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Would you be comfortable with this?

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VeniceBitch · 15/12/2018 19:26

If your boyfriend (of only a few months) said that he was going for a drink with a girl he met on tinder and used to date - would you be OK with this? They never slept together but were/are obviously attracted to each other and got on well.

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9ofpentangles · 15/12/2018 19:26

No

DaedricLordSlayer · 15/12/2018 19:27

no

formerbabe · 15/12/2018 19:31

No.

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winecigsandchoc · 15/12/2018 19:33

No

SomeOtherDay · 15/12/2018 19:34

No, if he wanted to go on dates he wouldn’t be my boyfriend anymore

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VeniceBitch · 15/12/2018 19:34

His justification is that I go out a lot and have plenty of male friends so why shouldn't he. And also because he's told me about it and isn't hiding it from me Hmm

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VeniceBitch · 15/12/2018 19:35

He met this woman on tinder at the beginning of this year. We met in the summer a few months after they stopped dating.

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MegaClutterSlut · 15/12/2018 19:36

Hell no

JaiNotJay · 15/12/2018 19:36

Er, no!

GassyAss · 15/12/2018 19:36

Still no. He's up to something.

LakeIsle48 · 15/12/2018 19:36

No chance

HollowTalk · 15/12/2018 19:39

No. But I wouldn't argue about it. He's made his decision. You're an idiot if you carry on seeing him now.

HollowTalk · 15/12/2018 19:40

And I don't believe they didn't sleep together then, either!

pinkmagic1 · 15/12/2018 19:40

No way.

ChimpyChops · 15/12/2018 19:41

No

Lobsterquadrille2 · 15/12/2018 19:43

No

todayiwin · 15/12/2018 19:43

Please please block him and fuck off.

Wow .... utter cunt

Namechangeforthiscancershit · 15/12/2018 19:44

Nopeitty nope nope

Cadburyssurpriseegg · 15/12/2018 19:45

Noooo

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VeniceBitch · 15/12/2018 19:45

He can't see the issue with it because it's just a "drink" - I'm left feeling like I'm the one being unreasonable for not being OK with it. Complete head fuck Blush

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VeniceBitch · 15/12/2018 19:45

Confused not Blush

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ScreamingValenta · 15/12/2018 19:48

No

bethanyismyname · 15/12/2018 19:48

No

halfwitpicker · 15/12/2018 19:50

He's bold isn't he?

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VeniceBitch · 15/12/2018 19:55

That's one word for him.

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