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Handhold DH heading to ICU covid

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Wardrobes123 · 02/01/2021 08:57

DH went to hospital yesterday for breathing issues. We’ve been unwell for a few days and we’re already awaiting covid tests.

Just been told he’s taken a turn and is heading to ICU. He is ECV and we’ve been so careful, we’ve not been out except to the supermarket, and we’ve avoided seeing anyone.

I’m just so worried and I know the next few days will be critical

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Hollywhiskey · 10/01/2021 21:13

Stay strong xxx

Jambalaya76 · 10/01/2021 21:25

Huge hugs x

NeedWineNow · 10/01/2021 21:29

Keeping everything crossed for you Flowers

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jaminthemiddle · 10/01/2021 21:55

Thinking of you all. Hang in there Flowers

SunshineCake · 10/01/2021 21:58

I am so sorry things are not progressing as well as you would hope at the moment. Thank you for taking the time to let us know what is going on. I think about you quite a few times a day. Take care of yourself and don't be worrying about the children on their devices. They need normality, space and fun while they process what is gong on with their father.

Confusedismyname · 10/01/2021 22:04

Sending best wishes. 💐

MartiniDry · 10/01/2021 22:05

Continued love and strength to your husband, and to you and your children. Xxx

Welshywitch · 10/01/2021 22:19

Sending lots of positive vibes to you and your DH Flowers

paradyning · 10/01/2021 22:23

Thinking if you and your family OP. Xx

Hugoslavia · 10/01/2021 22:23

Thinking of you, having been in that position before with my husband. It's one utterly nerve wracking and exhausting rollercoaster. I hope that you get some sleep. If you can't sleep, then listen to the calm app or out the radio on low in the dark. I've been there waiting for that call all night (although my husband was already on life support). It's horrendous. Hang on in there and sending you a big virtual hug and a cup of sweet tea.

LickEmbysmiling · 10/01/2021 22:31

Op please don't worry about dc on devices.
It's a crisis and it's keeping them happy and occupied, which is the best thing for them at the moment.
Lower standards, anything to get through.
Op I've been waiting for that call (not covid) icu, Poor sleep, the sheer worry..

Please Eat something, anything and maybe your very healthy but if your like me, do try and eat something healthy... Nibble an apple... Also you may not need it but again when I've had relatives in health crisis and felt anxious the doc gave me diaazopam

2m g tablets, they were amazing, and just what I needed I was given 7 or so each time but only took about 2 each time, one in the day and one at night before bed to help me relax and sleep.. They are amazing and I only used what I needed.

I was also given some for muscle issues last year and I've only used 3 say this because they are an amazing drug for times of stress... But not necessarily madly addictive!.

As scary as this is, as pp said he's in the best place, he's in and getting treatment.

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MrsPerfect12 · 10/01/2021 22:33
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JollyHolly30 · 10/01/2021 22:43

Thinking of you, your husband and your children x

changed1 · 10/01/2021 22:44

Thinking of you

Hannsmum · 10/01/2021 23:23

Really praying for your DH 🙏🙏

HairyFloppins · 10/01/2021 23:47
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StrugglingICUnurse · 11/01/2021 01:37

Thank you OP. You are doing exactly the right thing, encouraging him to lie on his tummy. This really helps oxygenation and may prevent the need for ventilation.

lovelemoncurd · 11/01/2021 03:04

Thinking of you op Thanks

Freyaismyname · 11/01/2021 03:09

Hugs to you all op Thanks

TopBants · 11/01/2021 06:10
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Here's hoping for a positive update soon. x

Maladicta · 11/01/2021 11:05

Morning Wardrobes and Groovin, thinking of you this morning

SunshineCake · 11/01/2021 11:24

Thinking of you too. Can we help with anything ? I have teenagers so may have stuff that you could use.

Purplethrow · 11/01/2021 12:00

Hoping you all managed some sleep and Mr Wardrobe is doing well xxx

uncomfortablydumb53 · 11/01/2021 15:03

Sending you both continued healing thoughts Don't worry about DC on their devices It's distraction and interaction for them, which I hope will help give you even a tiny bit of headspace Thanks

4Mongrels · 11/01/2021 15:47

Thinking of you @Wardrobes123 and you too @Groovinpeanut

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