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Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

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IntoValhalla · 14/06/2019 15:28

To the family member who’s not spoken a single word to me in 2 years, yet has invited me to your baby shower:
Are you running low on friends to give you presents? Is that why you’ve invited me?
Quite frankly I’d rather stay at home and staple my fanny flaps to the carpet Hmm

Grandadwasthatyou · 14/06/2019 15:28

Stop monopolising every single training course I've ever had the misfortune to attend when you're there as well.
As soon as I hear your voice on approaching the meeting room I groan inwardly.
There are other people there too who have stories they would like to tell. It's not the S show. ( S being the offender's name).
I know other people think the same by the way they look at me when you're holding forth.

Shut the fuck up and give somebody else a chance to speak. ( one of these days I'm going to say that out loud rather than just thinking it).

Enb76 · 14/06/2019 15:29

Hmm - to the man who smiled and winked at me in my meeting. I think you're rather fine but as we're in a work context so I shall do absolutely nothing about it.

Grandadwasthatyou · 14/06/2019 15:30

Enb76... I'll swap places with you!

babyno5 · 14/06/2019 15:32

I am sick to death of everything being on your terms. Even a simple conversation turns into a drama. You never ever see things from my perspective

Namechangeishardenoughonce · 14/06/2019 15:37

I wanted you so much and went through so much to have you, I know you can’t help ADHD/ASD but you are breaking my heart with your meltdowns and hateful behaviour. From when you first screamed “fuck off bitch” age 11 my heart was shattered. 5 years later and I’m starting to not even like you at all.

allinmyhead12 · 14/06/2019 15:37

if you mention your weight loss one more f***g time when we all know it because of the meds you have been subscribed and not eating properly and not due to hard work at the gym and not every fancies you just because you have big boobs.....you cannot change your face

i feel a bit better but also a bit of a bitch....im no oil painting either but 8 hours of look at me while im struggling to lose a pound apart from out of my purse to buy food to make me feel better can wear a girl down

Honeybingbong · 14/06/2019 15:37

I’m not lucky or thankful that my dad didn’t get the chance to molest me or my children.
That is the lowest bar possible you could ever set for a parent.
He’s dead because he chose it. He couldn’t face that a brave young girl had the balls to speak out so denied her the chance of justice.
HE WASNT YOUR DAD how dare you make him out to be a saint on Facebook on the run up to Father’s Day for pity likes to people who don’t know the truth.

Pepperoniextracheese · 14/06/2019 15:44

Over the last few days it's hit me how little you've done to prepare for this baby. You've read the baby book and picked up a single packet of vests. We have everything we need now but only because I've sorted it.

The worst bit is you think you've done loads since I've been pregnant becaused you do the cat litter and the hoovering. Which for some reason always seemed to be my jobs.

I feel like all of my fears about how a baby would change the dynamic between us are coming true and I dont know how to stop it. I don't know how to talk to you because you'll be so upset and defensive. I don't want to hurt you but things need to change.

FookMeFookYou · 14/06/2019 15:45

You're a disloyal fair weather bitch and I hope it hurt getting a taste of your own medicine Grin

FookMeFookYou · 14/06/2019 15:47

@Namechangeishardenoughonce I'm with you on that one

notmylittleangel · 14/06/2019 15:48

Your children are nasty, pathetic little bullies.
They are very
Immature and will hopefully have their heads flushed by someone bigger 1st day at secondary school.
The class isn't wonderful and won't be missed.
You are an awful bunch of parents and that's why your kids are vile

BlueMerchant · 14/06/2019 15:50

Please can you help out more at home rather than having to be told what needs doing all the time. Fucking tiresome. I really resent you.

SherlockHolmesPipe · 14/06/2019 15:51

You are an arsehole of the highest order. A misogynistic, racist, inbred, gun loving, fat, ugly, old, childish, fake tanned, materialistic, embarrassing wanker with hair that would not look amiss on Barabara Cartland's poodle.
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TheMonaOgg · 14/06/2019 15:52

You DS has spent the last 4 weeks in hospital and you couldn't be bothered to interrupt your fucking life to come and see him even once you disgusting shit stain of a father.

CreakingKnees · 14/06/2019 15:53

For god's sake woman, will you just shut up!! Every word that you utter is a bloody lie, you know it, i know it and everyone else at work knows it. You lie so much that you even bloody contradict your lies.
You have to enter into and dominate a conversation, every conversation, even if you weren't part of the initial conversation, with more shit and lies.
Your pathetic and no one likes you.

Ooof, that feels better Grin

TheMonaOgg · 14/06/2019 15:53

*your

thebear1 · 14/06/2019 15:55

You are all individually nice decent people, why can't you all just get on?

TokyoSushi · 14/06/2019 15:56

Your family is more important than you work, and if you carry on, your fucking work is all you'll have! Argh!

BearSoFair · 14/06/2019 15:56

Don't flatter yourself. You're not George Clooney, you really aren't that attractive, no one is even giving you a second glance.

QueenMabby · 14/06/2019 15:57

You are a little shit. My dd has been sobbing her heart out at night because of your nasty ostracising behaviours. I want to talk over you, turn my back on you and blank you in the corridor to see how you like it. Your behaviour makes you a really nasty individual.

Peachesandcream14 · 14/06/2019 16:02

I wish you would stop offering 'support' that is nothing of the sort, ending with me more trapped and depressed than I was before, it's only purpose is to make sure people don't see that you are a shitty, uncaring parents. I will not pretend to be ok to make you feel less guilty about fucking me up with your emotional neglect. I'm sticking with one DC almost entirely because your favouritism of DB when I was a child, I would never put anyone through that. I just haven't got the strength to cut you all out of my life yet but I'm getting there.

Tonightstheteriyakichicken · 14/06/2019 16:02

I know you miss your dad and Sunday will be tough no matter how many go on about how tacky, commercialised and unimportant Father's Day is.

Potplant · 14/06/2019 16:02

You’re not a good dad.

Outlookmainlyfair · 14/06/2019 16:05

Why do you need to feel superior to me, FFS you are my mother!

Why are you sobbing about loosing a friend when you behaved so badly. I could have coped with the lies, the treating me like a skivvy if you had apologised or even explained, but instead you sobbed at me then ghosted me. I can honestly say it will be a relief and pleasure never to see you again.