I am a mass of contradictions in MN terms...
I change our bedding weekly (I don’t always do it - DH does it just as often as me but lately he has been unwell/hospitalitised/recovering so I’m doing it), more often if we’ve had a sweaty night or otherwise necessitated it). Otherwise I’ll clean when I feel like it, which isn’t all that often. Kitchen hygiene is obviously important and I keep on top of that. Same with toilet/sink/shower. But anything over and beyond that gets done here and there. A little bit of dust doesn’t bother me too much. My DH likes things to be done more often, so he’s welcome to do a deep clean of the bathroom, or whatever, whenever he wants, and he does. I don’t like zoflora, I don’t like overuse of bleach, I’m not freaked out by dirt or bacteria.
I don’t like ad hoc visits - I like to be asked if it’s convenient for me. It’s rude to just turn up and expect people to host (unless that’s how everyone in your family/friendship group likes it and has always done it that way). Especially if you then stay hours and hours and hours and hours.
I don’t ask people to take their shoes off in our home, but they’re welcome to do so if they want.
I am very strong on LTB, because honestly most of the time it’s warranted. But I’m not automatically on the woman’s side in every single scenario.
A medium chicken genuinely does do the two of us three meals plus a soup or stock from the carcass. I hate food waste (which is also money waste) and absolutely wont throw anything away unless it’s truly inedible. I use all leftovers and make delicious meals out of them, not slop on a plate. No matter how much or how little money I have, I will never, ever throw away perfectly good food when so many people don’t have enough. That just offends my sensibilities.
I buy clothing on eBay or sometimes from charity shops. But I also like to buy from higher end high street, and will happily pay a lot (for me) for good quality.
Eh there are so many things. Mostly, though, I think people get too het up about stuff on here, because they’re venting and in fact the things they’re ranting about are unlikely to be the actual things that are really upsetting, bothering or annoying them. I do it too, from time to time, although I do try to be intellectually honest and self aware.
