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Summerbreezes · 14/06/2019 12:29

I'm in a Facebook group that I very helpful and useful, but one of the admins is irritating AF. Practically everything she does is annoying. I can't say this to her because then I'd probably get banned.

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cricketmum84 · 20/06/2019 14:59

Oh and telling me to fuck off, sticking your middle finger up at me and slamming doors is not really working towards a happy family life. No matter how angry you feel.

AguerosAngel · 20/06/2019 15:11

To my Biological Mother, I can’t say it to your face as you won’t face me because you are a coward, again you don’t want anything to do with me, just like you didn’t 46 years ago.

Why won’t you answer my questions? Why won’t you tell me about my Biological Father? What gives you the right to withhold that information from me?

Oh that’s right, you have your “perfect” (your words) family and “do not want them upsetting”.

Well fuck you, I don’t want to be part of your perfect life or family, I just want answers to my questions.

I hope you end up a sad, bitter, lonely old woman with nobody. You will never know DH, DS and I ever, you had your chance, twice. Never again. Ever.

Threedaysaweek2019 · 20/06/2019 19:00

Dh, you are beginning to sound like your mother. And it worries me.
We are about to embark on what would be an exciting time of our lives, yet I’m scared witless that you’ll become more and more like her. Can’t you see how she sucks the joy out of a carnival?

I’m also scared you’ll carry on running around after her and FIL once you retire, because your brother gets away with it. Every. Single. Time.

Every time I mention this to you, you shout me down. You know it’s true.

In a marriage that is normally loving, this is the one thing I think will finish us off.

Lostthepoint · 20/06/2019 20:53

Don’t do this to me, please. I know I’m not ok, and it’s ok not to be ok, but doing that just makes me feel worse. You claim you want to help me get better, yet at the same time you won’t let me help myself, because I’d prefer to not talk with you about it!!!

Raffles1981 · 20/06/2019 20:59

You are a nasty bitch. She is 7 months pregnant, with a toddler and her husband is away. Stop being so nasty. Just because you are a miserable fucker, doesn't mean you have to spread it about.

princecaspian · 20/06/2019 21:39

You are pathetic. You threatened me with the police because I won’t speak to you 😂. You set your husband on me to try and bully me into phoning you because you have no friends 😂. Do you know why? Because you’re a nasty piece of work and no one likes you. I was the only one willing to put up with you because I’m a people pleasing fool and you even wrecked that.

Just fuck off you crappy waste of space, you are not worth the time it took to write this.

Theyhaveallbeenused2 · 20/06/2019 21:42

I know your Facebook rant was aimed at me! Your stopping making first contact see what happens? I made that choice over a year ago..how many times have we spoken since? Tour man went away for a week..try being a single parent for 4 years see where all your amazing real friends are then..same place as mine likely

0hMyDayz · 20/06/2019 21:45

Open your eyes, see what is going on, stop treating people so appallingly and giving certain peoples,too much power! Make a decision, you look weak. You're ruining this company!

IntoValhalla · 21/06/2019 08:26

The only reason I’m keeping my DC1 in your childcare facility is because her key worker is brilliant.
How you have managed to keep such a business afloat with your hideous lack of professionalism is beyond me. You openly gossip about confidential information and only seem to deal with problems concerning the DCs who’s parents you are pally with Hmm

formerbabe · 21/06/2019 18:32

What a bitch you are. No wonder your husband left you.

feathermucker · 22/06/2019 07:07

You're basically a manipulative cow. At least she reached out. Not going to pretend any more.

You're not all that and I have no respect for you.

some work colleagues - I'm sick of carrying you. You're lazy, yet you're in a position of authority. Fuck you

Firstlovefondlyremembered · 22/06/2019 09:38

Another evening of fun texts whilst you were at the gig, and then silence the next day. I presume real life gets in the way of a questionable friendship. It was lovely while it lasted, I wonder if or when I'll hear from you again. Thanks for the fond memories.

Lipz · 22/06/2019 13:31

Why do you phone me and 20 seconds into the call speak to those around you, tell me to hold on repeatedly, ring me when you're free as I don't like speaking 90 miles an hour, wondering If you've heard a word I've said and then saying I'll call you back !!!!!

StrongerThanIThought76 · 22/06/2019 16:21

I've accepted a job with another company. It's the same job I applied for, and interviewed for 3 times with you but was turned down despite last time 'being the best person on paper' but you already worked with the successful candidate so couldn't let them down.

And it's on a much better salary.

Stop using people. Stop taking advantage of their good nature, professionalism and pay them for taking on additional responsibilities beyond their role.

imsuchagrump · 22/06/2019 16:46

To my dad : I actually don't hate you I pity you . I have never lowered myself to your standards to the vile things you have said that can never be unsaid . I hate that you have poisoned my brother against me . well hopefully he will stop thinking about himself for 5 minutes to look after you when you are ill as I won't .
To my brother: all I ever wanted was a brother sister relationship that we can all get along but you choose not to have that . Don't you see dad had messed with you head . I'm always here if you need me .

Slopacker · 23/06/2019 10:37

You’re a bunch of chavs.

RiftGibbon · 25/06/2019 12:48

I'm sorry we lost contact. Really sorry. I honestly don't know how it happened. I've located you (I think) and tried to contact you without being pushy. I know it's been a very long time, but I'd dearly love to hear back, even if you say it's fine, and there's no need to contact you further.
FWIW, I won't try to contact you again now anyway, as I don't want to seem like a stalker.

RunningFeisty · 26/06/2019 11:18

You self centred stuck up bitch. You tell me to text you if I need you then ignore me for days. Then when I do ask, I'm told that I'm sooo self sufficient I should be fine...

You threw me on the streets aged 15 I don't know why I thought you may have changed. 15 years I've survived pretty much on my own. Including when I recall begging for your help when I had no money having been stolen from in the hostel I was having to live in because of you. Not even a fiver you would spare me. Fuck you.

londonloves · 30/06/2019 09:50

I fucking hate my smug self satisfied in laws and I am dreading two holidays with them. Why the fuck does no one ever listen to me?

chasegirl · 30/06/2019 11:16

I need to tell you its over. Again. I am sorry but I don't love you. I just can't say it I don't feel strong enough

Nautiloid · 30/06/2019 12:09

I'm tired of supporting you for hours on end every time you break up with him, knowing you'll be back together within days.

Tweedypie · 16/02/2020 15:37

You are not the woman I thought you were since you started putting your boyfriend of two months ahead of your kids needs.
I've listened to so much and I feel like a bad friend that this is the thing I can't be honest about.

TerrifiedandWorried · 16/02/2020 15:42

You're a nasty shit and your behaviour at the funeral was appalling. Grow the fuck up.

Letseatgrandma · 16/02/2020 15:56

Stop making snippy comments to my parents about who they vote for and what newspaper they read. They are in their 80s, have endlessly supported us over the years in loads of different ways, so I want you to just stop behaving like a twat.

PresidentBartlett · 16/02/2020 18:07

Your 3 years of teaching experience do not trump my 15 (even if you are a few years older than me and male) I'm your sodding head of department you self righteous arse so pull your head in and actually teach your pupils rather than trying to make them like you.