Which bossy person op? Mil off offered to help chip in for some new sofas 1⃣ Xmas when dh was asked what he wanted.
Unfortunately, that meant Mil choosing our sofas. She helpfully sent her 40 year old married son some links to furniture village sofas and told him how robust and easy with small dc leather sofas are.
Dh hated them and I said I'd rather sit on orange crates than have those dismal depressing sofas in our house.
. The earlier pp comment made me laugh '' we have leather sofas so we don't have to shout at the children about pens, drinks etc ''
I have fabric white sofas and I never shout at the dc about pens and drinks.
Close up there are some of marks but I don't care. The over all look is far nicer. More comfy to sit on and I don't ever stress about marks... Scratches etc!