Last time you fancied anyone in real life

[buckingfrolicks]

When was the last time you saw someone out and about, a stranger, and thought they were attractive?

I'm not some kind of perve honest, it's just I realised today it's been years since I actually found anyone attractive. Is this normal? I'm sure I used to.

It’s been years tbh. I still like to perv over old footage of Morten Harket on YouTube now and again though.

My sister's friend. She's delicious.
My sister introduced me to her and I spent the rest of the day behaving like a socially awkward idiot. First real life girl crush.

Ah I picked up a girl crush at work a couple of months ago, first since my teens. New starter. She's just my sort of person too, but I can't befriend her in this state! Maybe next year...

A customer I use to see all the time in my old job.
He was 10 years younger than me but so good looking and charming.
He ended up moving onto the same street as me and lived next door but one.
Me and Dp ended up being invited to his wedding..., God he was a handsome groom 😀

My delivery guy
... He drops parcels to us a couple of times a week, and he is hot.

Partner just laughs at me from the kitchen

2005

I had a massive crush on the PE teacher at DC1's school. He's left now though, I was gutted when he went.

Honestly, I'm not just saying this but DP! I have been with him 4 years this month and no one comes close. everything about him is everything i could want!

I think thats why its been so long.

I have a seriously good looking NDN, and he's terribly nice too.

No possibility of actual fancying, but do find myself enjoying the view sometimes

At the pub Friday night, bumped into an acquaintance and the gallops have arrived in full force

I fancy far too many people, I'm as bad, if not worse, than I was when I was a teen. I love DH to pieces, fancy the pants off him, but for some reason form incredibly intense crushes all the time.

A recent hire at our workplace is a real classical beauty. I am however at least ten years her senior, so will be exercising discretion rather than openly gawping, which would almost certainly be a creepy combination of unwelcome and unprofessional

I fancy the guy in the workplace canteen. Great news, he fancies me too. I know this because of the care he takes of my tea order and the lovely smiles he gives me.

But folks, don't be my sister in law. Fancied the plumber. Told him. Now they're meeting in lay bys and doing tawdry things in the back among the pipes. Both married, it won't end well.

The removal man who sounded like Rab C Nesbitt on the phone but turned out to be a dead ringer for Leonardo di Caprio, all lean and tanned and lovely. I was reduced to a tongue-tied wreck (with a baby on my hip) and was quite glad when he'd gone, a whole day of watching him casually carry enormous pieces of furniture as though they were feathers was more than I could cope with.

Dlux 

Not seen anyone I fancy for ages. I work in a university and there are hardly any nice looking lads that come in. We have a lot of nature students so not being a cradle snatcher. Perhaps I don't see anyone I like cos I'm not looking.

Probably about 20 years
I’m only 45😩

Honestly, my DP. He gave me the gallops when I first met him at work 5 years ago. Still does now.

I very, very rarely fancy anyone. I occasionally see guys who I think are quite good looking, but that’s about it. Nobody brings out such a strong response as DP

PJBanana

Ahhh the same with me, It drives my DP mad sometimes becuase i just cannot leave him alone haha!

@SpoonBlender , it's bonkers isn't it!?
Hope you manage to string a sentence together and have a conversation with her! 😁

I actually fancy the guy I've had two dates with but I'm scared of jinxing it.

I find fancying an odd concept as a thing, there are celebrities and the like that I enjoy looking at and I acknowledge when people I know are attractive it I tend to reserve the word fancy/fancying for people I know that I either become tongue tied around or flirt with.

A guy who works at the local consum in Spain where we go often.
A waiter at a local restaurant.
A neighbour.
A dad at school.
since I turned 30 I seem to fancy loads of men.

Actually the Head at my kids school gives me the gallops but only when I make eye contact with him. Just to look at him, I’m not that fussed, but get very tounge tied and hot and bothered if I have to interact. It’s a weird physiological thing (perimenopause would be my guess) and I would rather it buggered off.

Mercifully for us both I rarely need to speak to him.

Right now I have a massive crush on a male friend (and have done for years!) and there’s a celebrity crush on the go too.

Been a long time since I had a crush on a stranger. I used to walk past a very good looking man on my way to work every morning, but that was 4 years ago now.