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Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

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OneNightTimeMenaceStrikesBack · 17/02/2020 00:11

you are a spiteful, self centred, selfish, hateful, nasty cunt and if i never see you again, it wouldnt bother me. Youve really done a number on peoples friendships and all out of spite. you are hateful and nasty and you have no excuse for it.

managedmis · 17/02/2020 00:41

WaroftheWorlds

^^

You and me both re. good hard shag

85notout · 17/02/2020 01:14

You are not the sort of person who should be home educating your secondary school aged children. there is more to it than primary school workbooks all the time. You don't need to post pictures of your children on fb showing them doing these workbooks and say how you are doing a better job than the schools ever did.

NemophilistRebel · 17/02/2020 01:34

To a friend I had been close to for 15 years - why ghost me and our other friend?

To work colleague - you bullied a female member of staff so much she left.
You get drunk and make people cry on nights out by how rude you are and then wonder why invites don’t continue to come your way.

To SIL - I’ve never known such a jealous two faced arsehole as you.
You’d be a lot happier if you’d stop comparing your life to everyone else’s.
Family members are tip toe around you due to the limited amount you let them see your children.

NemophilistRebel · 17/02/2020 01:35

To my bridesmaid at my first wedding - my exh abused me, raped me and it took me a bloody long time to get the courage still to leave.
Where were you?
How dare you decide to stay friends with him.

Frownette · 17/02/2020 01:36

FUCK YOU YOU NASTY LITTLE MAN

JenNtonic · 17/02/2020 01:40

I've been screaming into my head that I've been hungry and cold for days, but I'll never let you have the satisfaction of knowing.

WhenPushComesToShove · 17/02/2020 02:11

Your constant 'oh poor me' victim act is positively nauseating!

catinb0oots · 17/02/2020 02:20

@Namechangeishardenoughonce that's one of the saddest posts I think I've ever read on here. I hope you're okay.

lboogy · 17/02/2020 02:24

You are the worst manager I've ever had. You're indecisive, weirdly micro managing but claim not to be and then get involved with areas of the business that have nothing to do with you. No wonder you never meet deadlines.

crosser62 · 17/02/2020 02:51

No. No it really isn’t good news that social services have stepped back.
Your house is an absolute stinking hovel, your hoarding is disgusting and yes, you are damaging your children with these living conditions beyond anything and trivialising it doesn’t make it ok.
You are not coping.
Your dh isn’t your “rock” he is a self centred, self absorbed, selfish cunt of a waste of human tissue. He knows and can’t be bothered to help in any shape or form.
I’m sorry but yes, I think that your kids should be removed until you can make their home clean, tidy and a fit environment for them to be safe in.
You are a weak doormat,you are better than that. You are lovely, kind, gentle soul. But you are dragging your kids through a shitstorm.
It’s wrong.

foxinthegarden1 · 17/02/2020 02:53

From the first time I met you I could see I had no chance. There was no room for another woman in your family and you were sure see to that. You are bigoted, selfish, controlling and mean. I would have been a loving SIL to you and aunt to your kids, I am so sad you deprived hem the love of cousins and a loving aunt and uncle. Your parents follow you around like they are afraid of you, you control them and because of that were given the gateway to control the whole family. Well we are nearly 20 years down the line. You deprived your brother having any space in the family and then his children. Was the attention all on you, at all time worth it? You want to be chummy with him he's becoming successful and lording it with your friends about him. You have been a shit sister and he is the most kindhearted loving man anyone could wish to have in their life. It your loss you self obsessed...

blancheduboiss · 17/02/2020 02:57

In-laws.
You’re all manipulative, vindictive, controlling, conceited bastards who have always had an agenda against me. You’re pushing your son further and further away and you don’t even know it - how sad. Karma is a bitch; you are not going to get away with this behaviour.

RossCaaan · 17/02/2020 03:14

You were totally shit in bed, with a small dick.l I've never met anyone as stingy as you and your family. Your sisters are lying sly bitches they'll get what they deserve.

You were the one, it had always been you. Despite the years passing I've only just fully accepted that you were a prick. Your fake shite apologies mean fuck all to me asshole, your married dickhead so why the fuck are you still messaging me knob. Btw IT WAS ME!!!! HAHA I shopped you.

Listen you dumb bitch im sick of hearing how you like the 'finer things in life' ,well maybe you can afford to still shop at tescos while the rest of shop at Aldi because we have kids and a mortgage. Were not all barren and living rent free with in-laws. Seriously stop being a faced bitch and causing trouble, your a chav!

Im happy for you but my god! how the fuck are you two idiots going to be good parents! Your 40 and you ask me such fucking dumb questions. How the fuck are you going to have a baby, get a mortgage, buy a house and start maternity leave 2 months before. Yes I managed it because I aint a fucking Idiot. Oh and don't even think about asking me to do a reference for your fostering application.

And as for you, your a waste of space, your so fucking useless and thick. Not all guys are like you the vast majority are decent and productive. You have degree, if you say so love.

Chage · 17/02/2020 03:19

It’s you’re.

Jobseeker19 · 17/02/2020 03:28

I dont trust any of you. You all snake each other behind each others backs. Of course you have done the same to me.
Stop pretending that you are grieving. She hated you and you barely knew her.

To my friend that past,
I need to speak to you. I need your advice. I cant trust anyones opinion. You made me feel so special and worth it. I didnt appreciate you because you were always there. I took you for granted.

TravelDreamLife · 17/02/2020 04:58

Stop telling me how everything in your home country is better than mine, how rude my country people are & yours polite & thoughtful. It's frustrating because you don't think it's rude for every conversation being a bashing session on how crap we are. Or to cancel plans at the last moment because you can't be bothered making the effort to go out, or can't drive two minutes to visit, or even meet for a coffee on our kid free days. I'm sick of you only contacting me if you want to whinge, boast, or to do something for you - like asking at the last moment to look after your house/pets for weeks on end even though we've been clear on not being able to. Sitting in your car at school pickup instead of coming to chat. It goes on! Do you even want friends?

I'm past done, so I'm looking for new friends that actually value me.

Damn I wish I could say that out loud!!

Bogglem · 17/02/2020 05:13

Youre a manipulative, sly, self absorbed narcissist - I can see right through you. Put your child first, you selfish sack of shit, and stay away from my family.

qwert1 · 17/02/2020 05:29

Sick of working too hard all the time and being broke. Worked 7 days this week. Sick of having neither time nor money to enjoy life. Hate how some have tried to trivialise how hard I work. You know who you are. No, I don't work part time and no, I dont have it easy sometimes working 1 day from home. I work full time plus hours. And to the person who called me lazy while I was on chemo because I didn't run around at that family gathering, I nearly died a couple of days later. Shame on you.

V proud of DS who works phenomenally hard too.

Nitpickpicnic · 17/02/2020 05:32

Yes, I know today is our wedding anniversary. No, we won’t be celebrating anything. It’s a union that has slowly sucked all the joy out of my life. If it wasn’t for DD, and that I’d have to sell the house you didn’t contribute to and give you half, I’d have cut you out of my life in a heartbeat, years ago. You may well want the world to think we’re a loving couple, but when it’s just us alone that kind of hypocrisy makes me want to puke. So have the decency to let anniversaries pass unmentioned.

Don’t look so shocked, you brought it on yourself.

basicwitches · 17/02/2020 06:56

You know how much i'm struggling with PND yet can't even make the effort to finish work on time just to have the baby for an hour or two. You've slept downstairs for the past 3 nights because you're tired? Well so am i? You put your other child first at every given moment and me and baby just get left. Oh and if your parents don't listen to me one more time i shall punch them both in their ignorant faces.
Ooooooh this feels good!

DisgraceToTheYChromosome · 17/02/2020 07:08

Stop sharing hateful right wing bollocks and woo shit, especially the "no one will share me". You were spearphished twice last year, the next time they'll strip you of everything.

slipperywhensparticus · 17/02/2020 07:16

Noumnot stopping you seeing your children YOU ARE you claim you cant take them anywhere indoors then flip out when I say you cant have them outdoors for five hours in the middle of a storm and the town is UNDERWATER the river flooded and the bridge is closed get it? No you cant take them to the forest its CLOSED due to the STORM stop telling people I'm stopping you because I'm jealous YOUR BEING AN IDIOT

also I'm not jealous of your love I'm not jealous of the bond your girlfriend claims she has with our children, children's services dont want them around her because they have had to REMOVE ALL SEVEN CHILDREN OFF HER DUE TO NEGLECT BY HER nothing to do with her ex husband she tried to stab him too by the way as well as you your son is scared she will drink and flip out and hurt you or him or even his brother you are FUCKING INSANE if you think I would have nothing to say about it

Stop abusing your child by minimising what you told him and trying to get him to change his mind and tell the social worker he feels safe he doesnt feel safe and it's your fault

I'm not surprised those people want to kill you because you have turned into a FUCKING ARSEHOLE

Thanks for signing the divorce papers after nearly six years I will be free

ChewChewIsMySpiritAnimal · 17/02/2020 07:23

You can all post memes on Facebook as much as you want about being kind, and I'm here for you if you ever need to chat. Where were any of you when i was borderline suicidal? Fucking shit "friends". All of you.

BreathlessCommotion · 17/02/2020 07:24

DH, I don't love you, I never have really. There were all sorts of reasons I married you and I shouldn't have. I do care about you and don't want to hurt you. I've forgiven you for all the nasty things you've said, because you've tried so hard to make it work. I wish we could be friends and co-parent. I wish I had left years ago.

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