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Can't say it to someone's face? Come and say it here.

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Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

OP posts:
DogHasEatenTheSqueaker · 15/06/2019 10:18

You’re an absolute cunt For screwing your child up with your behaviour, drinking and abuse. And for continuing to deny any fault and blame a child for the destruction you have caused. I’m now dealing with the devastation you’ve caused and trying to piece together a broken child who blames themselves for everything, while you continue to whine and wail about how much you miss your baby, and how devastated you are and that a child shouldn’t be away from their mother. Take a fucking look at your behaviour.

And while we’re at it, a big fuck you to your family, your childs grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins, none of whom have sent so much as a text since child was moved out of your home and in to ours when it just got too much. Fuck you all too. Apple evidently doesn’t fall far from the rotten tree.

madcatladyforever · 15/06/2019 10:23

Ok here we go:
For 18 years I have been loyal to you, put up with your shitty behaviour, your constant sex pestering, paying off all of the shitty debt you keep getting yourself in and you squandering my money.
I am fed up with following you around while you constantly do your hobbies none of which you are good at and none of which interest me.
I was fed up with having to take responsibility for work and everything while you just spent years doing whatever you wanted.
Fed up with you making my birthday and xmas miserable every year because you just couldn't be bothered, my 50th went unmarked, I had to arrange my own family party. And it's pretty difficult to do that as I'm easy to please, all I want is to know someone cares for me a little bit.
You are bone idle, not attractive to look at and selfish to the bone.
So after all of that I expected you to step up to the mark when I became ill, but not you, you dumped me leaving me with no money and I almost lost everything I had worked for over the years because of you. It's taken me three years after almost losing my home to build myself up again, get well and sort my finances out.
Despite your shitty behaviour I still remained friendly with you until you suddenly ghosted me for no apparent reason - oh yes and did I mention you are an abject coward too, talking to someone about your feelings is beyond you, you just ghost them.
Do you have any idea how pathetic you are, a late middle aged man going to fetish nightclubs in rubber, you are a walking joke, you can't dance and you look ridiculous.
Well the reality of you has finally hit me, you have finally managed to lose the only person in the world who cares about you and you have got yourself head over heels in debt again but this time don't ever think of coming here for help - I will never ever help you again. As far as I'm concerned you are dead.
When I'm having a great life because I've worked damned hard for it you will probably end up sleeping rough the way you are going with no friends and I will never ever help you again. You are on your own.

MsLumley · 15/06/2019 10:26

Being an admin for a local residents FB group doesn't make you important or respected. In fact all of the residents fucking hate you. And you don't work for MI5, you have some crappy part time job checking references.

QueenRefusenik · 15/06/2019 10:36

I'm actually really upset you watched those episodes of Game of Thrones without me. Yes I know it sounds ridiculous but that was the only thing we actually did together any more and now I'm wondering if there's any point us actually being together and I really don't want 10yrs to go down the tubes because of a fucking TV show

revengepudding · 15/06/2019 11:32

QueenRefusenik

I would be annoyed about that too. I don’t watch that programme but a shared activity is a shared activity. That was just mean.

Firstlovefondlyremembered · 15/06/2019 11:39

(NC) Did your son wonder who you were texting last night? I bet you had a smile on your face. Did he ask who I was? I missed you over the years, and love that we are back in touch again.

princessspotify · 15/06/2019 11:41

You made my life at work hell for 6yrs You are toxic. Your so called work friends slag you off behind your back.
One day I will report you our professional governing body.

madcatladyforever · 15/06/2019 11:52

And while we're at it to my boss fuck off with your comments about my shoes, uniform, hair, face. I'm 30 years older than you and it's not a fashion parade. I look smart and wear makeup, I didn't think I also had to lose weight and go to a hairdresser every morning.
Also fuck off with nit picking every damned thing that I do.
I've been offered a very good job elsewhere and I'm about to dump you for them.

revengepudding · 15/06/2019 12:08

No, you don’t get to call me a liar to cover for yourself and still expect me to do the stuff I used to do for your family FOR FREE. You are on your own now. Good luck!

QueenRefusenik · 15/06/2019 12:44

Thanks revengepudding, I haven't said anything because I was worried it was petty but tonight I'm going to wait till ds is in bed then swan off to the cinema alone to see Godzilla rather than wait to see it together. Sod him.

Banhaha · 15/06/2019 12:48

Please just flush the toilet and wash your hands. It's not hard. I'm fed up of having to see your mess when I go to the loo.

Ceebeegee · 15/06/2019 12:53

I'd have respected a "thank you but no thank you " message. No worries and no hard feelings. But ghosting me is shitty. It says more about you than it does me. Blocking me on everything without any explanation is shitty. Future faking is shitty. Not being honest is shitty. Telling me you can't wait to see me again and then two hours later blocking me is shitty.
Can't believe I fell for all your bullshit.
You're a coward. So much you don't even have the balls to say "it's not working for me ". You would rather disappear without explanation after two almost three months

And i can't tell you all of this . But wish you could know.

Blimey. That feels better.

ShowboxCollection · 15/06/2019 13:02

You are shit parents. You ridicule your son because he earns more than you. You tell him he doesn’t have a “proper job” because he’s in an office, not doing manual labour. 😐.

You have enabled your daughter to the point she is unemployable, relying on handouts and has the functionality of a stroppy teenager, simply because you wanted her to need you and not be independent. She is in her late 40s. She also has such low self esteem that she lives with anyone - that means sleeping with them - who’ll pay her bills now that you’ve retired and can’t give her the money.

Your grandchildren hate you, some aren’t allowed to see you, because you badmouth their parents. Two of them have been treated for depression and cite parental alienation as part of the cause of their worry. Remember when you told your granddaughter that “Daddy was a baddy”?

That fucked her up. Are you proud?

00Sassy · 15/06/2019 13:31

Thanks for ‘helping’ her after her baby died by saying she could stay with you for as long as she needed and then changing your mind after a few weeks stating that ‘it’s been a while now, time to start moving on’

Now she’s fucking homeless and grieving.

Thanks a lot.

mrsmagoo · 15/06/2019 13:52

You and your fellow hun bots might not know the difference between turn over and profit but I do! You cant fool me with your "wow, the CEO turns over £1m a year". I've seen her in RL. She does not look like she lives the life of a millionaire!

Sis- yes people like you better than they like me. Yes you are more fun. You are also utterly false and fake. My few friends are real friends. We dont sit around and bitch about our other friends. And no, you don't look early 30s. You are obviously Mid 40s. Maybe if you didn't wear so much make up you might look better.

AguerosAngel · 15/06/2019 14:01

All I ever tried to do was be your friend. Our kids (high school age) fell out, your utter weasel of a DS decided to verbally bully my DS and blamed it on another child when called out on it, and then completely denied it when confronted by my DS, the HOY and the other child.

YOU then decided to tell further lies about my DS at his sports club so we removed him and told all the other parents why.

You are a fucking nasty, vindictive cow and I’m so fucking glad you’re struggling to lose weight, eat less and get off your fat backside instead of wasting money on diet pills and skinny coffee rubbish, you absolute dickhead!

You May also wish to think about a couple that you call your very good friends, they are in fact guilty of exactly the same thing that you slag other parents on the sports team off for!!

Wallhanging · 15/06/2019 14:17

You don’t get to send a father's day card to my husband from my son just because he is your son. Are you implying I wouldn’t buy anything or remember? You’ve had your turn at being the mummy, it’s my turn now, go away.

mommybear1 · 15/06/2019 14:25

Yes I'm sure if you had my baby overnight over my dead body he would sleep for you. His lack of sleep is of course our fault nothing to do with his sleep apnea.

WhyDoIAlways · 15/06/2019 15:55

I can't stop thinking about you Sad

minisoksmakehardwork · 15/06/2019 15:58

Sister. I know when you're getting married. I don't know why the big secret. Your fiancé is a dick and you aren't much better. I wish you both luck.

Threedaysaweek2019 · 15/06/2019 17:01

So ‘Mum and Dad’ you’ve moved away from the area and told no one, only the person you have manipulated into thinking that it’s you that’s hard done to.

Now, I don’t really care that you moved out of the area. Believe me, it’s the best ever news for many reasons, but to not bother to tell my niece, your other granddaughter, that you moved out is disgusting. Just because she talks to me, one of three daughters who are all NC with you, she didn’t deserve to be punished because of this.
She only found out through her Dads parents by accident.

You have missed out on a lovely great grandchild with the most gorgeous infectious smile ever. More fool you. And shame on you.
I fucking hate you. I have no other feelings for you.

Threedaysaweek2019 · 15/06/2019 17:06

Ah, that was sooooo cathartic.....

Threedaysaweek2019 · 15/06/2019 17:32

....oh, and as for the above, MIL, I’m not telling you that they have moved out.

I know you are fishing for information because you like a bit of gossip. You hate that you ‘haven’t seen them for ages’.

But seeing as you think us ‘little women’ should always look after our parents no matter how bad we have been treated, because we are well, just that. I’ll keep you guessing ...😜

Oldraver · 15/06/2019 17:37

You must be a total utter stupid idiot to think having wet hair will give me meningitis...

as opposed to "dont be daft"

TravellingSpoon · 15/06/2019 17:44

You look down on my job and make little jibes about me quitting. The reason I don't is because I want to be financially independent from you. I will not be left in the situation you left me in last time. I have moved on but I haven't forgiven you and I don't trust you.

Manager at work - you got the job by default and you are shit at it. Grow up and learn to apologise.