I take my children to a weekly activity. Small groups of the same children every week. There is one woman who is a complete Queen Bee, has pretty much everyone else in the group hanging off her and completely excludes me. I was friendly with one other woman who I chatted with every week and felt I had a good connection with who has now joined this other group, she now ignores me too which I feel sad about. So imagine Queen Bee with about 3 hanging off her in a group and me sitting on my own every week. No attempts to be friendly or inclusive.
There have definitely been looks from Queen Bee but today she made a dig at me and as if she hadn't said it loudly enough repeated it just in case I hadn't heard. I had heard but chose to keep a dignified silence and pretend I hadn't heard. I raged at my DH when I got home. You don't know me or anything about me so I don't see what your problem is.
Why do some adult women feel the need to make others feel like shit? I was bullied as a teenager and thought as an adult you wouldn't have to put up with things like this but was obviously wrong. Anything else or just me?