This thread is for leaving a message for someone without mentioning their name etc

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I'm sorry I can't visit you. You are 100 years old now. I think about you everyday.

I love you. I think about you every day, in the morning and when i go to bed. I wish i had been brave. I hope you are well. You have inspired me to do my best. ♥️

I'm sorry I wasn't there. I would give anything to have been by your side. I miss you every day. It may look like I'm moving on but the hole in my heart is still there. I hope you found some peace.

I really miss you. I'm sorry covid stopped me from visiting and now I'll never see you again. Love you always ❤

Jane, what goes around comes around. Good luck. Your time's up. Oh and, go fuck yourself.

Jon, I can't imagine how emasculating it must feel to act with such a lack of integrity that you can't even speak truthfully of your own experiences, in order to save your own skin. You threw me under the bus. You too can go fuck yourself.

Niall, this isn't for you. You do not have the skill set. I know what you did and it will forever taint my image of you.

I really, really, really wish I got to know you and had some memories of you. Your voice, your smell, your touch, your face. It is so unfair. I miss you more than anything and my life has not been right or fair without you in it. 💕

I really wish you’d just tell me how you feel. And I’m so annoyed at myself for allowing you to make me feel so low.

I think you are a self centred entitled brat and it absolutely drives me insane how rude confrontational and argumentative you are and have always been.

You judge people who work in certain jobs and even go so far as to belittle what I do when weve not all been as lucky as you are to live off mum and dads £££.

This job clearly stresses you out too much. You're not well and while we're sympathetic, it's now having an effect on the whole team. Will you please, please take some of the multitude of help that is being offered you at work and make life a little bit easier for yourself.

We had such a good laugh. Shame you had to get all paranoid and mess it all up for the gang.

A few.

Most days I want to tell you I wish you were my Mum even though it feels childish and extremely disloyal. You are great and I wish we were family.

You aren't a good friend. You aren't a good person. Difficult? You don't know the meaning but you're ever so hard done by. Nevermind. All my fucks to give are long gone so I can afford to appear to be the bigger person because I genuinely don't give a shit.

You hate the job. You are miserable to be around. The service users put up with you. Your colleagues carry you. You may as well not turn in. Leave for the sake of everyone else.

I would do anything to have the excuse to see you and see if the spark is still there. You think it can't happen and it can, and if I knew you felt the same, I'd make it happen.

Seeing only two or three people for coffee, going to a job you love and having your husband and children at home does not mean you 'know what it's like' when you ask how I am, and newly bereaved, childless and early-retired (not by choice) me says 'a bit lonely'.

It is also unhelpful when you say 'I wish you wouldn't say that, it makes me feel awful'

I suspect I am not supposed to, but I just want to acknowledge all the people who are sad or hurt on this thread and offer some solidarity

God you’re a crap friend. I’ve been there for you again and again and when there’s the opportunity for you to do the same for me you just don’t give a fuck. I’ve learnt, finally. Go live your shit life with your shit husband and badly behaved kid. No doubt you’ll be in touch for a chat when things don’t go your way.

I miss you all the time and life is so much emptier now that you're not here anymore, but I know you'd want me to be happy and that's what keeps me going, I love you.

I wish we could have been something more, I've not felt a connection like that with someone before and I think I could have fallen for you very easily but I'm also glad it didn't work out because it was too intense for me to handle.

Blimey, relationships are complex things aren't they

Karmas a bitch i hear it caught up with you.

I don't like you. I don't know how to relate to you and it feels like you are only interested in yourself. I have been let down so many times by you I just don't feel I can do it any more. But I love you and miss the hero I thought you were.

You are a bully. You've made my life a misery. And I'm going to stand up to you. Your time is up.

You did to me what they did to you. Karma got you quite clearly but you still don't see any wrongdoing. You are horrible.

I am so sorry I lied to you the last time I saw you and let you think that I was able to do what you wanted. I am sorry that you thought I would come back when I knew that I wasn't and knew that we would probably never see each other again.

I miss you, every day. He will never replace you and a bit of me died with you that awful day and wished I'd been taken too. Forever yours, forever mine

I wish people saw the side to you that I have seen. You don't give a shit about anyone else and never will. I hope that you are happy with your ill gotten winnings. You are a complete bitch in how you have treated people and yet you act all sweetness and light whilst stabbing people in the back and taking what isn't yours to take. You've been richly rewarded when you really shouldn't have been. I don't know how you have the gall to paint yourself in the positive light that you do. Karma should have bitten your arse.

Fuck off to the far side of fuck.

If I’d known it would be the last time, I’d have hugged you a little bit tighter and a lot longer. I miss knowing that you were here but I know it was for the best. You were the best.

God knows I love you dd, but I wish you hadn't survived. For your own sake.

I am ashamed to have to be related to either of you. You are both arrogant, gold digging, unpleasant cunts who treated an old, ill lady who loved you both more than you know ,appallingly. I meant it when I said never ever contact me again. Too cowardly to come to her funeral because you knew I may lose the plot at you both, but thank god you didn't. I will never ever forgive you, and I hope your enjoyed the inheritances you both grabbed with your disgusting fingers the minute I sent them
Oh and, L, if you wonder what the RIH my dh wrote on the back of the envelope meant, it was simply Rot In Hell.

You will never know how much I am looking forward to leaving this job and you.
You’re a shite colleague, you are lazy and self serving and your comeuppance is on it’s way. I’m just sad that I won’t be around to see it all go to shit