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Sat outside police station

204 replies

helpdos · 23/06/2019 15:27

Please help me. I don't know if I'm ready for my life to be turn upside down.

He's been violent for year but he's now just pushed dd off a bar stool for Sticking up for me . She's 14

OP posts:
Nanna50 · 23/06/2019 16:56

Please say you went in Flowers

rwalker · 23/06/2019 16:57

go in they will let you go at your own pace

SAHD2020 · 23/06/2019 17:00

I'm sat here next to my wife, opposite my daughter and cannot comprehend how anyone could do that. I could never lay a finger on either of them and any man (or woman for that matter) who is violent to their wife / husband and children is the lowest form of pond life. Report him to the police ask for an emergency restraining order and don't look back!

InsertFunnyUsername · 23/06/2019 17:01

You're doing the right thing, OP. For yourself and DD.

81Byerley · 23/06/2019 17:11

I hope you went in. Thinking of you.

Lovemusic33 · 23/06/2019 17:11

Hoping OP isn’t responding because she’s gone in.

OP, please protect your dd and leave this man.

BobbyBrewstersMagicTorch · 23/06/2019 17:12

Go. Flowers

billybagpuss · 23/06/2019 17:24

If you don't go in now, what will happen next?

If you do go in, your life can begin again in safety.

All the best OP Flowers

Bluetrews25 · 23/06/2019 17:34

I hope you have managed to report this.
If your DD is not seriously hurt, you are lucky. Be aware that a fall to the ground from standing height can cause serious brain injuries. Protect her, and yourself. You are worth the hassle.

Whosorrynow · 23/06/2019 17:35

wishing you strength OP

Bobbiepin · 23/06/2019 17:44

Good luck OP Flowers

SunshineCake · 23/06/2019 17:45

I hope you went in too.

I reported the man who abused me. I went to see where the police station was and before I could get too scared went in. Within the year he was locked up. Pleaded not guilty so it went to trial and after I gave evidence he changed his plea.

It's very freeing when you stand up for justice.

hennythe100footbird · 23/06/2019 17:55

I hope to god you went in.

It's one thing him attacking you (although completely unacceptable and should be reported) but now he's attacked a child. His child. Your child. Where will this end? Probably not well unless you put a stop to it now.

We're all here if you need us Thanks

Em3978 · 23/06/2019 17:58

You have a huge crowd of people holding you up and ready to hug you when you've done it. Go for it OP. You are strong. You can do this.

MillyMoo1113 · 23/06/2019 18:01

Please go in.

You are strong enough.

You need this for you and your daughter.

Handhold Thanks

emkoda · 23/06/2019 18:05

Do it do it do it do it do it.
Your life is not about to be turned upside down, it has been upside down and now you are going to set it the right way up.
Nobody, not one single person of the seven or so billion random people on the planet, gets to be abusive to you.
Strength, courage, and love.

TenDays · 23/06/2019 18:06

Go in, you know it's the right thing.

mummymayhem18 · 23/06/2019 18:15

I hope you went in and have made the first step to getting your life back. No one deserves to be treated like that. Be brave and think of you and your daughter ❤️

helpdos · 23/06/2019 18:15

I've done it. He's getting arrested . Just waiting to hear when he's removed . They are going to arrest him

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mineofuselessinformation · 23/06/2019 18:17

Well done OP.
You've made the best move forward for your dd and for yourself.
And remember, he's the one who chose to turn your life upside down; you're the one trying to do the right thing.

greyrockblock · 23/06/2019 18:19

Well done OP Thanks

lastqueenofscotland · 23/06/2019 18:19

OP well done. Flowers

Satsuma1234 · 23/06/2019 18:19

Well done OP. You’ve done the right thing.

Clusterfukt · 23/06/2019 18:21

Well done, OP. Absolutely bloody well done.

DrCoconut · 23/06/2019 18:21

Going for a child is definitely a turning point in this scenario and a scary escalation. Today is your freedom day. In years to come you will be able to look back on it as the day your life changed forever, in a good way. Mine's 28th May ❤️

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