Annoyed??? It would make me hate him. He clearly resents and despises you. What kind of relationship is that?
He can easily be a good father to his DC while living separately, giving you and himself the chance to find a relationship that makes you happy.
The 'entrapment' narrative is a classic misogynist trope and a blatant, openly stated, double standard. It's a lot like the classic rape myths. So, because a tiny minority of women have deliberately stopped taking contraception in order to get pregnant, hoping to 'trap' the father, the misogynist says this is common behaviour and the most likely explanation for an unexpected pregnancy. Similarly, because a teeny tiny number of women have 'cried rape' after regretting consensual sex, the misogynist chooses to believe that this is what has happened in many or most cases where a woman reports a rape.
The entrapment narrative is closely linked to the Madonna / whore complex. That is, a man should be free to sow his wild oats until he's ready to settle down. At that point he will choose a 'Madonna', a wholesome, lovely, reliable mother-figure for his children, and himself. She might not be the sexiest woman he's slept with and she should have shagged far fewer people than he has.
Therefore, every woman he sleeps with in his 'wild oats' phase is, as demonstrated by her willingness to have sex with him, a whore. Whores are, by definition, wicked and unreliable. A self-styled 'normal decent man' wouldn't want to get stuck with one. To him, you are a whore. Your thoughts and actions are inherently wicked. Therefore, your becoming pregnant could only have been an action of deliberate wickedness.
On the other hand, if he didn't want to risk pregnancy, he could have kept it in his pants.