Say here things you can't say in real life

[squirrelnutkins1]

Interested to hear things people really wish they could say in real life, but can't, for whatever reason.

This is a safe space..... let's offload!!

Everyone I visit you I come away thinking that might have been the last time, and I'm not sad about it particularly. You want to die anyway, you've said so.

I find your behaviour so hard to cope with emotionally, DS. I'm worried it is making me love you less, because I can't stay caring and hurting this much. It is possible to make people stop loving you, and you're doing all the right things unfortunately. Please just give me some respect, kindness and love, please.

I don't want you to come over at Christmas. I find you overbearing, passive aggressive and manipulative. There's a reason I've been avoiding you. The only reason not to atm is because it's Christmas and I feel bad.

And, finally.....

TRANS WOMEN ARE NOT WOMEN. THEY ARE TRANS WOMEN.

I want you so freakin bad. I know you want me too. It can't happen though ☹

I love my boss!!

I'm so close to walking out on everyone and everything and just disappearing

I love you.

I wish it had been different when we met, but that was your fault. The sex was out of this fucking world though and I miss it and can't stop thinking about it.

You're a fucking slag now fuck off.

@PearlandRubies194

It's my emergency credit that has ran out.

If I call them will they be able to add on more emergency credit?

@Mykidsaremylifexo

Been there. Nowt you can do tonight. Get yerself to bed and keep warm. Plenty blankets as your boiler won't work with the lecky off.

Tomorrow go see your health visitor or if you don't have their direct name/number ask for the team even if you're not under them, they can arrange a code thing with the council. Council will give you something like £10 via a code. Take electric key and code to paypoint, employee will do some button pressing and you'll get some credit. Like food banks councils do limit this so don't rely on it in future.

Also, don't open fridge or freezer unless you have too! Open quickly to make breakfast for everyone in one go then it stays closed until you get credit. Don't let kids go in and out 10 times messing about, your food will go off. If you do pack up lunches get the stuff out same time as making breakfast, use, then put everything back in one go, quickly as you can.

Washing the kids tomorrow morning before you're sorted will be a pain. Cold water and no heating it'll take them ages to warm up again. Clean clothes, a wet wipes and some talc/anti perspirant will do the job as a one off and they'll be warmer for it.

Dear Family,
Writing shit on Facebook about how you will always be there and will help means nothing when one of your family members life disintegrated and you were there.

@bigfarmer

Thank you soo much.

It's not my fault you lost your licence yet again. Stop trying to make me bear the brunt, and have a shit life like you have made for yourself, you useless fucking twat.

I don't miss you - it's been a nicer and easier place since you've been away - but you think I'll do anything to have you back - I'm to scared to say otherwise

You're alright @Mykidsaremylifexo, seems awful now but Wednesdays not too far away and the health visitor team HAS seen this before and they know how to help. I've got lights but as the kids are in bed I've turned my heating off and jumped into bed under all my blankets to stretch the gas out. Careful if you're using candles to see too! Absolute liability around kids.

I wish you’d just hand your notice in you absolute snake

You are a lazy bastard and you behave like a child. Your days in your cushy job are numbered. Oh yes, and you’re quite thick too. Don’t think that everybody hasn’t realised.

I adore you and want to move in with you but I'm so scared to break my family up and leave everything in such a painful mess though. If only things were different and if only I could turn back time.

I’m praying that the health professionals and paediatrician at your assessment say that it’s me that’s a rubbish mum and that I’m failing you, rather than them confirming my suspicions that you have autism. You’re my baby boy and I love you the same, no matter what, but I want you to have the easiest life possible and can’t bear the thought of you struggling.

"We" are pregnant! No your not stupid cow, YOU Are pregnant.

Never met such a grabby manipulative cow like you!

I'm not interested in your life or your pregnancy. You've always got to be centre of bloody attention!

No I don't particularly want to come on the Christmas do, I see you all at work because I have to, I don't want to see you in my free time as well!

Fuck off you bunch of cunts

Is that in response to the tampon charity thread?

You have Aspergers and that's not your fault. Have you any idea though how damaging you are, how the micro rejections, lack of empathy, no theory of mind, sensory issues etc leave your partners feeling worthless and emotionally isolated? Get proper counselling and stop blaming everyone else.