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Last time you fancied anyone in real life

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buckingfrolicks · 29/10/2018 17:52

When was the last time you saw someone out and about, a stranger, and thought they were attractive?

I'm not some kind of perve honest, it's just I realised today it's been years since I actually found anyone attractive. Is this normal? I'm sure I used to.

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QueenofallIsee · 29/10/2018 17:54

Chap at my new office, in the lift quite recently - bloody gorgeous. Then he spoke 🤦‍♀️....dear lord he was stupid. It was like cold water being poured on me

CarryOnScreamingValenta · 29/10/2018 18:00

I passed a very attractive man at work last week. No idea who he was.

Joanne721 · 29/10/2018 18:02

I fancied a blond male where i used to work,so i looked him up on find my past site,turns out he was 27,alot younger than me! he looked early 30`s.Shock

LuggsaysNotaWomen · 29/10/2018 18:05

There was a bloke doing next doors front garden wall about a year ago who made me say good morning like this “gah mahmah” because he was so attractive, but it happens rarely. Years and years can go by without seeing someone who properly gives me the fanny gallops.

Aradiadaemon · 29/10/2018 18:08

I've got a major crush on the receptionist at my hairdressers. He's so hot! He recently split from his girlfriend so I was working up to asking him for a coffee but apparently they are back together to my dismay. 😭

Sadik · 29/10/2018 18:12

Not exactly a stranger, but a chap who I used to run into a lot at various work related events.

Happy ending... it turned out he was single, I screwed up my courage, asked him out for a drink, and we've been dating 10 months so far :) :)

Storm4star · 29/10/2018 18:16

I haven't found a stranger attractive in a long, long time. In fact it's more likely that I'll feel irritated by unknown men for stupid reasons! Like those hipster beards and moustaches! They weirdly get me annoyed! Or men who manspread on the tube or bus. I don't think I like men very much at the moment!

AsleepAllDay · 29/10/2018 18:17

All the time!

Dontfeellikeaskeleton · 29/10/2018 18:18

Got a new job and I have a couple of crushes on the go.

One of them actually gives me the gallops Blush
He's got beautiful eyes and an aloof air (bad combination eh)

IWantChocolates · 29/10/2018 18:23

Got a bit of a crush on my GP. Thank goodness his dress sense leaves something to be desired. I can say truthfully that I am still happily married because of that tartan trousers/bright orange socks combo!

MyGastIsFlabbered · 29/10/2018 18:25

I fancy DS1's teacher...I'm old enough to be his mum 😲

darkriver198868 · 29/10/2018 18:25

I am struggle to be attracted to anyone at the moment.

NameChangeToAvoidBeingFound · 29/10/2018 18:25

Not a stranger but I'm definitely majorly crushing on one of my good guy friends. He's working away at the moment and I feel like I've lost my left arm. He's my counter in a lot of ways. We're very similar read: argumentative, loud, 'intellectual' (convinced of our own intelligence and loud about it when together), unintentionally snobby at times (neither of us like toilet humor and apparently that is snobby), adrenaline junkies and are very tactile people we wrestle a lot, poke/prod each other and engage in 'tickle fights' and spend our time either verbally sparring with each other or teaming up and annoying those around us, apparently we're more irritating/aggravating as a team.

According to our other friends all of this is considered as flirting but I've not got the guts to ask him out, despite the supposed 'evidence' that the feeling is mutual (I wont agree its mutual unless he tells me himself despite the pictures my friend has taken of us together or the ones of him looking at me) and I know that he's likely not to say anything unless I tell him how I feel as well Blush and I can't do that.

It's a delightful scenario were in but I am enjoying the 'flirting' Grin

ShirleyPhallus · 29/10/2018 18:26

I met Kevin McCloud a few weeks ago and PROPERLY fancied him

Mincepietimesoon · 29/10/2018 18:30

Hmmm mentally I think I must be a bit loose as there are several blokes I reckon are good looking. Recently mostly people on tv!

EnidButton · 29/10/2018 18:40

Shirley careful or you'll end up pregnant and living in a caravan on an self build that's over budget by £50000 because of the bespoke glass windows you've ordered from Sweden.

redfairy · 29/10/2018 18:42

All the time. I deal with students all day long and there are some very handsome young men out there. If only I were thirty years younger... (rubs knees)

ShirleyPhallus · 29/10/2018 18:47

@EnidButton and I’ll swear blind it will one take 7 months and I’ll definitely be in by Christmas but there will be a voiceover “it’s march and the building is just being made watertight”?

Bouledeneige · 29/10/2018 18:52

Chap I went for cocktails with on Thursday.

Squeakyheart · 29/10/2018 18:53

I recently found myself fancying someone on tv despite him having a mullet! No idea why!

Dontfeellikeaskeleton · 29/10/2018 18:55

Wwhhaaatttt Shirley!

Tell me more

Dontfeellikeaskeleton · 29/10/2018 18:56

Enid, I reckon he'd be worth it

Keyra · 29/10/2018 18:57

Ahem. :)

JennyOnAPlate · 29/10/2018 18:57

I've got a massive crush on dds teacher. Stunning looks and a genuinely lovely man. I haven't told dh

Nuffaluff · 29/10/2018 19:04

‘Sexy yoga guy’ at my yoga class. I actually know his name but I prefer to think of him as ‘sexy yoga guy’.
It’s surprising, as most men who do yoga are decidedly not sexy, but this guy. Well.
Nice muscles and a beautiful chaturanga.

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