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How many staggeringly good looking people do you know in real life?

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DuggeesWooOOooggle · 11/12/2018 18:55

Just following on from my 'oh my god I've just discovered Richard Armitage' thread (and do watch North and South if you have not already done so!). Musing on how gorgeous he is got me thinking.

How many really good looking people do you know in real life? I'm not talking 'eye of the beholder' type beauty, but real, classical, can't argue with it beauty (male or female)? There's a girl works in our office who I think is just beautiful - she always looks so glamorous without being showy or too made up, long blond hair with a slight curl. Very elegant. She makes everyone else look like saggy puddings. And she's probably very nice too (doesn't work in my section, it's a big place).

It made me think how very few people I know or even see like this on a daily basis - most people are just very average looking (myself included!). I can't remember the last time I saw a really handsome man. I do remember a chap I saw across a bar when I was about 22, with the most amazing cheekbones. He was just beautiful. Not in a fancying kind of way, just in a 'I could look at you for hours' kind of way. But I genuinely can't think of any since. Plenty of men I have found sexy but that's different, the two don't always overlap.

I'm probably not explaining myself very well. Maybe I just move in the wrong circles! Maybe they are all celebrities these days.

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MamaHechtick · 11/12/2018 23:02

My niece, mixed race with blue eyes and naturally very full lips. Everyone who sees her comments on how striking her beauty is. Her parents were approached many times to model her but she didn't want to. She's also an absolutely wonderful young lady now.

Young guy across the road from us, early 20's and incredibly beautiful, even DH says!

IdblowJonSnow · 11/12/2018 23:08

Can't think of any these days, apart from myself of course! Loads from 6th form days. Youth sure does help!

Runningishard · 11/12/2018 23:31

Blue he must be amazing under the covers Grin

Dontbestupidagain · 11/12/2018 23:58

Went to a six form open day with my dad the other day and there was a boy there who was striking. He had red hair, relatively dark skin, lots of freckles and blue eyes. He wasn't classically beautiful but I couldn't help but look at him.

Gibble1 · 12/12/2018 00:11

There is a gynaecologist at work who I find mesmerising. I don’t fancy him but he is absolutely intriguing to look at and I just can’t not look at him. He’s fascinating.
Another colleague who definitely uses her beauty to her advantage and is definitely treated differently because of her beauty. She is a lovely person and my friend but has no respect for professional boundaries and just gets away with saying the most outrageous things to people due to her beauty.
DH is good looking, was very good looking when younger. I have no idea how I managed to catch him but we’ve been together 21 years now. I’m hideous looking but a friend of a friend actually gasped out loud at a selfie we were taking a few months back and exclaimed what a beautiful smile I have. I have a photo taken with DS which I love because I actually look nice, am smiling, glowing, hair looks tidy and you can’t see my hook nose from the angle of the picture. God I would love to have a decent nose 😟

citiesofbismuth · 12/12/2018 01:06

My cats

thighofrelief · 12/12/2018 01:20

An electrician i know, he is really, really beautiful and incredibly down to earth. His wife is average pretty.

thighofrelief · 12/12/2018 01:30

I used to be on an ODS where you had to tick how good looking you were (despite also posting a photo) some people ticked "stunning" - they really weren't. What kind of knob calls themselves stunning?

CatelynStark · 12/12/2018 01:32

My daughter has always been stunning. I was concerned that she’d be horribly bullied at school because of it but she’s so witty, down to earth and ‘cool’ that everyone who meets her just falls in love with her. People constantly tell me how amazing looking she is - I suspect because they wonder if she’s adopted Grin

TheFairyAstronaut · 12/12/2018 01:43

My mum and dad were both absolute show stoppers, turned heads of people decades younger right up til the end (60s for my mum, 70s for my dad).

He was like a dark Robert Redford, but 6’3” and heavier set. She was like a petite Sophia Loren. Her friends nicknamed her Sophia and she had such lovely hair a private trichologist in London she met at a party offered her a job just sitting at reception.

I scrub up ok, but I’m not in their league.

Dated a guy once in my early thirties who looked like my dad. Couldn’t handle it. Walk into a restaurant or bar and literally every female head turning nd following him. Women coming up and just asking me point blank if he was my partner or my brother (we had the same colouring to be fair) and if he was single. People just literally throwing themselves at him all the time.

TheFairyAstronaut · 12/12/2018 01:45

But like pp, yes I think beautiful is over-used. Lots of attractive, fit, sexy people out there. But real beauty is rare. I think it’s kind of intimidating.

Nutellalovesme · 12/12/2018 01:50

A train driver that looked like Elvis Presley on his 68 comeback tour. Literally the spitting image! Smile

ThistleAmore · 12/12/2018 01:59

I'm working with a woman ATM (I'm a contractor) who I swear is the most jaw-droppingly beautiful woman I've ever seen.

She's also fiercely intelligent, lovely, funny and kind.

Bloody hell. It's not fair. Wink

ThistleAmore · 12/12/2018 02:03

Also - I'm not bad myself (can still turn heads in my late 30s, but mostly because I'm unusually tall and have a pointy face, I think), but when I was at university, I had the MOST beautiful boyfriend for a while: like your man out of Poldark, Adain thingy.

People (male and female) used to literally gawp when he walked past.

Nice fella, charming, intelligent, but terrible in bed, though, so it just goes to show. Wink

Dandybelle · 12/12/2018 02:18

My DP is gorgeous. I'm not even biased either, he's very very handsome. He gets chatted up quite often by women, sometimes right in front of me. It's rather amusing!

spoon19996 · 12/12/2018 02:38

My daughter she is two, she's mixed white, Hispanic and Asian and she's absolutely stunning and my younger sister they look very similar just my sister is the non mixed race version of her 😂

tobee · 12/12/2018 02:41

Hardly any men. I remember a thread recently and people were talking about whether their husbands were still attractive. Lots of people were saying they had really hot husbands. And I thought, seriously? That many? I'm not sure I've seen that many in my lifetime! Grin

Last time I met someone really attractive (male) was years ago at a party. I had to stop talking to him and move away because I thought it was written all over my face! Blush

Women just tend to look better more often I think.

ElsieCat · 12/12/2018 06:02

I used to be on an ODS where you had to tick how good looking you were (despite also posting a photo) some people ticked "stunning" - they really weren't. What kind of knob calls themselves stunning?

Most stunning people I've met don't actually realise they are stunning and would certainly never say it.

I think a good deal of women genuinely confuse being stunning and beautiful with being highly groomed and over-made up. If you stripped them of everything that's unnatural about their face and body you frequently see someone pretty plain underneath.

proseccoaficcionado · 12/12/2018 06:04

Just one. My best friend. And I'm not saying that because she's my best friend, I thought that of her from the second I met her.

She's standard, classic beauty.

Baking101 · 12/12/2018 06:08

I know of two men that are really handsome. Everyone is attracted to them, although I'm not for some reason. They are nice people though.

NotScrewingUpNow · 12/12/2018 06:18

My DD.

When I had my 4D scan the nurse told me that she was going to be beautiful. Even some of my friends with children and my family have said that she's exceptionally beautiful.

DP and I are both mixed race.

NotScrewingUpNow · 12/12/2018 06:19

Forgot to say, basically everyone thinks she's a good looking child. Even strangers.

ElsieCat · 12/12/2018 06:37

Not no disrespect but I bet she says that to everyone. How on earth could she possibly tell from a scan of an unborn baby? I doubt very much she got up close to her face, full on, and bothered to painstakingly take all the measurements and ratios that measure facial symmetry and therefore beauty, like this pinkmirror.com/blog/photo-retouch-face-attractiveness-score/ so what she said is meaningless. Kind and flattering, but meaningless.

Besides which, beautiful small children don't always make beautiful adults in my experience. Sometimes quite gawky looking kids with angular non-cute faces grow into the most beautiful women with fabulous bone structures. Whereas children considered gorgeous tend to have round, soft faces, chubby cheeks, big eyes and button noses. But they can end up looking like lumpen peasant features on an adult. Small chins and soft jawlines on a child look cute. On an adult they look weak jawed and either double chinned or chinless.

We all think our children are beautiful (as we should) so I don't really think a parent can be terribly objective on this thread!

I know a couple of people whose children were very, very attractive and now they are all in their twenties. I've seen a few pictures of them on FB recently and I was shocked at how ordinary they looked as adults and in one case really quite plain. I was like 'WTF happened?' Confused

ElsieCat · 12/12/2018 06:43

And one of mine was a child that strangers stopped me in the street to tell me how good looking they were.

They look perfectly nice now, but I don't think they are getting a modelling contract any time soon. Trust me, it's just a thing people say to parents about their small children. I think most parents have experienced it at some point.

jessstan2 · 12/12/2018 06:44

Ah ha! I look in the mirror every day and nearly pass out at the sight of my great beauty!
Not.

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