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WWYD - school ringing to fetch sick child

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confusedofengland · 28/01/2020 11:52

So, DS3 is in Year 1, he is nearly 6. In his class of 30 DC, there were 9 children off yesterday with a sick bug. One actually vomited in class, 3 were sent home feeling sick, 5 were sick overnight & did not go in. Since DS has heard about this, he has been periodically saying he has a tummy ache, then eating & behaving as normal, very lively, eaten chocolate offered to him etc. Slept fine last night.

I was volunteering at the village library this morning, as I do each week. We are not allowed to open with less than 2 people. I also do paid work at this & other libraries all within a 15 minute drive from home. I had a call halfway through my shift, at 11am, to say DS was 'pale & complaining of a tummy ache' so could I fetch him immediately? I explained that I was working & would need to wait until 1pm as otherwise the library, which was hosting an event, would have to close. They said that was no good & I had to come immediately.

So, a customer who is also my friend, stepped in & I went to fetch DS. It took them 10 mins to fetch him from the classroom & when he came out he was eating an apple, jumping around & not pale! I took the apple from him & said that was not a good thing to eat if he had a tummy ache. He was asking for lunch & quite chatty, as normal. We came straight home (5 min walk) & I have put him to bed, saying that if he is ill he needs to get some sleep. I intend to leave him there a while then get him to do reading/writing this afternoon if he is still ok (as I suspect he will be).

Have I done the right thing or have I overreacted? I can't help but think that if I worked any distance away, as lots of parents here do, the school would not have called me & I do feel a little irritated to ge called out to a child who seems perfectly fine!

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WaterSheep · 31/01/2020 19:26

They don't seem to appreciate that omitting portions of a post is editing.

I think that's the crux of the issue here. They claim not to edit posts in a way that changes the nature of what was posted. However, omitting is editing. Removing any of the initial information means those who are reading it elsewhere aren't in possession of everything the OP posted.

Cohle · 31/01/2020 19:37

I agree WaterSheep, and given the very confused messages coming from MNHQ I'm not particularly convinced that robust procedures, or indeed any procedures, are in place to prevent user's posts being badly misrepresented.

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