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Say here things you can't say in real life

497 replies

squirrelnutkins1 · 10/12/2018 19:34

Interested to hear things people really wish they could say in real life, but can't, for whatever reason.

This is a safe space..... let's offload!!

OP posts:
AniSL · 10/12/2018 21:15

You're not fucking perfect and your stupid fucking theory of being 10 steps ahead of every one else is bullshit. You are full of shit at the best of times so quit your crap and stop making out that you are better than me and everyone else who walks this earth

StrumpersPlunkett · 10/12/2018 21:15

You have no idea how much I hate the fact you are cheating on your husband
You are my friend and I love you but this is fucked up and it is effecting my ability to trust my husband.

redandwhite1 · 10/12/2018 21:16

Fuck off I want nothing to do with you both!!

Weezol · 10/12/2018 21:17

I can't believe that I have today found out you didn't report your concerns about the lack of DBS checks in your parish. You volunteer with children and vulnerable people. You told me you had raised it externally with the LA and were going to contact the NSPCC.

You lied. So I'll report it tomorrow, even though I live in a different part of the country and have nothing to do with the group. I can't believe you have happily left kids at risk for months and months. It's one bastard phone call.

I don't want to speak to you any time soon.

Giggage · 10/12/2018 21:17

I know you all slag me off on your group WhatsApp.

Original poster
squirrelnutkins1 · 10/12/2018 21:18

Wow this has been more popular than I imagined!! Seems we all have lots on our mind that we just can't say!!!

I have another....

IL's why are you so evil to your DC. They WANT to be a part of your life, just be nice!!!!!!!!!!!! Urgh.

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DeadButDelicious · 10/12/2018 21:20

It's been a month. A month since you laid eyes on your granddaughter. A month since you picked up a phone. You would NEVER go that long without seeing the other two. We know you play favourites. Try not to make it so obvious.

stabbybitch · 10/12/2018 21:25

You can't stay sober, you ruined my life & im fucking lost. I can't hold you up anymore because I'm crumbling. Oh & the kids swing from loving you to hating you, well done for that. I wish you dead at least twice a day.

SassitudeandSparkle · 10/12/2018 21:26

How many can I have?! Firstly:-

Stop moaning - you don't have it harder than anyone else and the victim mentality makes you look a bit daft when it's so obviously not true. It doesn't make you happy either so it's not even working well for you.

Secondly:-

Stop using FB to whine about people and please stop posting 3 memes a night about a 'silent' thing you are anything but silent about. (unfortunately, the lack of likes for these are an indication that it's not just me getting a bit miffed which I think makes it feel worse for them really!)

And finally ...

We can all see it's not working but you're never going to admit it. We are worried. Don't spend any more money.

BrokeLuce · 10/12/2018 21:32

DSis, you must be stupider than you look if you think I missed your deliberate cruelty during our two years of infertility and miscarriages. Still didn't quite manage to beat me to it though. I think you're sick. Texting a woman who has just lost a baby to tell her that you are ovulating and having sex is not normal. You've got yourself knocked up by that hideous mummy's boy in some bizarre attempt to beat me to a baby. He's lazy, as thick as two planks and is a shit dad. You have properly fucked up your life and you don't even know it. And brush your teeth, they are disgusting.

DH, you're weak and unattractive. I'm tired of being talked over and ignored. We have a shit life, with a shit house and no money. No amount of positive thinking is going to change the size of our shit kitchen. I want nice things, I want a diamond engagement ring, I want holidays, I want a big house. I wished I had ignored you when you approached me. I wish I'd never met you.

DM, I hate you. We all do.

moolady1977 · 10/12/2018 21:33

Shut up you pompous prick the sound of your voice makes my ears hurt, you call people fat and ugly but man you need to look in a mirror you are a horrible person

Phoebesgift · 10/12/2018 21:35

The way you talk to me and our children makes me hate you a little bit more every time you call us a cunt.

Concernedaboutgran · 10/12/2018 21:36

You're a fucking ugly toad and your sexual harassment has ruined my mental health. At least I know one day ill be better but you'll still be a disgusting old man that nobody loves. You don't have any power over me anymore. You're pathetic.

whatdoidonowffs · 10/12/2018 21:41

Stop bringing lover boy into our house when I’m at work you may not like it but at the moment it’s still my home too
I know we’ve been separated for a few months but you’ve had a lot longer to get used to the idea than me

To lover boy
If I find you here again I’ll break your fingers now fuck off !!!

Pinkvici22 · 10/12/2018 21:43

I want a break

I need some space

I’m tired, stressed and not really coping

I don’t know if I want to be married. I’m in love with someone else.

HammerToFall · 10/12/2018 21:44

I wish I had never adopted. I love the kids but If I had known about attachment disorder and had a glimpse of
My life as it is now back then I'd have ran a mile

puddlesplashing · 10/12/2018 21:44

No I won't give you a free lift

Justforthisthread12 · 10/12/2018 21:45

I will always resent you for abandoning me for having a mental health episode and I will never fully believe you when you tell me you love me.

Notfastjustfurious · 10/12/2018 21:51

I am so angry I could actually explode. Fucking colleague and fucking mil. Fuck you both and then fuck off some more.

mycatplotsdeath · 10/12/2018 21:53

I hate the fact that you bully and belittle me.
That you have chipped away at any confidence I had in my ability to do my job.
That I go home every night and cry in the shower because I can't leave as we desperately need the money.

Mostly I hate you and the fact you broke me.

I am totally broken

Lepetitpiggy · 10/12/2018 21:57

sister. I genuinely hope you have a vile and awful birthday. I know you don't give a shit that our mother is dying and that I am doing everything as I have done for past several years. Your reasons for going NC are pathetic, selfish and wrong. Do not come to the funeral

Alexkate2468 · 10/12/2018 22:01

Your kids are entitled brats that need a good kick up the arse. They’re going to fall flat on their faces in the real world if you continue to insist that I can’t discipline their shockingly shitty behaviour. They aren’t bored geniuses, they’re cocky, ignorant lazy gits who expect everything handed on a plate.

WilburforceRaven · 10/12/2018 22:12

I think everyone who voted for Brexit is a thick fucking idiot and wish extreme misery on people who vote Tory.

todayiwin · 10/12/2018 22:12

I just want one ..... one filthy fuck with my boss, no one needs to know .... Grin

Otterseatpuffinsdontthey · 10/12/2018 22:13

Someone has phoned in "sick".
The ward is going like a "f**g fair".
I started at 7.30 - no, lunch at 4 o'clock isn't "fg acceptable".
This unsafe for staff and patients.
I need time to go to the toilet.
I need time to get a drink of water.
No, it's not my fault if I'm late off the ward. I need to finish my work.
No, it's not my "time management" - it's 3 staff trying to do the work of 4. As a senior nurse why are you saying this "ph".
Come out of the "f***g" office and help us with the "hands on" care of the patients.

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