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What do you silently judge people for?

999 replies

Shandan35 · 15/01/2021 15:42

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

OP posts:
Wishihadanalgorithm · 15/01/2021 18:07

Personalised number plates.
Cyclists who cycle two abreast or in a pack.

MrsDThomas · 15/01/2021 18:07

Smoking-everyone.
Really fat people. Some are still big down to pure greed. Can’t they see they are abusing their bodies?
Women with lots of kids with different men.

rorjee · 15/01/2021 18:07

@Iknowwhatudidlastsummer they can overheat even outside due to your own body temperature .

Mommyme74 · 15/01/2021 18:07

I try not to judge. Glass houses and all that.

Sarcobaleno · 15/01/2021 18:07

@Jaypreen

this thread is mostly shaming people. Most do not need to be said out loud

According to you.

The key is in the word "silently". It's just a bit of fun please stop being so uptight. It's Friday and were all bored stiff.

It's very funny in places. The pink leggings one had me particularly chortling.

The ones about childcare and breastfeeding are downright horrible.

roseyrose2020 · 15/01/2021 18:08

People who own dogs such as Rottweilers, Pit bulls, Staffies etc and have them around children.
It is so irresponsible and stupid. You then see in the news that a baby/ child has been attacked and the owners saying how the dog was such a gentle thing and great round kids.

WiseOwlRelaxing · 15/01/2021 18:08

I'm so relieved I've always loved gin !!

PrincessBuggerPants · 15/01/2021 18:08

@Waterbaby2029

It's dull.

I don't believe in the received wisdom that 'having two close together is best' for a number of reasons. For example, why do people want to get the baby years over so fast? Do they not enjoy them? If so, why have another baby?

It's the dull, conservative, unthinkingness of it that gets me.

People who have one, or three, or four at least thought out of the box.

BiBabbles · 15/01/2021 18:08

For most of this week, my children's spelling and grammar in their Teams classes.

Today I couldn't take it - I know they know how to spell those words, the difference between various homophones, and how to construct a sentence - I had to ask why they kept doing that.

I was told, in the most teenage huff my 13-year-old could muster complete with eye roll, about how no one cares about that stuff in chats and how she didn't think the teacher was bothered by it.

I'm probably going to be twitchy about this until they go back, I will try to go back to silently judging how silly it looks and trying not to worry that the teachers are judging me as it's pretty well known my children were home educated before going to the school.

WiseOwlRelaxing · 15/01/2021 18:09

Although yeh, I've switched to pink gin Grin

TatianaBis · 15/01/2021 18:09

Brexitism.Toryism. Actually I may say it out loud.

Jaypreen · 15/01/2021 18:10

People who talk loudly in restaurants. Remember those?

Airyfairymarybeary · 15/01/2021 18:10

People who find breastfeeding in public weird, but happy to chug down cow secretions in their tea.

adrianmolesmole · 15/01/2021 18:11

Kids not wearing coats/hats/gloves etc on a freezing cold day when the parents are wearing puffer coats and dressed for a snowstorm.

Wearing so much perfume it's migraine inducing. It's so unnecessary and sickening.

Pink. And swarovski crystals.

Sheepskin rugs and white fluffy cushions

Reality TV

People who boast about their relationships on social media and tag themselves as #couplegoals. Like, you're not fooling anyone love.

Voted brexit

Still supports Trump

Says things like sheeple, snowflake, remoaner, all lives matter without irony or thought.

Ihatemyseleffordoingthis · 15/01/2021 18:11

Spitting in the street
Not picking up their dog's poo
Hypocrisy

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 18:11

People who chose to have carpets.

People who put a loo in their bathroom by CHOICE (not because of absolute lack of space).

Jaypreen · 15/01/2021 18:12

Sweet milky tea in a baby bottle Flipping 'eck . Do people really do that?

cherrypie790 · 15/01/2021 18:12

People who have children and cannot be bothered to actually parent them/give them a decent life.

Same with pets.

I am becoming less and less tolerant with age and think both the above should be Government licensed and only approved after positive proof that you have more than 2 brain cells to rub together and can afford to keep them.

roseyrose2020 · 15/01/2021 18:13

@SnowflakeCulture

I've come across many uneducated people that can't read or write - all English natives. How these people can't read or write in their own mother tongue is amazing. They have really crap parents.
I don't judge these people at all. I just thinks it's really sad that they haven't had the same opportunities as others with regards to education.
rorjee · 15/01/2021 18:13

Snowsuits and thick, padded pram suits are best avoided when babywearing. The big puffy garment makes it hard to tell how warm your baby is and they’re more likely to overheat. Remember it’s harder to get your sling or carrier fitting accurately, tightly and safely around a baby who is wearing a big puffy suit.
This is especially critical with very young babies: if the sling is not snug and safe then the baby’s posture and airways may not be adequately supported and protected. As per advice relating to car seats – slings need to fit snugly around your baby’s body, not their clothing. For a comfortable fit, slings need to hug the contours of your body too – another good reason to wear young babies inside your outdoor clothing.
However, if you’re wearing a bigger baby or toddler, especially if they’re alternating between splashing in muddy puddles and being carried, wearing them over your coat might be a more sensible solution. You’ll keep each other warm so you’re unlikely to need arctic wear, but woollen jumpers and thin coats (think layers, not bulk) for you both, if you’re off to a muddy park, may be a good idea.

LST · 15/01/2021 18:14

@jaypreen there is literally someone in tears. If you want to be an arsehole go ahead.

Rege · 15/01/2021 18:14

Body odour and bad breath.
Clothes that do not fit the body well e.g a person with very big thighs wearing a mini skirt/dress so they can't bend nor cross their legs.
People who wear very thin see through leggings which means you can see their entire naked bum through it, as well as the front.

KatharinaRosalie · 15/01/2021 18:15

For example, why do people want to get the baby years over so fast? Do they not enjoy them? If so, why have another baby?

Because it's a little challenging to give birth to a 7-year old..

Iknowwhatudidlastsummer · 15/01/2021 18:15

Couples who charge their guests to attend their wedding, have a paid bar or any other way to invite more that they can afford.

Thinking about it, anyone who invites people and expect them to pay.

Couples with a hierarchy of guests and "evening" guests.

WeatherwaxOn · 15/01/2021 18:16

Moaning about the SPAG that children have to do in primary school, which is "excessive". Except they can't spell 'excessive', use the correct form of there/their/they're and struggle with using correct plurals.

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