I CAN do a really competent teaching job... to a class of 30 kids. Give me my own two and they're the class from hell - and I think every teacher or ex-teacher in the land would say exactly the same thing! (Apart from one of DD2's teachers who has teenagers and admits it's just "throw food at them when they appear and let them sleep")
^^THIS! So much this. I can teach, but I can't replicate a classroom at my kitchen table and I can't replicate his peers to role model and bounce ideas off.
Although the afternoon when the TAs were striking, DH was on another continent and the only thing I could do was fetch 5yo DS 1 in my gained time/ lunch time and bring him to my classroom for afternoon lessons. That class of y9s was not the easiest to teach even without pretending that there wasn't a 5 yo hiding up my dress.
I've realised in recent weeks that DS1 had only had one seamless school year.
yR Strike action, sunmer term
y1 Job share teacher introduced in Jan
y2 one teacher all year, but on secondment and moved on after one year
y3 Maternity leave after Easter, TA made redundant at same time
y4 Lockdown.
With the current state of yR, y1 and y6 and the half class bubbles, and now about to enter the final 7 odd weeks of the school year, he may well have the start of y5 buggered up as well. At the current moment, I'll be pleasantly surprised if he can just have a straightforward full time education in September. But ultimately I just want some schooling, well aware that I have the luxury of not having to juggle work and childcare.
On work and childcare I also don't envy working parents on the approaching summer holidays when childcare is often a hotch potch, difficult arrangement anyway. Surely there needs to be guidence and advice on that in the very near future?