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ADs and the hardon colanders

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CruCru · 19/12/2020 17:54

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MercyBooth · 20/12/2020 23:54

They wont cancel the support bubbles will they?

Jourdain11 · 21/12/2020 00:17

No, because people would ignore it!

justasking111 · 21/12/2020 00:22

Perhaps seen before but it's helped me tonight

An Ode to Covid-19
T'was a week before Christmas,
And all through the town,
People wore masks,
That covered their frown.
The frown had begun
Way back in the Spring,
When a global pandemic
Changed everything.
They called it corona,
But unlike the beer,
It didn’t bring good times,
It didn’t bring cheer.
Airplanes were grounded,
Travel was banned.
Borders were closed
Across air, sea and land.
As the world entered lockdown
To flatten the curve,
The economy halted,
And folks lost their nerve.
From March to July
We rode the first wave,
People stayed home,
They tried to behave.
When summer emerged
The lockdown was lifted.
But away from caution,
Many folks drifted.
Now it’s December
And cases are spiking,
Wave two has arrived,
Much to our disliking.
It’s true that this year
Has had sadness a plenty,
We’ll never forget
The year 2020.
And just ‘round the corner -
The holiday season,
But why be merry?
Is there even one reason?
To decorate the house
And put up the tree,
Who will see it,
No one but me.
But outside my window
The rain gently falls,
And I think to myself,
Let’s deck the halls!
So, I gather the ribbon,
The garland and bows,
As I play those old carols,
My happiness grows.
Christmas is not cancelled
And neither is hope.
If we lean on each other,
I know we can cope ❤💚
🎄🎅🏼🎄🎅🏼🎄🎅🏼🎄🎅🏼🎄
Keep it going
I don’t know who the author is, but this is so poignant right now!

CarpeVitam · 21/12/2020 00:38

What are AD's? 🤔

MercyBooth · 21/12/2020 00:53

Oh my God the swearing and anger at Boris on Twitter A lot of anger building

ApplesinmyPocket · 21/12/2020 02:19

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MercyBooth · 21/12/2020 02:25

@ApplesinmyPocket Criticising the Gov, response is not denying Covid. I know full well it exists. I wear my mask. Do all the things im supposed to do. So please dont gaslight

MercyBooth · 21/12/2020 02:51

Im sorry you wont be able to see your sister @AcornAutumn Flowers

DominaShantotto · 21/12/2020 04:46

Polite reminder - don’t engage with those who come on to attack and sidetrack what is a very supportive thread to many. Report, move on, continue discussing rude shaped vegetables.

DominaShantotto · 21/12/2020 04:49

I’ve got a really sore tooth - realised it’s a knackered one anyway but that I’m clenching and grinding teeth in my sleep. Never been a tooth grinder. Also finding it hard to swallow from anxiety as well- my mental health is fucked

Iheartmysmart · 21/12/2020 06:03

Poor you Domina, toothache is the worst. I hope you managed to get some sleep Flowers
Do you think Boris realised his announcement about the new strain being so contagious would backfire quite so spectacularly and result in quite so many countries banning us? Although I see Carl Heneghan is asking to be shown proof of the claims as he says it’s too soon to make such a statement.

Sonicthehedgehogg · 21/12/2020 06:34

Eek, I think I'm going to raise my head above the parapet and say that I think whoever it was as PM would have ballsed up bits/most/all of this year. I'm no major fan of Boris, but can't say who I think would have been any better. What a fucking mess.
After a complete mess of a few days, feeling very emotional and hopeless, I've made a commitment to regaining control over the things I can, and for a few days neglecting worries about those I can't.
News will be checked once in a morning (not anxiously thought the day, hoping for something good which doesn't come), phone kept in one spot in the kitchen, focusing on my DD more.
I'm so fed up with the endlessness of it all, especially posters on here or news articles suggesting there won't be any improvement in life for months and months (or this year, or ever!) because no one can guarantee anything (I know) and because our Govt can't keep its promises.

wanderings · 21/12/2020 06:40

Stay away from the news this morning. I expect that Saint Boris (or whoever is pulling his strings) has now thrown all goodwill to the winds, and is now pulling out all the stops with "make it as terrible and gloomy as we possibly can, so that the public are far too terrified to disobey. Also we think that we simply can't appeal to the public's better nature any more: we can only make sure they are absolutely terrified."

And DON'T touch the thread of "surely we'll all be in full lockdown soon": they are going to drown in their own glee before they catch the virus. Christmas has come a few days early for them.

In the real world, I think that the government are trying to get in as much doom as they possibly can before Christmas, so that things can only get better in the new year, although sadly I think it's likely that there won't be much easing of things until the vaccine (if it's real) starts to have some effect. There's still hope for an explosion of public anger, and even anger by MPs, although I expect they'll be gagged for a while: I'm sure this latest bit was timed to coincide with them not being there.

On Lockdownsceptics, Saturday's anti-lockdown protest was described, along with the heavy-handed policing. I'm glad the word about that is getting out somewhere, if if the BBC are being silenced on it.

bakingcupcakes · 21/12/2020 06:50

I'm finding all the stuff about Dover closing quite concerning. I'm torn between believing it's because of our 'mutant' covid strain or a trial run for Brexit.

I love that poem Just.

Domina Have you tried orajel? It's my favourite when it comes to tooth ache. Numbs everything.

Yesterday, we went to a little used car park by some woods which are like a bog in winter. When we arrived there was no one there as expected. When we came back to the car 3 other vehicles were there with 3 separate households (totalling 10 people) exchanging christmas gifts. I honestly wonder what the fuck has happened a lot of the time at the moment. Clearly their meeting was illegal under the current rules so this was the only way to do it in person but I just think it's bonkers that the exchange of wine/chocolate face to face has now become equivalent to a drug deal and must only be carried out hidden away in a semi-deserted car park.

Sonicthehedgehogg · 21/12/2020 06:52

@CarpeVitam ADs are a thread of people who needed a safe space to discuss/challenge/moan about Covid without being sneered at or shouted at. It's a mostly safe place for that. We have a very mixed bunch of views, so don't think that we're anti-vax, or anti Covid restrictions or have any one homogenous view for that matter. What IS important is that we can raise questions or opinions and that's just fine, we don't need to all have the same views to get on. In fact, I like these threads best when there is polite and respectful disagreement because it's in those differing opinions that we reflect on and challenge our own.

bakingcupcakes · 21/12/2020 06:52

@Sonicthehedgehogg I agree whoever was PM would have made an absolute balls up of this. I'm not a fan of Boris but I wouldn't want his job at the moment.

Sonicthehedgehogg · 21/12/2020 06:58

I like to picture Theresa May, sat at home with a big gin, cackling to herself. Grin

Sonicthehedgehogg · 21/12/2020 07:01

Not that I think she would have done a better job... I just have my own views that she was utterly shit on by her own team whilst trying to sort out someone else's shit. She deserves to sit at home, watching Netflix shouting "you try it then, fuckers!".

wanderings · 21/12/2020 07:18

I agree that not many PMs would have have handled this well. Because Boris is such a blithering buffoon, and his merry men are sadists who are revelling in it, it seems a lot worse on his watch. In a way, Theresa May has earned the privilege described by @bakingcupcakes: she might not have been the best, but she did just get on with it and work hard, unlike Saint Boris who wouldn't know the meaning of "work" if it hit him in the face.

I hope there are some symbolic Christmas Day protests in London.

zigaziga · 21/12/2020 07:24

This French freight ban... is it wrong to find it a teeny, teeny bit funny?
I don’t want to gloat.. I hate those people that want Brexit to be even worse than it probably will be so they can say “I told you so” or who want us all in lockdown forever for similar reasons ... but I’m just imagining the scene of Hancock and Johnson running around panicking.

This is what you get when you go on TV and announce a deadly, alien, new strain of the virus which will kill us all by next week and we must take VERY seriously etc etc! Fucktards.

wanderings · 21/12/2020 07:27

@zigaziga I agree with you. It's what happens when you cry wolf: people believe you. I'm actually enjoying Boris's discomfort about having to be Scrooge: that is, if it wasn't planned in advance, which we may never know. Or maybe his merry men knew, and he didn't until the autocue was put in front of him.

zigaziga · 21/12/2020 07:29

In other news, Tier 4 is a steaming pile of shit BUT having walked round in Tier 4 yesterday I realised how different things are to March and how we won’t ever be back there again.. Just like November, all the shops that CAN open are open and people are merrily out doing their best to shop where they can to, queuing outside and weather be damned.
In March it was the opposite - a sort of “should you really be open just because you can?” environment and people definitely stayed at home barricaded in their flats or houses.

Now I see lots of couples and families (ie if people were really terribly worried they’d avoid shopping in a group) queuing for the deli and for the ice cream shop (in this weather!) and I am a bit heartened that in a way, we do still keep moving back to normality because people just can’t do it again.

Sonicthehedgehogg · 21/12/2020 07:34

It's a bit like when there's natural disasters or terrorist attacks. It's helpful to look for the people helping, or in this case the ones finding ways to find cheer, ways to connect and ways to find a way through.

MargosKaftan · 21/12/2020 07:52

Currently laying in bed, trying to steel myself for a supermarket trip. Its going to be full of crazy people isn't it? And need to go buy guinea pig food.

Urgh. Had planned to spend this morning getting my nails done, and then going picking up some nice things in the little independent shops near by. Tier 4 is annoying.

Oh well, but the government want me to spend the money we've saved to get the economy bouncing back, they might have to think about allowing life to be fun.

LivinLaVidaLoki · 21/12/2020 07:57

Just about to catch up with the thread, but 2 things occurred to me this morning about this "new strain".

Firstly if viruses mutate to adapt to their environment and survive (the reason they become less deadly), then could locking us all up for months with little or no contact cause this?

Secondly if this new strain is 70% more contagious☆ but can be controlled by the social distancing measures we've had all along then does that mean covid wasn't anywhere near as contagious as we told during the spring/summer this year?

☆note...no one has actually explained what 70% more contagious means yet....

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