[quote smallandimperfectlyformed]@mightbealittlebitmad are you the poster whose husband always wanted the GPS on your phone as well? If you are then I am sorry that he is not even letting you express your frustrations to him. If not then obviously I still don't think that you are unreasonable for not feeling as though you can talk freely. Other than here, do you have any people you can speak to? I hope that you are ok 
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Yes, he tracks my whereabouts because he says it's useful and he's worried. I turned it off recently but turned it back on because I couldn't be doing with the drama. He's being really suffocating lately, I went shopping for the day a few weeks ago, he rang me 3 times, second time was to be fair useful, the 3rd time was to ask where I was on my way home because my map wasn't working (phone needed updating)
I went on a mini break to clear my head last week, I specifically said I wanted space so I rang him when I got there and said I would ring him when I left. The one full day I had there he rang me, I was in the car and had to hang up because I was trying to concentrate on a roundabout, he rang me half an hour later, I didn't answer because I was trying to park but I text him to say I would call him when I was back. Rang him as promised then he asked to ring me again to confirm the plans we had for the next day which was basically we can't do them because of Tier 4 so didn't need a conversation.
He rang me again the next morning as I was trying to get packed so I ignored it and only rang him back when I was actually ready to leave as promised.
We've been having issues, I've been having doubts about our marriage and told him so he's paranoid I'm up to go good especially because during the summer I was going out when I could and getting quite dressed up. The last time I went out I purposely dressed down, he asked if I was really meeting my friend and not a man. He thought because I work in a hotel I was getting up to all sorts with men in their rooms or because I went to the gym I was seeing someone at the gym.
I'm looking at moving out, I just don't know how to tell him because it's going to ruin his life. He says he can't live without me, everyone will hate me and we will both end up living in 2 bed rentals instead of our 3 bed mortgaged house.