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Original poster

Hullo - anybody as old as time (like I am) and remembers me?

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Pacif1cDogwood · 09/07/2020 22:33

Sorry, v needy fred.

I last posted about 5 years ago to ask for advice on how to screenshot a v explicit message that accidentally ended up on DS’s iPad and which, long but v predictable story short, led to STBXH and I splitting up.
Still not divorced Shock.

So, howzit been here meantime?
Wine

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FaceOfASpink · 09/07/2020 22:36

I do! I was someone else at the time.

HairyMaclary · 09/07/2020 22:37

I remember you! Not as many interesting threads but some still worth hanging around for!

Hope you’re happier now minus STBXH.

audreyand · 09/07/2020 22:37

I do! Hope you are ok.

FaceOfASpink · 09/07/2020 22:38

It's....different.
I've been through similar to you. Shit, isn't it. Hope you're okay.

VitreousHumour · 09/07/2020 22:38

I do! onebat as was.

TheFaerieQueene · 09/07/2020 22:39

I remember you too @Pacif1cDogwood

Hope you are doing well.

It isn’t the fun place it used to be sadly. I dip in and out - it just isn’t much fun here anymore.

Timeforabiscuit · 09/07/2020 22:39

I remember you! Welcome back! Things have been a bit lockdowny, it peaked at Mexican House Thief.,.

VitreousHumour · 09/07/2020 22:40

Sorry meant to say, hope you're okay and it's lovely to see you.

weebarra · 09/07/2020 22:40

I remember you!

TigerDroveAgain · 09/07/2020 22:40

I remember you too!

It is different now, a curate’s egg

Shangrilalala · 09/07/2020 22:41

I remember your sound advice and great humour. You helped me on a couple of occasions. Lovely to see you back and hope all goes well for you.

Horsemad · 09/07/2020 22:41

I remember you!

Original poster
Pacif1cDogwood · 09/07/2020 22:41

Oh my! Thank you, all - lovely to ‘see’ you Smile

I’m not sure I’m happier than I was before the massive shock his cheating was to me, but I’m ok. And I am discovering who I am again and I don’t dislike what I’m finding so that’s all good.

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FaceOfASpink · 09/07/2020 22:41

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/AMA/3713360-Im-a-masochistic-submissive-and-live-with-my-sadistic-Sir-AMA?pg=1
The first half a dozen pages of this were a breath of the old times 😊

Original poster
Pacif1cDogwood · 09/07/2020 22:41

How is it different here?

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AbsolutePleasure · 09/07/2020 22:42

I do. I've left and come back too.

BernardsarenotalwaysSaints · 09/07/2020 22:42

I do! I was possibly this 5 years ago but I can't actually remember Grin

Original poster
Pacif1cDogwood · 09/07/2020 22:42

Thanks for the link, FaceofSpink 👍🏻

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Dauphinois · 09/07/2020 22:43

I remember you I think, though I've name changed since then. Are you a GP? I may have made that up....

PerkingFaintly · 09/07/2020 22:43

Five years?!

I thought you'd been a bit quiet, and wondered how you were... Five years?!

Can't be...

Sorry to hear about STBXH. I do remember you mentioning he'd had an affair. Hope you're finding some sort of way forward for yourself and the kids.

LadyMacnet · 09/07/2020 22:43

Hi Pacific I have been here since the dawn of time but very rarely post. I remember you too! It’s a bit different round here these days but that’s okay. I hope you are okay too.

QuentinWinters · 09/07/2020 22:43

Oh me Smile you were on feminism I think and I liked your posts. Hope u are doing ok Wine

BernardsarenotalwaysSaints · 09/07/2020 22:43

We can finally just click a button to see all your (the OP's) posts but folks still don't rtft

FaceOfASpink · 09/07/2020 22:44

How's it different?
In a nutshell, if I told you then I'd expect to get jumped on pdq.

Original poster
Pacif1cDogwood · 09/07/2020 22:44

@BernardsarenotalwaysSaints

We can finally just click a button to see all your (the OP's) posts but folks still don't rtft
Plus ça change! Grin
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