We are sooo embarrassed and I imagine and totally understand that DD is equally embarrassed. We were in the middle of DTD when DD's bedroom door opened. Seconds later there was 5 large bangs on the wall. We were mortified and of course stopped immediately.
There is no excuse, other than DP and I don't live together and emotions overcame us. Additionally DD is always with me; she doesn't see her father and is more of a loner than someone with a large group of friends.
We thought she was asleep so thought it was 'safe'. After going to the toilet which was initially her reason for waking she went to get a glass of what and I went down to apologise to her and asked if she wanted to talk about anything to which she said no and went back to bed.
She's found it hard me having a boyfriend as it has just been the two of us all her life.
I have decided that I'm going to limit DP coming to my house to every other week to ensure there's just DD and me time.
But still after tonight I feel awful that I may have really done some damage to her mentally.