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Can't say it to someone's face? Come and say it here.

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Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

OP posts:
Jessie9323 · 19/03/2020 11:16

The government can't help or please everyone in such an unprecedented situation and your continuous posts about how Jeremy fucking corbyn would be doing better make me want to kick you in your vag!

TheReluctantCountess · 19/03/2020 11:22

Why have you treated me like this? I’ve given all I have.

Ursula2020 · 19/03/2020 11:39

You are not a "small business" requiring support. You have a full time job which will still be paying you and this is extra

EdersonsSmileyTattoo · 19/03/2020 16:52

We all know you are widowed, we all know it was totally shit and unfair that he was relatively young when he passed away and we were ALL devastated when we lost him.

But please, it has been not far off 10 years since he died and you should have some level of acceptance that he’s gone, every single conversation we have ends up coming back to him, every single time!

I’ve sat and held your hand for hours, mopped up your tears after too much wine, dropped everything to come to you when you weren’t coping so you can’t say that I’ve not been there for you.

But please, please go to the counselling I arranged for you and you’re becoming to much of a weight for me to carry any more and you’re affecting my mental health.

I can talk about this to anyone except the person concerned as I get accused of not caring, threats of suicide etc, so I’m not being a bitch, I care about this person hugely

duvetaddict · 20/03/2020 20:09

I know you're waiting for me to check you're ok but I'm not ok and you've never bothered to ask! But I can't tell you how crap you've made me feel because you're pregnant and that means that you're the only person that matters. Not that you're any less selfish when you're not pregnant!

JoshLymanIsHotterThanSam · 20/03/2020 20:32

Your drinking is out of control. I think it’s going to end what is a good marriage otherwise because you can’t keep away from the stuff. I wouldn’t mind but I was starting to feel positive that you were being more sensible about it but then I discovered you had a couple of cans at work yesterday and now I’m back where I started wondering exactly when I should say enough is enough.

quasimodo7 · 20/03/2020 20:35

My hub and I have a set of unprintable nicknames we call you. When you turned up at my new address against advice to frighten me we laughed, and still do, at your claim you spent "thousands " on a private investigator to find where I lived.....real waste of money and a crap P I as they didnt seem to notice the huge man I married who answered the door to the address, which caused you to s**t your pants and run down the road faster than Usain Bolt, but backwards....quite a skill. Just needed benny hill theme tune to add to the humour, you cruel, narcissistic, dead beat dad cowardly bully! Investigate that you clown! Grin P.S my hub spotted you in the supermarket perving off behind your new wife's back at girls young enough to be your daughter....so did the security guys who thought you were gross. Nice!

NoNameNoGame · 20/03/2020 20:35

Stop starting every sentence off with "when you've got 3 kids"...

GabrielleChanel · 20/03/2020 20:38

Ugh
Your first world problems are really starting to piss people off.
You will have no friends left at all if you don't cop on to this

Iwonder777 · 20/03/2020 20:42

I wish I'd known I could say no to you. And that I was worth more.

Fandoozle1 · 20/03/2020 20:44

You are an awful boss, we are on our knees trying to get medication to people and you are making work such a toxic environment.
Once coronavirus is dealt with I will be leaving as the minimum wage I get isn't enough to put up with your shit and the demands of everyone and their cat.

spongedog · 20/03/2020 20:49

I am a parent of a child with severe special needs. I get it. The struggles, the distrust, the anger. But why the fuck are special needs parents so stupid and ignorant at times. Their requirements for their child are more than anyone or any system could ever give. Yet they go onto social media and wind everyone up as to how unfair it is. Can they not understand that NOTHING will ever take away their child's problems. And no country can afford to routinely spend £50K+ per annum for 1 child. Sorry if that has offended anyone on here, but I really have had enough of some of the special needs forums.

Ilady · 21/03/2020 02:59

Dear L,
I know what's happened in your life over the past few weeks.
The reality is that you have no idea that Z your partner and the father of your child has been in contact with me for the past three months despite you trying to prevent this.
You had no idea that one of Z and mines mutual friends told him him IIady was asking about him. He contacted me then.
The truth is we were planning to meet up within the next few weeks before the clovid 19 virus became part of all our lives.
Now Z is sick. I am waiting to hear from in regards to recent health tests.
I know about all his existing health conditions. I hope he does not have what he was tested for because it will be serious for him.
We both know that you don't really care about Z. You got together with him because he had a house, job and money. Then you got pregnant quickly. You used the baby you had with him to further your own long term aims.
Along with this you have sent nasty messages and been ignorant to people.
The truth is you don't care who you use or walk over in order to get what you want. You have caused a lot of trouble with people in the past and this will come back on you yet.
I will meet Z once this clovid thing is over. I don't know what will happen between us then but I know he is keen for me to have sex with him.
The reality is that your not as smart as you think you are. Your current circumstances are far from ideal and long term you not going to get all you expect either.

Jennywasafriendofminee · 21/03/2020 06:25

I wrote and deleted so many times...I'll just draw a card for you...

The Six of Swords is a card famous for not being able to forgive, let alone forget. Many a Tarot reader will advise you to try this and it may sound to you like fingernails scratching a chalkboard.

Sounds about right to me.

OhSweetNuthin · 21/03/2020 06:35

What do you mean "I hope it's okay but"
It's clearly fine you virtue signalling attention seeker, you just want everyone on FB to know what a 'good' person you are. Fuck off. If you do good things for others, just do them - as soon as you tell FB all about it for no reason, it's not a good deed, it's self-promotion. Twat.

AsAnActualWoman · 21/03/2020 06:37

Stop skiving off work you lazy bastard, if you have time off during this coronavirus no one will believe you because you're a SHIRKER.

fudgefeet · 21/03/2020 06:40

I don’t care how much your enjoying homeschooling and that you are all going for 30 min runs each day. Your pushy and boring. My finger is hovering over the remove button on the WhatsApp group everyday!

crunchiebabe · 21/03/2020 06:46

You complete and utter bastard. You lived off your reputation for years ... the facade of a kind , decent man. The reality was completely different. But karma is a bitch .... your time has come and I'm watching you fall deeper and deeper ... you tried to destroy me , make me homeless and take my children... you did not succeed .... I fought you and I fought you hard.
I an stronger than you'll ever know. So relieved it's over and I've got what I wanted and much much more. I get to keep the beautiful house, my sanity and most importantly the children ... they see you for what you are and wish for nothing to do with you. So as we skip happily into our future I can say I get much pleasure from your immense downfall and the repercussions that you will endure for the rest of your miserable life!
Your actions will not define us , they define you ...

RobynSH · 21/03/2020 06:53

No we won't be having any "sneaky play dates" you fucking idiot. So don't tell my kids that.

The health of my immediate family is much more important to me than your dragged up offspring getting on your nerves.

Also - if it was really true that you're in a high risk category like you've been bleating on about for the last two weeks then make don't fucking smoke 40 a day and stop going out all over the place.

Dickhead.

Dubdubdubtub · 21/03/2020 07:53

I don’t know why you value your daughter so much over your son, she is selfish little bitch and your son my husband is worth a million of her. You have made her the way she is and one day you won’t be around to shield her from life and make all the excuses for her. I have spend year building up your sons confidence as you made him feel so inferior to her and he is finally going for the career he should have gone for 20 years ago. It’s has taken that long to fix the damage. I just hope one day you realise before you die but I doubt it

EdithSitwell · 21/03/2020 08:34

I’d like to say to a group of people local to me, “You are all fucking idiots!” A week ago a friend, NHS nurse working on the frontline, got into an argument with a person on FB. My friend said this person should not have gone out to a pub restaurant with a large group of friends and explained politely exactly why. Cue pile on by said person and her friends. Comments like “we are not going to be told what to do by anyone” and “grow the fuck up - we are supporting small businesses”. Situation has worsened since then. Hope they’re ashamed but I suspect they’re still defiant.

KurriKawari · 22/03/2020 16:33

If you decide you're going to keep your current job and take the promotion, thereby doing two jobs out of choice, and removing the only career development opportunity for your staff, then don't expect sympathy when you complain that you have too much on.

Zena1973 · 22/03/2020 23:09

Having the need to tell the world on social media of your good deed as a landlord ended your good deed and became self promotion...what you have done is amazing and kind, promoting it for ego strokes isn't.

WildUnknown · 23/03/2020 21:47

We SAID you would do this! You don't have the temperament, you never did, and you were never going to.

Literally 5 seconds in and you can't cope

I hated you before this, I hope this finally exposes you as the utter fraud you are.
I have waited years for this. And I will be VERY vocal about you if this ultimately results in some kind of enquiry.

Ilady · 10/04/2020 04:24

Dear P,
Do you what I have had enough of the I am to busy, I can't chat now ect. Over the past 6 months I have heard this once to often. You have let me down several times as well at the last minute.
Yet when you need something you expect me to drop all, to be their and or to get what you want. I was not ringing you about Z. You made your feelings clear when I told you he was back in contact with me. As a result I tell you very little about Z.
I had something to tell you that was important to me. I needed a bit of support but once again you let me down.
I have put you in a position that you have to step up now and being honest if you don't I won't be running the next time you need me.