I'm off to markses, this morning, @drivingdownthe101 and I will be stocking up on ready meals. I love cooking, particularly proper curries, but I'm tired of sitting down to eat feeling flustered and resentful because, as well as my beautiful curry I've prepared 2 entirely different meals for food avoidant boys with ASD, one of which is often chasing me around, talking non stop about random shite (the other is glued to the sofa and would rather starve than lift a finger) and the only help I get from dh is if 8 leave the room and ask him for it, because otherwise he manages not to hear me, then he'll carry out whatever it is with a face like a smacked arse.