Ah Christ I’ve only went and got myself a “bad boy”

[housewifeoflittleitaly]

Not sure where to start.

Husband left in February without so much as a goodbye, I was devastated until two weeks later he returned and I decided I hated him for what he had done. No turning back like he wanted & i packed the rest of his stuff and chucked him out.

Ff to 3 weeks ago & a new HOD started, instantly my type looks wise but not so much personality wise. He’s a big character, cheeky chap all the girls thinks he’s cute and funny. Turns out he’s set his sights on me.... me ffs.

I’ve never so much as looked another mans direction and all this flirting and now txting is making me feel all sorted of emotions. Guilty being the most prevalent as technically I am still married, surely I shouldn’t be flirting?

Anyway he’s only gone & asked me out & now I can feel the spark every time I think about it. I don’t know what to do he’s literally drawing me in like a moth to a flame.

Should I nip this in the bud now or roll with it despite the above?

Have some fun

Nothing you say above indicates bad boy to me???

At work? And he's your superior? What's the policy?

Why is he a 'bad boy' ?

Bad boy.

Moth to a flame.

All the girls think he's cute.

Do you write for 'Take a Break?'

You’re remembering what it’s like to be fancied by someone.

Don’t embarrass yourself at work - it’s not likely you’re in the frame of mind for this man to be anything serious to you. I’d nip this in the bud.

Definitely shag him, you've got the fanny gallops.

You're dead a long time !

Lol at take a break I am a waking cliche

He’s not my superior I am also HOD no policy & no one would know.

He’s a bad boy, stereotypical lads lad with a loaded history. It’s vvv early days that’s why am asking for advice, if this is wrong on any level I will swerve it.

If he's your boss, don't. I speak from experience ...

How do you know he has a loaded history? Could just be gossip.

@BurnedToast she hasn't written about his gorgeous baby blues yet! Give a girl a chance

OP, it sounds a bit like you want him to be a bad boy!

Sorry but he sounds like a player and you being newly single means you are vulnerable to prowling sharks in the water.

He is, nope it’s all from him. He’s an MMA fighter, tattoos everywhere, snorts lines most days, divorced twice, assault charges. But he says those days are behind him.

Just for the very clever students at the front, he’s tall, dark & handsome too. Oh and he has a huge cock that spits rainbows... ok!

I know it’s all wrong but it’s the first time in 17 years I’ve had an offer so that’s why. My friends say go for it so what, but I am very cautious.

When I split up with my ex I suddenly found myself being targeted by men that has never given me the time of day before at a club I was a member of.

It’s like they think you are going to be feeling very down and never meet anyone again so they home in believing you will be grateful for the attention that you will easily drop your knickers.

I saw through quite a few like that who were suddenly very attentive and flattering me up at every opportunity.

No I'm bored already. Try harder.

He sounds lovely

Especially the assault charges

You should go for it

No I'm bored already. Try harder.

Afraid that's me too, OP.

Hmm, having a late night because it's half term eh op?

Think you might need a plumber, there seems to be massive drips on this thread.
Its not sounding fab op started off ok but snorting lines, assault charges etc are probably not your best move even if he does have a rainbow penis

Does he wear low slung jeans with a leather jacket?

assault charges. But he says those days are behind him.

No. No. No.

Abusive men never change. Don't get sucked in. I promise you this is bad news.