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ADs and the hardon colanders

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CruCru · 19/12/2020 17:54

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rosettesforjill · 24/12/2020 23:05

Merry Christmas all. So many feelings tonight, but trying to keep positive! Father Christmas has Been (well, he is currently drinking the very nice cognac that DS was persuaded to leave instead of a glass of milk!) and I'm ready to give Christmas dinner a good go tomorrow.

I'm not a massively prolific poster on these threads, but I check in often and you have all helped me to laugh at the madness! I hope everyone has as good a day as they can tomorrow in current circumstances Smile

AcornAutumn · 24/12/2020 23:07

@TrustTheGeneGenie

Merry Christmas to you all. Basically just been bullied off another thread. With the insinuation either I don't have a child or I'm neglecting one. Merry fucking Christmas. People are bastards Wine I'm not using the rest of this site anymore, that's my new years resolution.
Ignore them, stay with us.
Bollss · 24/12/2020 23:23

Thanks all Flowers ill stay on here I love you lot but I'm not engaging with the self righteous twats anymore Wine

I hope you all have a lovely day tomorrow whatever form it takes. Xmas Smile

Weneedmusicandtheatre · 25/12/2020 00:30

Singing midnight mass. Can’t see their being much singing in the next few months so trying to really enjoy it. Made harder by having to wear a visor to sing in....

Weneedmusicandtheatre · 25/12/2020 00:31

Merry Christmas all. Thanks for keeping me sane.

Jourdain11 · 25/12/2020 00:53

@TrustTheGeneGenie I read that thread. They were so aggressive! But on the positive side, there were actually many who agreed with you and they were the ones making the rational comments. The Dementors might call them flat earthers, but it's actually them who have no ability to rationalise further than, "it's a pandemic, ffs!"

In relation to those who were worrying about the effect in the mental health of kids who have parents shielding - it's the parent's fucking responsibility to make sure that their kids aren't worrying about that! And it can be achieved with sensible measures. My kids know, for example, that I need to minimise infection risk. So when they come in, they wash hands, change their clothes and then we have a hug or whatever and they tell me about their day. It's not rocket science. As a "clinically vulnerable parent" I feel quite strongly about it! It's just taking sensible everyday steps and reassuring - nothing else.

And for those advocating that kids should spend all day outdoors - for crying out loud! Do they live in the real world? A. Teachers couldn't teach outside (I honestly think my husband would resign post haste). And kids get cold! DD2 gets freezing at the drop of a hat (partly I think because she's skinny as a whippet) and is always moaning about how cold it is in the playground and in the classroom with the windows open, etc. etc.

Some people... like they fell out of the tree of stupidity and hit every branch on the way down. (Fairly sure this French expression doesn't exist in English, but I hope the translation does the job!)

Lol, sorry, and Happy Christmas! As happy as possible, I hope. Eat, drink, talk, indulge in black humour, wait to see which cabinet member gets busted by the press for breaking the restrictions and enjoy their humiliation when it happens, and try to share as much fun and love as possible FlowersWineFlowersWineFlowers

BogRollBOGOF · 25/12/2020 01:11

I gave up getting embroilled in discussion in certain areas several months back when a bit more sense began trickling through and it wasn't just us trying to cling on to a bit of sense while we could still remember what sense was.

Happy Christmas. Some days chatting with you lot has been the highlight of my day over the last 8 odd (exceptionally odd) months. I enjoy being able to share the highs and lows with you Wine

To bed now. Dealing with an insomniac, Santa-sceptic 10 yo is not a job for a lark.
DS2 had better not do a reapeat of 5am like he did a year or two ago... that was a joy after DS1 stayed up past midnight...

Recycledblonde · 25/12/2020 01:12

Happy Christmas everyone. I managed to liberate my turkey from its tier 2 home although judging by the price it should have been delivered on its own diamond encrusted sleigh.
I’m at work currently in a tier 2 county bordered by tier 4 which are all my responsibility. We currently have precisely 82 jobs over 4 big, highly populated counties 3 of which are tier 4. This time last year we had double the number.

ProfessorRadcliffeEmerson · 25/12/2020 01:17

Happy Christmas, everyone. I'm waiting for my nocturnal DD to go to sleep so I can smuggle her stocking in. But knackered, but one tiny advantage of having no extended family members here tomorrow is that instead of Christmas lunch we're having brunch and Christmas dinner, so I won't have to wrestle poultry when I get up.

MercyBooth · 25/12/2020 01:34

Loads of ppl on another thread getting it wrong about support bubbles. Hope none of them are in the police.

ISaySteadyOn · 25/12/2020 06:35

Happy Christmas to you all. I am so grateful for all of you. Just knowing that there are people out there like me has kept me sane. And I have learned things too from you especially malakas and trees of stupid. You are all absolutely brilliant and I am so glad you are in the world. 🎉

TooManyButtons · 25/12/2020 06:44

Happy Christmas everyone. I'm blatantly appealing for a bit of sympathy here if there's any floating about..

I mentioned yesterday that my dad died in the morning. Obviously I'm sad, but was still planning on working my shift today (I'm a nurse), as I live alone and wanted to be around people, plus I knew there'd be wall to wall snacks so didn't bother buying any Christmas food, thinking I'd just graze all day at work.

Fast forward to 5.30am, I did my first regular Covid test for work - could not be any more positive!

So now I'm spending Christmas day alone, bereaved, feeling full of cold, with only toast to eat. I'm laughing because if I didn't, I'd cry Grin

flower11 · 25/12/2020 07:06

Aww buttons hope you manage to make the best of the day, snuggle up and binge watch movies or read. Hope you don't feel too bad.
I'm just finishing work, just had a doughnut for breakfast and home to open presents with kids sleep and cook dinner later.

JamSarnie · 25/12/2020 07:08

Merry Christmas everyone.

TooManyButtons oh that's doubly shit Sad

TabbyStar · 25/12/2020 07:11

Happy Christmas everyone, and I echo the feelings around these threads being somewhere to go for a bit of sanity. I'm feeling quite despondent this morning but what can you do.

Sorry to hear about your Covid news TooManyButtons. Hope you don't get ill with it (we didn't). It's the second Christmas without my DF (has definitely got easier for me if not DM) but then you'll still be in the early shock stage Thanks.

I'll pop in throughout the day. Our Christmas isn't massively different from usual though my DM has decided to just collect dinner from us, and we'll do present opening with her over Facetime. It's all the days afterwards that are stretching emptily ahead.

I've definitely heard that saying Jourdain, I didn't realise it was French though.

WouldBeGood · 25/12/2020 07:32

Oh, @TooManyButtons, how shite is that?!

Could you order takeaway?

And if you have a convenience store near you, some of them deliver, like with the Snappy Shopper app? Maybe ask in your local Facebook page about what’s open?

Reedwarbler · 25/12/2020 07:52

Happy Christmas everyone, especially @TooManyButtons - get yourself into a nice warm bed and snuggle down. Hope you soon feel better.
Looks very frosty out, although it's still dark. At least it's not raining. A bit worried about round two, which is a storm coming in tomorrow afternoon.
A family member who lives alone (in an over 65's complex of flats) has actually agreed to see us tomorrow. He has not left his flat once since March (he has mobility problems, but can walk slowy with a walker). I persuaded him with the promise of a full christmas lunch which he can microwave. It was a bit like tempting a frightened animal out of it's burrow, but the lure of turkey and christmas pud has persuaded him to let us take it round. He wouldn't come here for today - no way, even though we are also over 65 and are very careful.
Have a good a day as possible everyone.

Sonicthehedgehogg · 25/12/2020 07:57

@TooManyButtons That is incredibly shit, Hope you stay relatively well. 
@WingingItSince1973 Let him talk as much as you can. The early stages of processing a traumatic incident can look bad but it's actually quite healthy to relive it/want to talk about it lots in the first couple of days, it's all part of the process.

Merry Christmas, and commiserations to everyone having a compromised Christmas. Thankyou for all the laffs and non-judgements this year. Fingers crossed for some rude veg today!

Sonicthehedgehogg · 25/12/2020 07:58

Oh, and I've heard the tree phrase... but mostly referring to people as having hit the Ugly Tree... and hitting every branch on the way down Blush

TabbyStar · 25/12/2020 08:09

Oh yeah actually it's ugly tree I've heard too.

CruCru · 25/12/2020 08:40

TooManyButtons You definitely have my sympathy, that sounds awful. Can you go to bed and pretend today isn’t happening?

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AcornAutumn · 25/12/2020 08:42

TooManyButtons I’m so sorry. Flowers

Packingsoapandwater · 25/12/2020 08:43

Crikey, I've found the island of sanity on Xmas morning! I had no idea you were all here.

I've been reading through the thread and it's made me feel less alone. I've managed fairly well throughout this year, but something over the last few days has left me suddenly very down. I think it could be the splash about the "mutant strain" and the idea schools may not reopen in January.

And I'm starting to question the rationality of it all now. I'm in tier 3 and we have the grand total of ten covid cases in a council ward population of 12,000. The next ward over has five cases, so I a combined semi rural population of nearly 25,000 people, we have fifteen cases and none of them are hospitalised.

It just seems bonkers to me. I can't stop myself being suspicious about it, though I tell myself that it's all about the government not wanting to go against scientific advice in case they get strung up by the media for it, but where are the voices of restraint?

I know people locally are starting to disregard certain measures, and I don't judge them for it at all.

AcornAutumn · 25/12/2020 08:46

Packing welcome along.

The voices of restraint are being silenced. I’ll be back later but I must have coffee...

ShoeJunkie · 25/12/2020 08:55

Happy Christmas ADs! Xmas Smile
Thank you for being an island of sanity in a sea of madness.

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