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Anti Dementors Picnic on the Beach

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Mascotte · 17/05/2020 19:19

New thread

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SummerHouse · 17/05/2020 20:34

Welcome @Wishfulthinking1977

I love it when people find us people to be their people!

highmarkingsnowmobile · 17/05/2020 20:35

Found a few like-minded people on my friends list, even!

Orangeblossom78 · 17/05/2020 20:38

Hi, glad to see a new thread Flowers

thenightsky · 17/05/2020 20:40

Checking in with the positive people. Smile

TeacupDrama · 17/05/2020 20:44

Just place marking contemplating the rain in Scotland probably ordered by Nicola in case we go out and have fun

CoachBombay · 17/05/2020 20:46

Tomorrow DS5 will be going to family, to give me respite. It's not the first time weve done it won't be the last, also gives me some productive hours to work.

The decision was made after I had some pretty dark thoughts like jumping out of the window to hurt myself badly so I could have a break in hospital 😳

OutwardBound2016 · 17/05/2020 20:47

Checking in!

Mascotte · 17/05/2020 20:48

@CoachBombay that sounds a good plan. Much better than landing in hospital 😊 Hope you get some peace, you can report here.

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Mascotte · 17/05/2020 20:49

@TeacupDrama that wouldn't surprise me!

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pollyhemlock · 17/05/2020 20:49

Placemarking

ThatLibraryMiss · 17/05/2020 20:52

OMG "dozens" "flouting"!

Turns out to be about 70 people who went home at 8.15 pm when the police told them to. Not a brilliant idea but hardly deserving of the front page of the Beeb.

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GoldenOmber · 17/05/2020 20:52

ah Coach that sounds like the best thing for all of you. Hopefully everyone and particularly you will be doing better once you've had a break.

GoldenOmber · 17/05/2020 20:53

if I never hear the word 'flout' again after all this it'll be too soon.

DamnYankee · 17/05/2020 20:54

children can’t have pencils in case they share them

^ Hilarious.

If "stay alert" is code for "use your common sense" then why not just say "use your common sense"

It's not catchy enough for some people and not dramatic enough for others. I agree, though.

Also agree the tide is turning. I'm new to MN - from the States - and I have seen a substantial shift on here in the last 10 days...

Mascotte · 17/05/2020 20:56

No sharing children! We keep our Own Things! Get back in the chalk cage

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NaturalBlondeYeahRight · 17/05/2020 21:01

Evening all, planning on having a picnic next week sometime. We might ‘accidentally’ bump into a family that we often hang out with and have our picnics side by side.

BakewellTarts · 17/05/2020 21:01

Did anyone see Lord Sumpters interview on the Beeb before the daily update? The most sense I've heard for sometime.

I'm new on the thread. But would like to join you. I'm finding the Groundhogdayness of life in lockdown is getting me down. I could use some positivity.

Nihiloxica · 17/05/2020 21:02

If ever a situation highlighted the difference between common sense and good sense, it is this.

SpnBaby1967 · 17/05/2020 21:03

Dementors will hate me, I dont give a fluff about lockdown roolz, I just want ikea open so I can get the new bed and bedroom furniture I have been saving for an was about to buy right before lockdown.

My back is shot after our bed broke, both our sets of drawers have broken and the bloody online delivery wont do half the bits I want even though it says available online.

Going to meet my friend on wednesday and have prosecco in the park, then a walk across our beautiful common. I miss hugging her though

Mascotte · 17/05/2020 21:03

Hi, @BakewellTarts! Didn't see it but I'll take a look, thank you

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CoachBombay · 17/05/2020 21:03

Thank you all. I'm currently doing the evening bedtime battle. Have been sat on the landing since 7:30pm saying "go back to bed please" every 5-10 minutes as DS opens his bedroom door. Were now at the hysterical crying stage and "mummy you are so mean" 😂 yeah mate because ensuring you have enough sleep is such a cruel thing, quick call child line 🙄

Cheekychops73 · 17/05/2020 21:08

OMG I have found my people Grin and there are fellow Scots (prisoners)on here too. By fuck I am absolutely sick of all the threads on people flouting lockdown, the virus will be here till 2100 and we must stay in the house until then and school threads. Honest to god a lot of the posters on those threads are just bloody horrible.

Anyway my crimes include lots of online non essential shite being ordered including chocolate (loads of) alcohol and meal worms for my nesting birds amongst other things. I have ordered a fair few takeaways too an my arse is getting bigger by the second. On Friday my two older boys 26 & 21 ( have their own flat) came to visit and came in the house and had dinner and introduced the youngest one DS3 5 to Star Wars. It was fan bloody tastic and we all enjoyed and needed it. I also gave one a hair cut and cuddled both of them more than once.
I am sick fed up with the shite on facebook by people I know absolutely pounding anyone who goes out and looks like their having fun. Bet the mouths all look like cats arses as they are staring out the windows all day fucking clowns.
And I don't think Nicola Sturgeon is amazing and doing a great job shes following the government rules and is only holding back on relaxing them to try to have a bit of power and sure the UK government don't even give a shite. I hold her and her government responsible for the care homes devastation and the fact that Scotland NHS didn't have enough PPE Angry

And relax Grin

GoldenOmber · 17/05/2020 21:08

Something I've been thinking of over the past couple of days is from an article that came out somewhere (Guardian?) a few months ago about protecting your mental health during all this. One of the pieces of advice was to watch out for the tendency we often have to put more weight on 'bad' news than 'good' news.

The thinking is that when we're surrounded by uncertainty and it's scary and bad, we end up assuming that the worst-case scenario is the one most likely to be true just to protect ourselves from it. But actually the thing about uncertainty is that we don't know a lot of things about the situation and therefore we can't assume that anything bad is the grim truth and anything good is clueless naivety.

It seems like through all the horror of this pandemic there have been a lot of things which didn't go as badly as it seemed like they obviously would. The NHS wasn't overwhelmed and we didn't run out of ventilators. For all the really bad hotspots there's a lot of similar parts of the world where it just didn't hit that badly and it's still unclear why. Places like Sweden have had a horrible death toll, but also haven't had the eight-times-as-horrible death toll that people were predicting. Vaccines are being developed faster than was initially forecast. There's a possibility now that some of the common-cold coronaviruses can confer immunity for this coronavirus and that lots of people already have more immunity than predicted. And so on and so on.

I still think this whole situation is awful (and I am loathing lockdown) but when I read people confidently predicting that there absolutely will be another peak in summer and it'll be even worse than this one, I remind myself of that.

highmarkingsnowmobile · 17/05/2020 21:09

A 'if you don't like masks, you won't like a vent' comment has made it on a Dementor thread. Lovely.

Drivingdownthe101 · 17/05/2020 21:10

highmarkingsnowmobile that one really fucked me off!

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