13weeks pregnant boyfriend won’t move in together

[maisiemoo26]

Hi bit of a background story,

We’ve been together 2 years, I have a 7 year old
From a previous relationship, we live 40 miles
Apart, he is refusing to move into a new place together because of having to get up earlier for work and travelling. I said for him to get a job down here and he won’t as he won’t get paid as much,

The reason I don’t want to move up to his way is because daughters settled in school, my mum is my childcare so that I can work and will be there to support me once baby is here, (he has no family support network)

Am I being unreasonable wanting to end the relationship as I’m not having a baby together and not living together if that makes sense?

Sorry for the long post but it’s constantly on my
Mind :(

"Tacky"?!

I was told I’d need surgery on one of my tube before I’d be able to conceive

You should have checked your facts on that OP. You only need one working tube to get pregnant, so even if one of yours was faulty, the other one was obviously working fine.

I agree you really have done this the wrong way round. First you find a really committed relationship. It seems so easy for men to agree to a baby without wanting to commit to a woman. I find it amazing but thats the way it is. I am afraid this man is not a keeper. You very young. Maybe all too early. However now you have to put the children first

Does he have other kids?