1-10, how offended would you be if your partner called you a cunt in anger?

[AnneTwackie]

Just that, on a scale of 1-10

100. I would be very very upset. Dh has never called me names in anger and we've been together 20 years. There is no excuse for it.

110!

10, we don't call each other names in anger.

It would be off the scale.

Not being an arse, we’ve had our barneys over the years, but we’ve never sworn AT each other. Honestly

10

10

I'd be genuinely shocked and I'd either think that he must be having some kind of breakdown or that the marriage was pretty much over.

7
I've been tempted to call my DH a prick the past...
I would be more annoyed if he said something like I wish I'd never married you, or You're a horrible, uncaring mother, but not so much with cunt.
Also violence would be 10/unforgivable.

Did he apologise?

1. If said in anger I know he doesn’t mean it and I can give just as good back.

10 only because it's the highes.

It would depend if I had been.

Unprovoked and out of control anger - 100

Angry response to my (presumably) terrible behaviour - 8 - but I'd have to acknowledge my part in it

10. We love and respect each other too much.

10/10, I'd consider it vicious 😬

He would never, ever have the chance to do it again, we’d be done. My abusive (in every way) ex used to call me that, and it’s just the most vile way to speak to someone in anger. I will not have it again.

Off the scale. It would be the first and last time

10

Off the scale and I'd be gone.

He wanted to get his haircut when it was my turn for a lie in and I said no that’s not fair. After he said it I slept in the other room. He apologised but I’m still pretty shocked. We do swear at each other ‘stop being a dick’ etc but just a bit shocked.

1. Things get said in the moment in anger. I don't think cunt is that bad of a word tbh.

OP is there a reason you're asking this and do you need a hand hold?

Sorry about twelve tons of xposts xxx

I’m ok but thanks moaningminniee just checking I’m not over reacting!

Some of the responses for someone using the word cunt in anger which sounds like a one off are silly. It's a swear ffs! OP he was angry as long as he apologised and it was a one off let it go.

Would depend on tone

Said viciously 100

I’m not about to LTB but the first cunt in 14 years together does feel like a bit of turning point