What do you silently judge people for?

[Shandan35]

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

There are some deeply unpleasant posts on here.

@LH1987 Please do not worry, or feel guilty. You do what works for you as a family - there is absolutely no need for you to feel guilty or sad off the back of some of these unpleasant posts. Please do not be upset. If it makes you feel any better, I went back to work when my DC were six weeks old (admittedly years ago when maternity leave etc was different). I have no doubt some people would judge me hellishly for that, but I do not give one single fuck. One of those DC gave me a bunch of flowers today and another just offered to make me some toast so they still seem to love me

mrshugs my brother & SIL used to hand over kids to my Dad Saturday afternoon at rugby & then all day Sunday to my parents. Then a couple of days in school hols. Then would get stroppy if we tried to actually see my parents. Not sure why they needed every weekend off from looking after their kids? Meanwhile if I did go to visit I would somehow end up with all 4 kids. No break for me!

[quote PrincessBuggerPants]@Waterbaby2029

It's dull.

I don't believe in the received wisdom that 'having two close together is best' for a number of reasons. For example, why do people want to get the baby years over so fast? Do they not enjoy them? If so, why have another baby?

It's the dull, conservative, unthinkingness of it that gets me.

People who have one, or three, or four at least thought out of the box.[/quote]
I had 2 close together. I did it so my children would be close and have things in common. I was close in age to my sibling and we get on really well.

'15:49Santaiscovidfree

Kids sat in the trolley....'

What are you meaning by this? The trolley seats are meant to be for young dc and in main trolley who cares and why? Trolleys are filthy, rusted and sit outside in all weathers. Plus how would this affect you?

Idiots who have loads of Dc with idiots

Parents who won't say no to their children, ever.

As a teacher I see the result!

Over the top romantic gestures

I judge people that judge other people over silly things when they haven't walked in their shoes.

Oh yes and teachers who can't spell/punctuate or tell kids stuff that is bollocks without bothering to look it up. I understand you may not find it easy but FFS check it before you put it in a lesson or send it out to me in a letter! I judge you for teaching my kid shite that I have to undo.

@SpiderGwen

I’m crap at maths and tell people when it’s relevant because otherwise they’ll talk numbers and it means nothing to me, as if the speaker has suddenly switched to a language I don’t understand. (I’m good at some other stuff so I’m not an all round idiot, just crap at numbers).

Oh and i put my dc in the trolley seats...the crime!!

Mum’s that walk around holding their baby without a carrier or putting them in a buggy.

My mum years ago witnessed a new mum carrying her new born around the shop and tripped over. The shop called an ambulance and the baby was taken to hospital. She never did find out what happened.

My stomach turns when I see people carrying them around

Manky dirty fingernails especially those that serve food.
Uncleaned green teeth.
Greasy hair, no excuse can brush dry shampoo in if no time.
Basically bad hygiene.
Plus people that think batteries will run out if they use their indicators on their car.

@Fembot123

People who hate on vegans that don’t harass people, the shit I got when I tried veganuary was off the charts and obviously I didn’t go round shaming people as I was dipping a toe in but lots of people take it as a direct insult.

Hence why I said vegans that ram their dietary choices down others throat. No issue with the ones that keep their choices to themselves, the same way I don't partake in "EAT MEAT" protests and tell vegans to eat meat just because.

People who wear pyjamas to go to the shop, or in public at all 🤷🏻‍♀️

Really overweight people (sorry) I’m not nasty but definitely judge in my head.

People who shop at Iceland 🙈

People who chew with their mouth open/eat like pigs! Pet hate!

Driving gas guzzling cars.

people who say 'sat' when the verb they mean is 'sitting'.

when they haven't walked in their shoes.

many times it's by choice, so I still judge!

'What are you meaning by this? The trolley seats are meant to be for young dc and in main trolley who cares and why? Trolleys are filthy, rusted and sit outside in all weathers. Plus how would this affect you?'

I mean large kids age5/6 sat in the actual trolley with their filthy shoes all over the interior and sat there on their tablet.

Minging

Yes trolleys may be 'filthy' but no need to add to their downward spiral....

The staff at our local supermarket are working hard to keep them clean. Shame when the entitled idiot mingers rock up to do their 'bit'

Parents, usually mums, who are more interested in talking on their phones while walking along the road completely ignoring their small child who is following behind, or even worse, running ahead. Hands are made for holding.

Talking badly about others in a gossipy way. I find it really low.

I wasn’t talking about what you said @MellowYellow101, if I quoted you or tagged you then it wasn’t intentional.

"share this post" chain letter posts on facebook.

People who say "we have to look after our own" as an excuse to cut foreign aid, then think it's OK to let poor British kids go hungry so millionaires can make bigger profits.

Choice of newspaper - if they read the Mail, the Sun, the Star or the Express, I want nothing to do with them*

Anyone who starts a sentence with "What it is, right...", or "''Cos like...", or "I'm not being funny, but..."

People who live in a city and drive a massive car...nowhere near the countryside

People who let their kids play really noisy games on public transport and kick off when you ask them to turn it down

• I imagine this will be filtered out of any Daily Heil article deriving from this

1. SAHM - or at least the one's still doing it when their kids are at secondary school.
2. Lip fillers
3. Influencers - possibly for the same reasons as no.1. Get a proper job, do something useful
4. Long acrylic nails
5. People who have shit taste in music

@Staffy1

Eating Meat

Ha! I refuse to believe any vegetarian/vegan "silently" judges anyone. Usually the judging is vocal and never-ending.

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