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Woman in vegetative state gives birth

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NotMyCircusMonkeys · 04/01/2019 19:49

Police in Phoenix are investigating after a woman who has been in a vegetative state for 10 YEARS gave birth.

I have no words... I feel so sorry for that poor woman, her family and the baby who will grow up effectively an orphan. How did no-one notice she was pregnant?! How does this happen in a supposedly civilised country??

www.nytimes.com/2019/01/04/us/woman-pregnant-vegatative-state-birth.html

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thatwouldbeanecumenicalmatter · 04/01/2019 21:06

Well seeing as she was fertile enough to be pregnant (for the DM 'journalists snooping on here she was pregnant from rape - nothing 'alleged', she 100% was incapable of giving consent) in a then surely she must have been having periods? Did non of her carers notice her periods had stopped?

ILoveMaxiBondi · 04/01/2019 21:10

Very good point that. So for 9 months no-one noticed lack of periods?

Isthisit01 · 04/01/2019 21:11

Why does the article say ‘apparently’ raped? She could hardly give consent!

Because they can't rule out a turkey baster situation at this point.

TinklyLittleLaugh · 04/01/2019 21:13

Vegetative state or in a coma doesn't necessarily mean unconscious though. It means functioning at a really low level. So yes she can probably feel pain and make sounds.

She can't give consent though. No "apparently" about her being raped.

ALadyofLetters · 04/01/2019 21:14

I don’t think this is as uncommon as you’d imagine. I went to a work seminar by a clinical psychologist talking about consent in the legal system for adults with learning disabilities. She spoke about a case of a young woman with cerebral palsy and severe learning disabilities who was found to be 5 months pregnant. I can’t remember the details but a court case was held and a best interest decision made that she should have an abortion. However the father/rapist turned out to be a staff member who said she’d consented to sex. He wasn’t even prosecuted.

BlytheSpiritsSpirit · 04/01/2019 21:15

There is no way the staff didn't know. No way. I cannot believe it. I worked as a carer, you quickly learn every intimate detail about a person, especially those who cannot move for themselves. Bedsores happen often and grow quickly. Cleaning and checking should be happening regularly, with notes being written every time.

What on earth is happening in that care home facility? The entire operation is suspect, not just the male staff. This is awful on so many levels.

BaaBaaBaaMoo · 04/01/2019 21:15

@Isthisit01 is a turkey blaster not sexual assault on a vegetative woman??

CosmicCanary · 04/01/2019 21:21

Christ the male species are fucking disgusting.

Everyday there are reports of rape and murder of women.
Males should be ashamed of the acts their brothers commit and condemn and punish them accordingly.

thatwouldbeanecumenicalmatter · 04/01/2019 21:21

Really, it's basic Occam's Razor; she was raped, it's this culture of hiding male violence for what it is that means a woman who definitely can't consent can't have her rape reported without words like 'apparently' or alleged thrown in there. Because NAMALT. Hmm

MudCity · 04/01/2019 21:26

Absolutely sickening 😢

SassitudeandSparkle · 04/01/2019 21:28

Utterly dreadful, I hope the perpetrator is brought to justice.

ILoveMaxiBondi · 04/01/2019 21:29

it's this culture of hiding male violence for what it is that means a woman who definitely can't consent can't have her rape reported without words like 'apparently' or alleged thrown in there. Because NAMALT.

Absolutely this.

Even in a certain case people are still afraid to call it what it is. People on this thread even trying to find ways for it not to have been rape (AI??)

Huggybear16 · 04/01/2019 21:39

Reading this made me feel ill. Poor woman. It's absolutely rape - she isn't capable of consenting.

Awwlookatmybabyspider · 04/01/2019 22:04

Terrifying and sick doesn't even begin to cover it.
. If you think about it. No one knows who's walking in and out of these hospitals.
This is a classic case of If you made it up no one would believe it.
When the find the beast. Id say burn it off with acid very very very slowly.

VforVienetta · 04/01/2019 22:20

Even if it was artificial insemination, under US law that would be rape.
Since the Brock Turner case the legal definition has been changed to include penetration by objects.
Even if it was the wishes of her family it would still be rape, inability to consent does not allow a woman's body to be used as an incubator.

HainaultViaNewburyPark · 04/01/2019 22:21

She’s clearly been the victim of a serious sexual assault. Poor woman. Whether or not it is rape presumably depends on how rape is defined in US law.

In the US I think you have to demonstrate that any recovery of cognitive functions above a vegetative state is assessed as impossible by authoritative medical opinion before the courts will give you permission to withdraw life support. Patients in a PVS can often breathe unaided, so you msu have to withdraw nutrition/hydration in order for them to die. This may well explain why she has been in a vegetative state for so long.

BentNeckLady · 04/01/2019 22:26

Christ the male species are fucking disgusting

I’m sorry all the men if your world are cunts but let’s not tar them all with the same brush, ey.

HainaultViaNewburyPark · 04/01/2019 22:28

Even if it was artificial insemination, under US law that would be rape.
Since the Brock Turner case the legal definition has been changed to include penetration by objects.

I don’t think rape is covered by federal law, so it most probably depends on the definition of rape in Arizona. Which may or may not be the same as that in California (which is where the Brock Turner case originated).

CosmicCanary · 04/01/2019 22:35

Bent
I said the male species.
Males commit the vast majority of ALL crime. Crimes against women are at an all time high. Males make up 97.5% of the perpetrators.
98% of paedophiles are male.
Of the people trafficked for prostitution 96% are female. The people buying them are 98% male.

Shut up with the not all men bollocks.

Why are the good men not stepping up and sorting thus out?
More men are judges who pass sentence.
More men are police officers.
More men are doctors.

Why are they not telling men no more.
You will be punished.

Deadringer · 04/01/2019 22:38

It's disgusting and not the first time it's happened, I seem to remember a similar case around 1996.

BentNeckLady · 04/01/2019 22:38

That’s as unfair as saying all religious people are responsible for the crimes of a few fanatics.

LagerthaTheShieldMaiden · 04/01/2019 22:43

Thank goodness a few of you chose this specific thread to step in and defend men.

They don't think any better of you for doing it you know.

CosmicCanary · 04/01/2019 22:43

That’s as unfair as saying all religious 1people are responsible for the crimes of a few fanatics.

Oh and who run religion.....men. How many millions have died in the name of religion?
Religion keeps women raped and pregnant.
Religion hides child abusers. It promotes child marriage an female genital mutilation.

Not sure you picked the right comparison there Bent, I condemn religion also as it is governed and run by males who have used religion to abuse females for a thousand years.

AnchorDownDeepBreath · 04/01/2019 22:53

Is there any chance this was another patient; and not a carer?

I suppose it makes no difference anyway. Poor women. I cannot believe this has happened. I hope she's being well looked after; and if she comprehends this, that she doesn't feel her baby has now been stolen.

GerryblewuptheER · 04/01/2019 22:58

it's this culture of hiding male violence for what it is that means a woman who definitely can't consent can't have her rape reported without words like 'apparently' or alleged thrown in there. Because NAMALT

Never a truer word spoken.

Either no one took care of her for at least 6 months in which case they have a neglect charge hanging over their heads aswell or they knew and they covered up.

Know which one I think.

And I bet it was by nore than one person too. The one who doesn't match the DNA test will be breathing a sigh if relief about now.

Fucking sick raping bastards. Theres no sentence too heavy . For you or the arseholes that enabled you