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are you doing the round of applause for the NHS workers?

286 replies

flossyflorenceflounces · 25/03/2020 18:59

We had a note through our door about this (good way to spread germs....) asking us to join in with a hand clap for NHS workers. Apparently we are supposed to stand on our door step at a set time and do a round of applause for them. At least 4 of my close neighbours will be getting children to sleep so I won't be doing it but will you?

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Falangalangadingdang · 26/03/2020 08:57

No I won't for two reasons.

Nhs frontline workers I know have said it's cringeworthy so I'll respect their view.

There's a danger I might actually start throwing knives at my neighbours that are deliberately flouting the stay at home within your own household rules and freely mixing. I am so angry with these grown adults I can't trust myself.

TheWordmeister · 26/03/2020 09:39

Who starts these bollocky things on Facebook? They’re the type of people that post the ‘only 2% of my friends will be brave enough to share....’ crap, or did the ice bucket challenge to ‘raise awareness’ Hmm

All utter nonsense.

firstimemamma · 26/03/2020 09:49

@TheWordmeister perfectly put!

I won't be joining in with the clap. Pointless and patronising imo.

saraclara · 26/03/2020 09:50

Sorry, it’s just this month’s #BeKind.

Yep. The nurse in my family thinks the whole thing has got out of hand. The majority of health workers aren't right up on the front line. She knows colleagues working from home who are jumping on every freebie and intend to continue to do so. Meanwhile her sister is at work with snotty kids, while putting all her efforts outside the classroom into preparing stuff for the kids at home, (who won't do it) while her profession is being criticised for not doing enough. Nurse daughter thinks it's her sis who deserves the freebies

RoryGillmoresEvilTwin · 26/03/2020 09:53

Oh my god I hate this kind of stuff. It makes my insides shrivel up.
I know it's not the same thing at all but I'm exactly the same at uni when at the end of lectures people start clapping. The lecturer always looks embarrassed.

If I clap outside my door at 8pm tonight literally no nhs workers will see me. What is the point exactly?

Milomonster · 26/03/2020 09:54

Nope. Cringeworthy. Have shown my support in practical ways.
A national clap for parents who are WFH and homeschooling - I might support that Grin

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 26/03/2020 11:28

The reason I don't like this sort of thing is what others on the thread have already alluded to. Some people jump on the bandwagon for every, single nonsense virtue-signalling activity they can find but pay no respect or attention to the causes or people generally in everyday life. That's hypocrisy and it's endemic.

The only criteria needed for such people is that whatever it is, is highly visible and popular (and copyable) across the social media platforms and it's gratuitous attention-seeking, nothing more. I don't believe they donate because that's quiet and non-public.

I do understand the church bells and I understand the flats in Paris and other similar areas. It's not so much about 'showing appreciation' as it is about social cohesion and maintaining contact.

Social media, like everything else, has good and bad. I think it's facilitated current and future generations to think that virtual equals real life. It doesn't.

SuperMeerkat · 26/03/2020 12:48

Why is everyone being so mean? Just because it’s not your thing you don’t have to be so sneery, MN at it’s finest again Biscuit

Yogawoogie · 26/03/2020 13:00

I think it’s lovely if that’s what people want to do but won’t be doing it myself because:

1 I live in the middle of nowhere so any neighbours clapping would be a couple of miles away, we just wouldn’t hear each other.
2 I’ll be at work and will be too busy to clap/listen.
3 I’m getting lots of abuse from other key workers because I’m a nurse. For half the population we’re on some kind of pedestal and for the other half we are scum getting hand outs from shops etc. (I’ve not taken any of the offers, I haven’t had time). Colleagues have been shouted at while shopping by people yelling, ‘plague’ or ‘germ spreaders’.

It’s really lovely and if it helps community spirit go for it.

PerfidiousAlbion · 26/03/2020 13:02

Oh god no, it’s cringe-worthy and attention seeking.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 26/03/2020 13:05

I didn't think I was being sneery, SuperMeerkat, just explaining why it grates with me. I don't know your lived experience and you don't know mine; I expect they're quite different. I live in what seems to be a very superficial 'community' and whilst there are pockets of people who genuinely seem to be caring and considerate of others, when the chips are down, these are few indeed.

Anything social media-focused though is very much lauded. This sort of clapping would be right up many people's street but that's where the caring would begin and end and it's very much 'angels' and 'heroes' and gratuitous displays too.

If you want an example of 'not caring', here is one. Parking is tight here, if you don't get a space in the street it's a bit of a hike. We have quite a few medical staff here, retail workers too, bus drivers, you get the picture. When these people move their cars to go to work, others in the street who are not going to work, will take those spaces. It sounds very petty but it's not. I imagine that when those workers come back from whatever shift they've been on, their first hope is to get in and rest. I doubt they'd be impressed with clapping.

Anyway, that's just my view from my own circumstances and my reasoning resulting from that, I won't deride anybody else for theirs.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 26/03/2020 13:07

That's horrendous, Yogawoogie, utterly despicable. :(

Knobblybobbly · 26/03/2020 13:08

I work for the NHS and as much as I appreciate the sentiment, I would feel mega cringe!!

TheReluctantCountess · 26/03/2020 13:09

No.

Mutedgrey · 26/03/2020 13:14

my friend sent me a video from her phone from her balcony in Spain. She works in her local hospital.
I found it really powerful to see everyone come out and acknowledge those who are putting themselves at risk to save others and making such big sacrifices to do so. She tells me it brings tears to her eyes every night.

I can’t understand all the cynicism and negativity about it.

Not every public display is virtue signalling.

AdobeWanKenobi · 26/03/2020 13:37

That sounds utterly ridiculous, sorry. If you want to support them, pay that 'just giving' coffee donation, not this nonsense

This is how I feel as well. Do something practical, standing on your doorstep clapping just feels a bit cringey.

It's actually just been on the 1 o clock news which raised an eyebrow from me.

AuntieMarys · 26/03/2020 13:41

No. I find it cringeworthy like others. My neighbour is a nurse. I've told her she's doing a great job.

Psychoseverywhere · 26/03/2020 13:54

Christ now theres a load of local TD's etc in Ireland trying to get us out at 8 tonight and clap for the HSE.

I think my neighbours would sign me into an asylum if I did it. They certainly wont be.

iklboo · 26/03/2020 14:07

Give NHS workers The Clap. Not what they need right now.

inwood · 26/03/2020 14:10

No. It doesn't achieve anything at all imo and well, it's just cringe.

RishiSunakFanClub · 26/03/2020 14:35

Someone suggested this on my nextdoor website but I think it's a bit daft. I assume they know that people appreciate what they are doing. Please don't give NHS workers the Clap Grin

Tigger001 · 26/03/2020 14:35

I think if you have NHS workers in your close then it's a nice idea, I think if it works for you then do it, a few people clapping outside their doors wouldn't offend me at our sons bedtime.

I think this has really brought back a lovely community spirit in places and if this helps then do it, if it's not your bag, don't do it.

I would prefer the government to appreciate them and give them the correct PPE while on our front line though.

Petiolaris · 26/03/2020 14:39

Stupid. I live 15 miles from the nearest hospital and none of my neighbours work for the NHS. Nobody is going to hear.

MoiraRose · 26/03/2020 14:45

It has been widely broadcast, it's not just a Facebook thing...

are you doing the round of applause for the NHS workers?
YangShanPo · 26/03/2020 14:52

I appreciate the NHS and other frontline workers but this is just not British is it. Maybe a discrete sticker in the window would be more our style.