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Sat outside police station

204 replies

helpdos · 23/06/2019 15:27

Please help me. I don't know if I'm ready for my life to be turn upside down.

He's been violent for year but he's now just pushed dd off a bar stool for Sticking up for me . She's 14

OP posts:
skunkatanka · 23/06/2019 18:23

Well done OP. You've just shown your daughter what a strong woman is, how a woman deserves to be treated and how much you love her. You are a great mum. Thanks

EAIOU · 23/06/2019 18:23

Amazing news OP! Do not feel guilty or to blame.

It will be a long road for you but honestly as a stranger on the internet, I'm extremely proud of you as I can't imagine how hard it must of been.

HeronLanyon · 23/06/2019 18:24

That’s really strong. Well done.

Igmum · 23/06/2019 18:25

Well done op stay strong 💐💐

Frith2013 · 23/06/2019 18:25

Well done, OP. It’ll be hard going for a while now but worth it.

Lizsmum · 23/06/2019 18:26

Well done

GenuineKlatchianPottery · 23/06/2019 18:26

Well done OP.
Remember you have the support of every single person who has read this thread. Your friends and family will hopefully be there to help you.
That’s quite an army standing behind you.
There will always be someone here to hold your hand should you need it, no matter the time.

BrienneofTarthILoveYou · 23/06/2019 18:29

Well done Op. You're a brave lady. Stay strong Thanks

PonderingPanda · 23/06/2019 18:29

OP - where is your DD?

cannycat20 · 23/06/2019 18:30

Well done for showing courage and true grit. You have absolutely done the right thing.
Flowers Brew Flowers

Moofreemum1 · 23/06/2019 18:31

Well done OP. Stay strong, don't doubt yourself. You've done the right thing. Don't ever let this man back into your life

DramaAlpaca · 23/06/2019 18:32

Well done, OP.

Bluerussian · 23/06/2019 18:34

Proud of you, helpdos. I bet your daughter is too, you set her a great example.

You go girl!

stucknoue · 23/06/2019 18:35

Well done! I know it's hard but it's the right thing

CloudRusting · 23/06/2019 18:35

Well done OP youve done the the right thing.

Honeybee85 · 23/06/2019 18:36

Well done OP.
Your daughter will be so grateful for what you have done, perhaps now, but certainly so in the future.

You did what other women often neglect to do but what every child deserves: a mum who protects them above everything.

Flowers
ThatCurlyGirl · 23/06/2019 18:36

Well done OP you've done so well to get in there and get the ball rolling. Your daughter will be so thankful you've stood up for her and protected her Thanks

MrsAJ27 · 23/06/2019 18:38

Well done for doing this. Your Dd needs to know that you will protect her from this vile bully.

TheLibraryIsOpen · 23/06/2019 18:40

Well done OP. You have done the right thing for yourself and your DD.

BoreOfWhabylon · 23/06/2019 18:42
Flowers
Macca84 · 23/06/2019 18:44

Well done OP, you have 100% done the right thing here Flowers

Iwantacookie · 23/06/2019 18:44

Well done op.
I've been there I promise in a few weeks you'll realise how free you are Flowers

netflixlove · 23/06/2019 18:44

@helpdos You're amazing, this is the first day of the rest of your life.Thanks
Your daughter will admire you and your strength.

Mxyzptlk · 23/06/2019 18:45
Flowers
FogCutter · 23/06/2019 18:45

Well done, you are very brave and you did the right thing. Can you call women's aid for support?

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