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If a meeting at 12.00 is moved forward 2 hours

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IliveonCoffee · 18/11/2020 21:55

What time is the meeting?

I saw this somewhere else. I've just asked my partner....I'm horrified --slightly dramatic- at his response!

What time do you think the meeting is?

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Viviennemary · 18/11/2020 22:45

My first thought was 2 pm.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 18/11/2020 22:45

10am

AlbertCampion · 18/11/2020 22:46

Just asked DH this and he says he has heard it being discussed before and the answer depends on whether you see yourself as central to your existence, or as simply a player in a wider plan. Thus, if you see yourself as moving through time, then bringing something forward moves it closer towards you (10am). Whereas if you see life as time moving along, then it would be later (2pm).

I am now even more confused. But I think he is saying that the way people reply to this tells us something about their psychology.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 18/11/2020 22:46

Move it forward, as in move it closer. I would be concerned about any adult who didn't know that!

AlbertCampion · 18/11/2020 22:47

Incidentally, I would definitely answer 10am.

ktp100 · 18/11/2020 22:49

I can see where he's coming from but he's still 100% incorrect!!!

user1471453601 · 18/11/2020 22:49

It depends where, in your "head" you are stood at the time. So if "the meeting g is being brought forward by two hours" is said when "in your head" you recognise it's now 9:00 am then clearly, the meeting is at 11:00.

However, if you are at, in your head, 2:00pm , because 2:00 was the last words spoken to you,then its 4:00pm.

I used to have a poster in my room. Two naked people, one stood on the others head. The caption underneath said "We've got naked, im on top of you, when does the fun start?"

it make me remember that what I said didn't always translate the way is intended

Cuppaand2biscuits · 18/11/2020 22:52

I agree with you but I can see why he thought 2pm.
If you were talking to someone about moving forwards, for example.
"I appreciate you have a lot on your plate and sometimes that makes you late for meetings but moving forwards I really need you to make an effort to be on time"
Then you would be talking about the future.

CheetasOnFajitas · 18/11/2020 22:55

Did he miss it then?

Bumpsadaisie · 18/11/2020 22:57

10am!

Delatron · 18/11/2020 22:57

Ooh I immediately thought 2pm but then thought it through and read the responses!

Bumpsadaisie · 18/11/2020 22:58

@AlbertCampion

Just asked DH this and he says he has heard it being discussed before and the answer depends on whether you see yourself as central to your existence, or as simply a player in a wider plan. Thus, if you see yourself as moving through time, then bringing something forward moves it closer towards you (10am). Whereas if you see life as time moving along, then it would be later (2pm).

I am now even more confused. But I think he is saying that the way people reply to this tells us something about their psychology.

This is interesting but can't quite understand it. Can you explain it again for a tired aging woman with lockdown brain fog?

Thanks

Doyoumind · 18/11/2020 22:58

10am of course. Put back would be 2pm.

Redlipstick55 · 18/11/2020 23:00

I genuinely thought it was 2pm until I read the comments

chomalungma · 18/11/2020 23:02

So it's Saturday the meeting is on the following Friday and it's now been bought 'forward to next Thursday'.

When's the meeting?

Is it before or after the original date?

Enough4me · 18/11/2020 23:02

10am, but I'd say let's start 2h earlier at 10am.

Gingernaut · 18/11/2020 23:03

I'm with @NoParticularPattern.

Bring forward - the 1200 meeting is now at 1000

Push back - the 1200 meeting is now at 1400.

ozymandiusking · 18/11/2020 23:05

It should say "brought foreward" That makes more sense.
And yes 10.00

Natsel84 · 18/11/2020 23:13

10 am. Moving the meeting forward 2 hours .
2pm moving the meeting back 2 hours .

ChocolateCherrybomb · 18/11/2020 23:14

Shit me.

I just asked DH.

He replied with 12, then 4, then 12 again before finally setting on 2.

Jinglebellissimo · 18/11/2020 23:16

@DangerMouse17

10am but it should be "brought forward" rather than moved forward. That helps the brain get it right I think!
^^this
earthyfire · 18/11/2020 23:17

It makes my head hurt thinking about it, but anything involving numbers usually does.

AlbertCampion · 18/11/2020 23:21

@Bumpsadaisie tbh I am also struggling with it a bit! I think, basically, it depends whether you place yourself as the fixed point, or time as the fixed point.

So...

If I am fixed in one place and time is continually rolling past me, then moving something forward in time will bring it closer to me.

But if time is fixed - like a road - then I am moving along it, and moving something forward in time will take it further away from me.

Not sure if that makes any more sense. I also have an aging lockdown brain!

AlbertCampion · 18/11/2020 23:23

Although I have just read that back and it appears to contradict what I wrote before. And now DH has fallen asleep so I can't check with him. Sorry!

Mashingthecompost · 18/11/2020 23:26

I'm not telling you what I thought.