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Irish in Ireland AMA

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SrSteveOskowski · 01/03/2019 22:47

Following on from a Dane in Denmark, I'm Irish, living in Ireland AMA Smile

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SauvingnonBlanketyBlanc · 04/03/2019 14:10

@SrSteve don't look at a full moon through a window was one that comes to mind

Deadringer · 04/03/2019 14:14

At least British people know where Ireland is. On visits to the states i have been asked am i English, when i replied no i am from Ireland, heavy pause, what part of Britain is that? Or, 'do you live near the queen?' Confused

honeyman · 04/03/2019 15:49

So glad to live in Ireland where we don't obsess about the private v state school. There are very few private primary schools ( none in the city I live in), the no 1 secondary school in Ireland a state school and while I accept that private school do make up a large portion of the high achieving schools, it is not a determining factor on where you go to college if you work hard and apply yourself well in a state school.

Carriemac · 04/03/2019 17:06

Honeyman my dublin and cork friends are obsessed by schools, private v state and getting into the best private

SrSteveOskowski · 04/03/2019 17:48

@Tolleshunt, you're right there. Harrington is a VERY common surname on the Beara Peninsula. I don't know if any records would still exist after the four courts fire, but most small parishes would have records of births, deaths and marriages in the local church. Castletownbere may have a local website or Facebook page (I grew up in a small village and they have both) If you come across one you could try emailing and perhaps someone (local priest most likely) would be able to have a look at their records for you.

@ChaircatMiaow, if you hadn't the homework done when Glenroe started you knew you were in trouble because as soon as it was finished it was bedtime Grin

@Confusedfornow, I wonder if it's because we were an isolated island for such a long time that when we did get visitors we greeted them very enthusiastically and it hasn't worn off since.
Kerry and Cork are definitely known as friendly counties though. Kerry people in particular.
I'm really curious about these distracting sheep though? Grin

@Marmite27, not only did I get the messages today, but I did 'the big shop', though my ancestors would never have got their heads round Aldi!
It was always traditional to give money to children and a lot of the older generation would still do this.

@SauvingnonBlanketyBlanc, I've definitely never heard that one Confused

@Deadringer, ah d'you not nip round to Liz for tea and scones? That's scone as in cone, not scone as in gone by the way Grin

@honeyman and Carriemac, there are a couple of private (secondary) schools near me but I suppose the majority of the population would be going to state schools.
My friends in the UK can't get to grips with the long school holidays here at all.

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x2boys · 04/03/2019 18:03

I think it's only on mumsnet people obsess over state versus private school @honeyman? In reality nobody I know can afford private I suppose it depends on circumstances!

smurfy2015 · 04/03/2019 18:26

@Peridot1 do you know Sean from Castleisland Co Kerry who used to be a manager in Cadburys - Im not sure what years but it was at least 25 years ago, if you dont Im sure your mother does. Im friends with his wife.

OP make sure you light the candle when your kids are doing exams / the cat is going to the vet / you are going to cross the road etc etc

Did you remember to thank the bus driver as you got off?

Did you see Mary Murphy on Winning Streak last week? Wasnt she gas craic?

Deadringer · 04/03/2019 18:27

In South Dublin a lot of people obsess over private Vs state schools, in my area at least. No SrSteve, i no longer eat scones with Lizzie, she would insist on putting the cream on first, most annoying.

derxa · 04/03/2019 18:38

My late FIL came from the Republic of Ireland. He left as a young man to come and work as an engineer in Scotland. We didn't know any of his relatives except one of his cousins. Then one year we were contacted about a reunion near Dublin. Well... despite us having reasonable qualifications and professions we were the poor and thick relations in that room. We were surrounded by intense high achievers. We also discovered a late relative who was quite a well known writer.

SrSteveOskowski · 04/03/2019 19:22

@smurfy, I'll laugh if @Peridot1 DOES know Sean from Castleisland. I know Brian from Castleisland who used to work for a drinks company if that's any good?
If I can't find that candle to light it, I'll have a word with St Anthony and it'll turn up in no time!
I (seriously) always thank the bus driver Blush

@Deadringer, well honestly I though her of all people would know it's jam first, then cream. Spread then dollop. Sure that's common sense. That could bring the monarchy down Shock

@derxa, who was your writer relative?

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Deadringer · 04/03/2019 19:26

Yes dexra, spill!

derxa · 04/03/2019 19:33

who was your writer relative? Same name as the man who wrote The Grass Arena but not him.

derxa · 04/03/2019 19:34

Don't get excited Grin

Deadringer · 04/03/2019 20:01

Was it Maeve Binchy?

derxa · 04/03/2019 20:15

No Grin

mineallmine · 04/03/2019 20:19

I know who it is I think dexra. JH?

ElspethFlashman · 04/03/2019 20:27

No it was yer man Dermot I'd say?

SeaweedDress · 04/03/2019 20:34

Dermot Healy, derxa? Wow. A Goat’s Song and The Bend for Home were really important books for me.

ElspethFlashman · 04/03/2019 20:50

I haven't read either. If it wasn't in Soundings, I didn't read it, lol.

SrSteveOskowski · 04/03/2019 21:03

@ElspethFlashman, I still have my copy of Soundings. Yeats was my man, though I'm partial to Kavanagh too.

Dare I ask? Did you have to do .......... Peig?! Shock

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derxa · 04/03/2019 21:08

Oh God I wish I hadn't started this. DH's relative wasn't very famous.
We have his best known work in the bookcase down in England. I'll text DH about it tomorrow.

Cel982 · 04/03/2019 21:11

They reissued Soundings a few years ago, when it was being taken off the syllabus - we made sure to get a copy. So much good stuff in there.

Youngandfree · 04/03/2019 21:19

@SrSteveOskowski never mind the school holidays... they can never get to grips that Irish primary teacher work 9-3/half 3 (ok 4oclock latest on a busy day/meeting after school) and then go off home for the day!! 😂😂

Peridot1 · 04/03/2019 22:12

@smurfy and @*SrSteveOskowski - Sean! From Castleisland? That Sean? No. Sorry! Grin. My mother is sadly no longer with us but it was back in the early 70s she worked in Cadbury’s.

I do however remember Peig. Ugh!

derxa · 04/03/2019 22:24

www.irishtimes.com/opinion/nineteen-acres-1.37208
Here you go. Nothing exciting.