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Firstly, I hardly think this is a faux pas, indeed, they seem to be getting support from the public for this. Maybe Harry should have written the letter long ago.
Secondly, you ignore the fact that no other royal has been IN this situation before, where there is a bi-racial woman marry into the Royal Family, and where there is enormous racial abuse on places like the Daily Fail. You can't say it is 'unbecoming' because a) this is a unique situation that the RF has never faced before and b) It is not something that H and M asked for. They were forced to respond to the abuse, they didn't ask for this. What you are doing, to me, is akin to victim-blaming. It's like; a bully beats up on another boy all the time, the victim suddenly has enough and finally responds with a punch back. You then call the victim's behaviour 'unbecoming'.
There would have been no need for Harry to write the letter if his wife hadn't been hounded and racially abused for months on end. I for one think they've withstood this for a long time with dignity and grace, and finally, at long last finally answered back (with grace, sensitivity, earnestness and dignity) and you are attacking them for standing up for themselves. Just wtf? Classic victim-blaming. Blaming H and M for something they never asked for, deserved and was out of their control. You cannot take an abnormal situation not of their doing, and then say they are breaking protocol for responding to a not normal situation. That is simply not logical. You compare like with like (ie baby shower with non-baby shower). You cannot compare a situation of racial abuse of the first and only bi-racial member of the RF, because, there is no other precedent that lends itself to demonstrate protocol in this situation.
We are not talking about Anne or E&S or even Fergie because they are white, not bi-racial, and not from a foreign country/foreign power. That's why. Lets be honest here. There is no need for amnesia, because no one, no one, has been able to give 1 (one) example of something they've done that disrespects or breaks royal protocol. NO......ONE. And the question in a few months when another thread pops up, will still be the same. And the answer will still be......crickets. Because the bullies on here know there is only one real true reason they are being talked about. Lets be honest here; you know it, I know it, everyone on here does, including those who hate her do. Everyone knows. If only there was 1 (one) definitive example. There is not. There never is. There won't be. Now, or 5 months down the track.