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Anti Dementors Picnic on the Beach

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Mascotte · 17/05/2020 19:19

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rookiemere · 18/05/2020 10:32

For those in Scotland, it seems very likely that golf courses will be open from next week, from our work call. Golf courses are of little interest to me - in fact was enjoying walking across them with the dog - but very positive for my work mates who do use them and hopefully means we'll see some of the other relaxations such as ability to meet a friend outside which would be great.

onedayinthefuture · 18/05/2020 10:35

@wales have just googled it, beautiful! Would love to see something like that irl.

Dowser · 18/05/2020 10:40

Sock yarn..I’m right there with you re dark nights.
I think it’s why I got into such a state at the beginning of this because after being quite poorly last year and feeling much better this year, it was going to be my year.
I feel so cheated.
Mainly because I’m coping by going out as much as I want to.
I really miss our caravan in N Yorks . We are normally there 4 nights a week.
My home is quite a chilly one, but there it’s like living in a conservatory with the sunshine flooding in all day?
Site fees are paid for and it’s sad we can’t have what we’ve paid for.
There’s only 25 vans so it’s not like there’s a 1000 people flooding the area every weekend. Its a very quiet site . I’ve never seen full occupancy.
To combat my winter blues we go to Tenerife I. October, March and December and believe me I’m ready for them, they are our health breaks...and come October I’m more than ready.

Max normal..I’m so’s sorry and sad to hear what’s happening in South Africa. I always saw it as a fairly affluent country.
My aunt and uncle went over there more than 50 years ago and my cousin was born there.

GeraltOfRivia · 18/05/2020 10:45

I can't arch Sturgeon at all. She's done my head in since I started seeing a lot of her during the indyref. Every step she takes is about her powers and not about what's best for the people. It screams out of her like a banshees wail - WHAT ABOUT MEEEEEEEEEEEEE"

Orangeblossom78 · 18/05/2020 10:48

Our dinghy is so wee we can chuck it in almost anywhere but FIL is desperate to get down and get his doer-upper on the water

Yep think we might be the same.

Orangeblossom78 · 18/05/2020 10:49

Yeah for people in flats the not going out wasn't easy. We even climbed on the roof to sunbathe through the skylight! (not the DC though)

They really need to think about people without gardens more.

Waleshasgonecompletelycrazy · 18/05/2020 10:52

@onedayinthefuture we stayed in the cottages when I was young and it’s a fabulous place for a day visit. There’s lots of hidden things and clever use of architecture. If we ever reopen the borders I’d recommend it

thesnoopdragon · 18/05/2020 10:54

Just checking in for some unashamed placemarking.

I loved the irony of the lady on the beach on the news last night.
Drove 1.5 hours and it's like being in Tesco.

DominaShantotto · 18/05/2020 10:58

Bollocks - got the day of my meeting wrong so it's longer in limbo before clarification. I want my babies back with me - not with their grandparents as day to day life here is so unbearable without social contact.

SophieB100 · 18/05/2020 10:59

Ah, a thread of sanity in an ocean of MN madness.
Please allow me to join.

I work in a school (TA) and I've been in every week since lockdown with key worker kids, I'll go back when our school opens (although it will be very limited). It's my job, I miss it, I miss the students.

I understand both sides of the argument and respect views. The thing is, sending students back is optional, so why can't posters on other threads please do what they want, and stop trying to bully others into agreeing with them? Live and let live, I say.

I social distance, I follow the rules, but I've applied my common sense from day one, and didn't need Bozzy to tell me too a week ago. My adult DD has been using my garden from the start, as she lives in a flat, and lives a few minutes away. I talk to her from the required distance, and don't need anyone from government or Jennie Harries or JVT to grant me permission. My adult son fixed my elderly father's computer for him - it was dropped off outside, fixed by son, returned by son to parent's house and other than a wipe with anti bac, it was fine. My parents needed the computer to be able to contact the outside world as their both in their 80s and apart from short local walks have little outside interaction.

I so agree with Dowser's earlier posts - I'm in my late 50s, I remember childhood diseases and taking risks was part of life. I don't want the government to wrap me up in cotton wool - I find it patronising. Some people want to be spoon fed and cossetted but that isn't living in my book, it's just existing.

Nihiloxica · 18/05/2020 11:00

12 year old asked me why she should bother getting up.

I have no answer. There is no point.

I will have to recuse myself from the thread. I've had my soul sucked out. The dementors have beaten me.

Good luck to the rest of you, I hope you make it through. #waves wanly#

Dowser · 18/05/2020 11:02

I’ve really felt for the flat dwellers, especially those that had no communal space.
My friend has been in lockdown in one, with a communal garden. Which she has made use of,She told me she’s just a short walk from the beach
She’s a fit 75 year old. I was really surprised she hadn’t taken Her exercise at the beach. Was this Becauseshe was older. She did quote that.
I’m so surprised.
She never used to be like this.
Maybe because it was southerN Ireland, I Don’t know . She was always quite the rebel.

heroku · 18/05/2020 11:05

Agh just had first proper row of lockdown with DP. He's been very stoic through all this but is being completely irrational this morning. I think it's all finally got on top of him. Apart from everything else we're also halfway through the process of buying our first home and now don't know what to do as we don't know if our jobs are secure or if house prices will tank this year. We're supposed to be telling them today what we've decided... Confused

Orangeblossom78 · 18/05/2020 11:07

Yeah the uncertainty is hard, we have been arguing also. It's stressful..

Interesting thread here, most agree about the guilting..

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3912442-To-worry-about-the-psychological-impact-of-covid-guilt

trappedsincesundaymorn · 18/05/2020 11:11

Well all the dementors will be facing an inner conflict this week won't they....do they post all the "It's Mental Health awareness week, remember you don't know what people are going through in their lives...be kind..don't judge", so they can come across as oh-so-kind? Or carry on with their dementing...."your mental health isn't important people are DYING!!" and show themselves to be the soul-less creatures they are? ..it's a dilemma alright, poor things.

KatsutheClockworkOctopus · 18/05/2020 11:12

I find myself reading here quite a lot (too much tbh)
www.england.nhs.uk/statistics/statistical-work-areas/covid-19-daily-deaths/
I wish all dementors could be made to read the actual facts before scaring people with their ill informed rantings "7000 people DIED yesterday and you want a PICNIC" etc etc.

BrightYellowDaffodil · 18/05/2020 11:15

Morning, my fellow murders. I have been on quite the spree this weekend, what with seeing my parents, going for a walk, going to get a takeaway AND riding my horse. There will be bodies littered everywhere and it will be my fault.

I've got my Times sub back - if you ring them they will give you 8 weeks for £8 (so £1/week) which should hopefully see me out of the worst of this madness. Much as I love the Guardian lifestyle section it's all I can bring myself to read - the news is just hysterical shrieking.

My FB 'snooze' button has also been very active this weekend as I have a lot of teacher friends. I don't have children so I have no skin in this particular game, but posting that "THE GOVERNMENT IS GOING TO KILL US UNLESS THE UNIONS SAVE US FIRST" (I'm paraphrasing, but only slightly) is hardly nuanced and balanced discussion.

SophieB100 · 18/05/2020 11:17

@Dowser, I would so love to be within walking distance of a beach, I crave the sea air and smell of the sea. I'm only half an hour away from the beach, but I don't have a car, so can't drive to one. What a shame your friend isn't taking the wonderful opportunity that's on her doorstep. It would be horrible for people to lose their nerve because of all the horror stories. I would have thought a walk on a beach first thing in the morning would be wonderful for both health and spirit.

DominaShantotto · 18/05/2020 11:21

@MinnieMountain that's the point where I'm going to ask for broken down detailed plans on how school are going to monitor, safeguard and support families and children struggling, rehabilitation measures for the children's mental health, repair measures for the resulting attainment gap and generally make enough of a pain in the arse of myself that they start to try to see that getting the kids who want and need to be back in, back in - is the better solution!

I'm currently compiling my bumper list of awkward questions with as many buzz words as I can muster. 15 minutes of work a fortnight is NOT going to suffice.

iamapixie · 18/05/2020 11:24

Nihiloxica
Feel for you. Am feeling the same.

LilacTree1 · 18/05/2020 11:29

Rubber “ Had a walk with my sister last night and although we have slightly differing views (plus she thinks I'm mad for being on SM/MN) ”

That’s interesting- she thinks you’re mad for being on social media full stop? My sister thinks it’s really bad for my mental health.

Orangeblossom78 · 18/05/2020 11:29

I also have a free sub to Times...it has been quite interesting, they have stuff about sew toys for women during lockdown (online classes how to use) etc as well as the usual stuff but less hysterical reporting. I like Janice Turner in particular. When my free one ran out they gave me 8 weeks for another £8 as well.

LilacTree1 · 18/05/2020 11:31

Dowser “ I’ve really felt for the flat dwellers, especially those that had no communal space.”

That’s me but I know of flats where common gardens have been closed for “safety” reasons.

RubberDinghyRapids · 18/05/2020 11:33

Lilac yep. She has no SM and recently deleted WhatsApp too (so had to hear about the year group WhatsApp frothing 3rd hand). She is much better mentally for it, and is almost definitely right. But I have lots of social contacts who use it, and us FB for information groups and marketplace so not quite ready to give it up. Probably should though.

She approved of this thread though Grin

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