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Can't say it to someone's face? Come and say it here.

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Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

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TheSmallClangerWhistlesAgain · 14/06/2019 22:08

SIL, we've all worked out that you're pregnant again. Obviously it's for you and DB to decide when to tell us, but no-one will be surprised. Oh, and congratulations, obviously.

S, the self-pity is unbearable. Please stop before you push absolutely everyone away.

ladygracie · 14/06/2019 22:11

You fucking liar. And such a pointless lie as well. Did you think I wouldn’t find out?? If you lied about that, what the fuck else do you lie about? I am so cross and upset 😢. Again.
I feel much better - great idea for a thread 😊

GiggleMcDimples · 14/06/2019 22:14

Shut the fuck up you hypochondriac!

Talcott2007 · 14/06/2019 22:16

99% of your current problems can be traced back to the fact that YOU that had an affair with a colleague rather than just end the unhappy relationship with your husband - yet you are seriously surprised that he is being difficult about 'everything' after he caught you actually having sex with another man in the bed you shared with him! Yes your husband was always a bit of a dick but you have lost all the moral high ground now!

feathermucker · 14/06/2019 22:23

Fuck you and your 2 facedness. Fuck your attitude, fuck your hypocrisy.

Your mask will fall eventually. I'll be there to see it. You deserve to fall from grace.

You will be shown up for the absolute bitch you are.

TheToxicCoccyx · 14/06/2019 22:24

You are the cult leader my dear. Not him. All will be revealed.

Cherrysoup · 14/06/2019 22:24

Boss, 3 of your managers are leaving. Get a grip, things need to change!

Cattenberg · 14/06/2019 22:27

To my ex boyfriend.

I didn’t realise the extent of your lies until long after we broke up. And I’m now 99% sure that you were cheating on me the whole time you were seeing me, and that your partner was kept in the dark as much as I was. Sadly, you are a very weak person who refuses to take responsibility for your own actions, so I don’t think you will ever change.

I just want you to know that I know. And I hope that one day your lies catch up with you and bite you on the arse.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 14/06/2019 22:28

DH's XW. You didn't want him, and threw him back into the sea years before I met him. You don't seem to understand what divorce means. It doesn't mean you can ask him to do diy, gardening etc, just without the conjugals! You and your nasty daughters have started to demonise him, as doing nothing, while at the same time asking him to do lots. This week, he has picked up adult SD cos your car broke down, and mended the bed that SD has form for using as a trampoline don't ask. Your DD is an adult, when she gets a job DH chaufer her to or from work every day, with a two hour commuting time. And yes, it is that far, you have travelled here about once, and not in rush hour. If you feel so strongly about it, you need to consider that you live out in the sticks, in a location only convenient for your work, when you are the only one who can drive. Stop being such ungrateful bitches.

pickingupaftereveryone · 14/06/2019 22:32

You're quick to find fault in others' DC, however, your DS is actually a online bully. What he is capable of saying is truly shocking.

legallyginger · 14/06/2019 22:44

ex friend - we have all noticed that you've decided to ignore us (all old group of friends), and I'm sure you're presenting to all the new tribe that we're all being bitches. We actually don't care because we don't really want to be friends with someone who can be so decietful and treat her STBex so horribly. Hope you enjoy those who will allow you to manipulate them.

Other person - you are wonderful and amazing and gorgeous and I love you. We have known one other for so long, and have always been close, but you have been so supportive and helpful over the past months.You make me laugh and we are completely on the same wavelength, you are fantastic with the kids and I really like watching you and them together. I love spending time with you, and when we cuddle up very occasionally watching tv, I feel so happy and just 'right'. As much as it makes me sound and feel like a 14 year old, I harbour hopes of you fancying me (cringe!) and X (friend) said they think you do. I know I am 'nothing to write home about' looks wise, and would be totally punching above my weight though. I can't say anything to you, for fear of losing you. Living in hope ....

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 14/06/2019 22:45

DH. I love you dearly, but for the love of God, stop expecting me to think of everything, all the time. I am not your secretary. And I have reminded you about three times to send the CV off (that I prepared for you) and you don't do it, while moaning about the job you do have. When I have reminded you once, it's off my list, it's not my job to remember or make lists about everything to do with you! I am -l, worrying about adult DD, dealing with a difficult mother and a neurotic rescue cat, who I love dearly, but boy she's high maintenance. I have enough on my plate, and am also dealing with a life-long illness, so please, think about things for yourself, like a grown up.

Hullabalooo · 14/06/2019 22:46

You're just some small town lardy wannabe blogger, stop trying to take over everyone's lives with your ill thought out and foolish plans. It's really tedious.

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Daffodil2018 · 14/06/2019 23:01

Don't move to my neighbourhood! I hate you and it's bad enough that I have to work with you all day long. Stop house hunting in my area Angry

aleC4 · 14/06/2019 23:06

You're my friend and I like you a lot.
But why do all our conversations have to be about you and the drama in your life?
I have a life. A shit one at times. I have drama too.
Why can't you show some interest in my problems/difficulties? Just for once?

MrsBlondie · 14/06/2019 23:06

Your bf is a twat. We all hate him. Youve ruined your life with your affair now you are destroying the wider family.
Take off the blinkers and see how controlling and awful your bf is.

babyno5 · 14/06/2019 23:40

@Hullabalooo I think I might know who you mean!

73kittycat73 · 14/06/2019 23:58

I'm sorry I didn't listen to you all those years ago on the bus. Can we start again?

heidihigh · 15/06/2019 00:03

Why does everything else get priority over me? Why does everyone and everything else get your time but I'm not worth the effort ?

CandiedSkulls · 15/06/2019 00:13

You lie constantly. Is it really any wonder I don't trust you? Stop saying shit you don't mean. Stop pretending. Just be real, it's really not that hard.

Tweedypie · 15/06/2019 00:44

Your son is an entitled shit and a sex pest to boot. He is not God's gift to the world and the sooner you wake up to his antics and stop covering for him the better.

Gilead · 15/06/2019 01:05

The other day your daughter wished I were a widow. That’s what they think of you, including the one that speaks to you.

tuxedocatsintophats · 15/06/2019 01:15

The reason why we haven't had sex is 6 years is because you were always a lousy shag and you only shower once a week. You're also extremely lazy.

Sis, I love you but you just don't get how shit my life is and how it can't be improved by much. Also, I liked your two dogs and then you went and got those other three little fucks who stink. Also, why is your daughter still in the closet?

Tara336 · 15/06/2019 01:38

I don’t want you to come and stay, just the thought of you being in my home makes me anxious. You will take over, invade my privacy and stress me out. You have no right to inform me you will be coming to visit, you wait to be asked and trust me that won’t happen after last time..