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Can't say it to someone's face? Come and say it here.

608 replies

Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

OP posts:
Jb291 · 15/06/2019 01:40

No I am not fucking okay. My baby is gone and nothing is ever going to be right ever again. He was six months old and my heart is in pieces. How can you think that somehow by now I should be ok. I've lost my son and you don't even seem to take on board that I lost a child and I am grieving.

Wavyheaded · 15/06/2019 01:42

You're childish, whiny, silly and affected, can't believe you're a grown woman.. i hate your victim mentality and hard done by attitude, everyone has to accommodate you and bend over backwards so that YOU'RE happy, otherwise you will keep on complaining. And you think you're so 'quirky' but you're actually just a self obsessed, boring drama queen. Your stupid delusions and paranoia are dull. Not everyone is as obsessed with you as you are.

You're a grown man. Stand on your own two feet and stop expecting everyone else to carry you. Earn your own fucking money.

Tara336 · 15/06/2019 01:46

You’ve been a shit friend the last two years. It’s always one drama after another that takes up your every waking moment. It’s amazing how you have the only mobile phone on the planet that doesn’t work anywhere unless you want it too. Sending me a message once every few months and reading my reply weeks later is not a friendship and I’m sick of it.

ShowerOfShite · 15/06/2019 02:00

Stop pretending to be helpless. It's bullshit. I can't believe I've got lumbered with you. Your family are cunts. And STOP rewriting history. I wish you weren't my mum.

vodkaredbullgirl · 15/06/2019 02:01

You only been in the job 8 months and you already brown nosing the management.

UserFriendly14 · 15/06/2019 02:05

Wake up and smell the coffee. He’s a waste of space and you know it, you just can’t bear being alone and need to feel wanted by a man. You say you can work it out with a man who is violent towards you. You say that your kids know nothing of it but, trust me love, they know all what’s going on. What does he actually bring to your relationship or life? I’m only around because I know one day you’ll need someone to pick up the pieces. I know you hate telling me what’s going on because I’ll judge. Nope I just have my eyes open to it all.

Lipz · 15/06/2019 02:28

Stick your party up your hole. I hate your parties. I hate your lies , I hate your falseness. When I said the first 300 times I wasn't going that didn't mean for you to send me 8 messages this week asking was I going !!!

Laurajjj · 15/06/2019 02:40

Stuff the little circle of friends. Most of the good ones have left the circle anyway. The only ones left are the childless singletons who are desperately clinging onto each because they have fuck all else in their lives whilst fast approaching their 40s.

Basilneedswaterandsun · 15/06/2019 02:42

Dear patients
When I ask what’s wrong please just give me the RELEVANT information.

sqirrelfriends · 15/06/2019 02:47

Stop parking in front of my house and honking. It's annoying and it wakes the baby up.

Also stop parking in front of my house at all, you live two minutes walk down the road, stop being so lazy and clogging up an already narrow road.

cranetime · 15/06/2019 06:10

I do not stop your son from seeing you you stupid old bag, if he doesn’t visit it’s because he doesn’t want to.

I do not stop him from buying and sending you and your nasty family presents. Do you really think I could stop a grown man from doing that? How would I even know?

I bought and sent the presents for a decade and every year you complained that they weren’t good enough. YOU COMPLAINED ABOUT GIFTS. FREE GIFTS! So I don’t do it anymore, I leave it to your son. He can’t be bothered. Hard luck. You should have been nicer.

Crunchymum · 15/06/2019 06:30

I absolutely and categorically don't want to go to my siblings weddings. Am still hurt after our massive falling out (which included being called a cunt at 6 months pregnant and ending up being a few thousand pounds out of pocket). I don't want my kids in the wedding party and I wish you had never invited us. You don't want us there, you just feel we should be as our other siblings are there.

To my sibling, I cannot stand your partner, they bring out the very worst in you. They create drama and chaos and your life is going to be a struggle with them and their nightmare family.

belle40 · 15/06/2019 06:33

I hope you continue in your miserable self absorbed life. How dare you use my young child to try and engage me while dengrating me professionally. You are absolutely hideous. We are not 'friends'. When I leave this toxic work environment you will not be 'coming to visit'. You will have no idea where we are.

ExhaustedGrinch · 15/06/2019 06:43

I don't forgive you. You both ruined my childhood, destroyed the little girl that was and left me in her place. I smile and say everything is fine, it doesn't matter etc but it's not fine and it DOES matter. I know you have regrets but they don't change that I live with the trauma daily. Yet now, you both come to me for comfort, you both rely on me emotionally when you were never there for me when I needed you most. Still, I carry on playing the charade, because I'm too fucking nice to tell you what I really think and because you'll both play victim and tell the world what an awful bitch I am (failing to mention WHY).

90percentvodka10percenthuman · 15/06/2019 07:08

I hate your son living with us. Neither you or your ex wife raised that kid so I don’t understand how you’re surprised he’s got to 20yrs old and chooses to smoke drugs, play video games and ponce money off his dgm instead of working.
And no. He hasn’t got malicious ex girlfriends. I could maybe believe if only one of them had said that he raped them but two? No, I believe them. The man child is a scum bag and I really wish I didn’t have to have him in my home

BigusBumus · 15/06/2019 07:27

I'm sorry (not sorry) I dumped you all those years ago for being boring and crap in bed. I turned down your proposal and fled. 20 years later you're obviously getting your own back by being publicly mean, but you're still a dull, tedious bore so up yours, Twat.

Ellie586 · 15/06/2019 07:27

I wish you could see living with someone who won't let you have access to money won't allow you friends is abuse. Being with someone who times your journeys home from work checks your phone and makes you even too scared too read stuff on the internet in case she finds out is wrong on every level. She doesnt love you she wants to control you !!! Please see that and get away..

Longdistance · 15/06/2019 07:46

You are irritating me and other colleague. Stop talking about your last place of work like you still work for them. We don’t need organising as we’ve done an amazing job without you so far. Stop crawling up everyone’s arse too, your brown nosing is beyond extraordinary and no we don’t need ‘help’,if we need help we’d ask, our jobs are all different, do your own job and stop flapping because you’re behind in your work.
Your spelling and grammar are atrocious, and your attention to detail is also rubbish.
Also, stop trying the micromanage us, you’re NOT our boss you’re the same level as us you twat!

And relax...

Mummaofmytribe · 15/06/2019 07:47

You were abusive to her. Yes, I did help her get away from you. I actually told her she should leave. I love you so much but you are turning into a tyrant and a bully. It's your fault you don't see the child. I believe you're only going to Court to get one over on her. I don't believe it's because you really want the best for the child. You could already be seeing it if you made the effort. Stop blaming everyone else. I didn't raise you to be so hard and aggressive. I'm in despair.

BBQsAreSooooOverrated · 15/06/2019 08:03

I have no interest in your vow renewal, it's been 5 years since you got married ffs. Everyone thinks one of you has had an affair.

BillywigSting · 15/06/2019 08:10

@Jb291 I'm so so sorry, that doesn't bear thinking about, no wonder you're not ok

Flowers for you

stephanielittl7 · 15/06/2019 09:38

To M please dont suddenly take an interest in my life cos for the last few weeks you havent bothered. You know where i live but i dont see you at all. Unless you want something that is. Its taken me years to realise that you have walked all over me cos you think im an easy touch. Well no longer.

To C You are you and i wouldnt want you any other way. You have the confidence to do anything but all the crap you have been through has affected you. Believe in yourself and never be sorry.

formerbabe · 15/06/2019 09:43

To every single one of my in laws.

My dh deserves a better family than you.

LadyofDispleasure · 15/06/2019 10:07

No, I'm not jealous of you or intimidated by you, or whatever else it is you tell yourself; I just think you're a nasty, shit-stirring piece of work who is best avoided.

SeeeeMoreStars · 15/06/2019 10:11

Yes I'm happily married and you've seen me with him. Yes you have a girlfriend. But you're my secret crush and I've done so many things to you in my dreams... I can hardly look at you...