoncurd · 15/01/2021 18:26

Ugg's. Common

Women that put on a baby voice when they speak.

People who buy Staffordshire bull terriers. Common

MiriamMargo · 15/01/2021 18:26

woman who refer to themselves as a Full time mum, what you mean is non working mother,

Orphlids · 15/01/2021 18:27

People who think it’s unacceptable to judge, unless it’s them judging others for judging.

People who repeatedly told us all to “be kind” on social media back when it was trending, but only seem to think other people should be kind to them and their horrible kids; they can carry on behaving as unpleasantly as ever.

Fuzzywuzzyface · 15/01/2021 18:27

Extremely overweight parents pleading food poverty