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The roolz of being an AD:
We are allowed to vent the small stuff because we are human, and that's life and life matters.
We are allowed to vent the big stuff too.
We are allowed to politely and eloquently see the world in shades of grey.
We're allowed to enjoy ourselves even in a pandemic.
We're allowed to cope with dark humour and irreverence, because we are human and life matters.
And that's what brings us together and gives us strength for thread after thread.
Here we are in another dementor cycle. It stings because this one touches us all. It stings because whatever our preferences are about masks, we can see a bigger picture and how others are impacted differently to us, yet it feels like a majority are crowing and gloating at the cost of invisible difficulties. It's not a real majority. The majority sigh quietly and get on with things. They don't have the energy to battle on and on on the same ground.
The dementors will not win. They might temporarily have this little battle, but they will lose the war. There will be a return to something that is very recognisably our old normal. Masks will not be around forever- well I give the plastic ones in landfill 500 years... that'll be a joy for future archaeologists...
As I said last night ^
I'm no fan of masks, I admit that. I get claustrophobic, have auditory processing issues, hate stale humid air and have occasionally had panic attacks when I've been overwhelmed. Generally I'm not an anxious person, but masks touch too many raw nerves for me. Plus I have a child with ASD who is prone to anxiety and masks through communication difficulties with great effort, so it's not fair on him for me to wear one and make his life even harder.
I would always have found the masks concept difficult, but the abstract way this has been done gives me no confidence in the rationale. All the data has continued to trend downwards.
I can see why others find them reasurring even though they are far from it to me.
Across MN (but not within this thread) there has been a lot of vile vitriol directed against people who struggle with mask wearing. (Plus a lot of general nastiness spilling into other unconnected topics) and the double whammy is wearing.
I'm worn from being at home for 4 months.
Going out as I have in recent weeks will be less of an escape than it was.
I don't know how to escape.
This time last week I was looking forwards to my newly booked holiday... which is now a bit less of an escape than it was.
We're allowed to nurse our bruises. The conversation will move on and cycle round. The humour will creep back.
I have no ill will for anyone who feels differently to me (unless they're obnoxious about it which doesn't apply on this thread)