Last time you fancied anyone in real life

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When was the last time you saw someone out and about, a stranger, and thought they were attractive?

I'm not some kind of perve honest, it's just I realised today it's been years since I actually found anyone attractive. Is this normal? I'm sure I used to.

I haven't fancied anyone since DH. He still gives me butterflies.

Never used to at all when I was younger, but I hit my thirties and now fancy everyone!! 

My doctor, the Sainsbury's delivery man, the manager in my local department store... I think I'm going through some kind of midlife crisis!! 

(I use the term 'fancy' loosely by the way! I'm happily married, just admiring from afar!)

Polish guy who works in my local Aldi. Great little ass

There is sometimes a very hot guy on my morning train. Always smells amazing, lovely muscular body and nice suit.

There is also a guy at my gym, but I am old enough to be his mom (and I wouldn't have been a teenage mom either)

I wouldn't cheat on DH though unless train guy asks me out

The Dad of a child I teach, I couldn’t focus properly at parents evening last week, I got all tongue tied!

My Consultant

I'm happily married, but I always have silly crushes. They never last long, but it makes ordinary everyday things a little more interesting.

Blimey you're all at it - agog and a flutter. Not me. My flutter has flustered off and my gog is no more.

Kevin mcloud might resurrect it

I really really fancy my DP if only he sorted out his overgrown facial hair

Apart from a good friend's boyfriend , there was a very handsome bloke on a bus I was on recently. There is almost NOBODY attractive at work, and I work in a big organisation.

I see 'good-looking' blokes around, but most of the time they're too young/trendy/clean-shaven/thin/short or whatever. The options on POF locally are mostly Mr Potato Head or men who think a webcam shot taken far too close to their faces is going to lure the ladies in.

Liked someone who works in a shop where I live. Thought there was a little bit of sizzle between us (from afar, nothing ever happened). Found out he is utterly horrid through someone that knows him. Meh! First crush for maybe 2 years? Cba now!

Apart from my partner, a guy at work. So good looking, but found out he was 18. I was 26 at the time. felt too old for him.

Virtually never. I do sometimes wonder if I live in a city with a remarkably low bar when it comes to attractiveness (idly looking out the bus window on the way to work).

There was a smoking hot guy trimming next door’s trees a few weeks ago. His skin was a really dark smooth brown and he had blue eyes which was such a startling contrast, I did a double take. He had on a sleeveless top to show off his muscular arms and was lifting huge branches like they were twigs. I passed him on the way home, then took the dog out for a walk so I had an excuse to pass him twice more. Tried to encourage the dog to sniff outside so I could hang around longer and stare!

I work somewhere where I meet many men, also women, everyday.

There's a man, at least 20 years younger, who is just MARVELLOUS. He tells me of his horses, dogs and I don't hear a thing as I am far too busy thinking very rude thoughts.

He is LUSH swoons

I have crushes all the time. I'm a single parent and not looking for a relationship but I like having a flirt. I'm really fickle though, I go off people quickly!

I'm terrible at the moment- a colleague (even though I know he's gay!), he's just so lovely and he's gorgeous.
My son's music teacher thankfully I don't have to speak with him.
My consultant, probably because he's made me better...

I surprised myself recently - was introduced to a friend-of-a-friend of DH who it turns out is massively wealthy (like, hundreds of £m apparently). Nice enough to look at, really friendly chap, single. I keep finding myself thinking about him - it MUST be driven by the idea of the money.

Meanwhile I am happily married to DH in our perfectly normal average income family home...

I work fairly closely with the police and there is definitely some eye candy on the force.

I doubt I would look twice if I saw them in their civvies though!

Someone I was at school with. Came across him again on social media recently. I’m happily married, he’s happily married, so nothing will ever happen, but I realised I still carry a torch for him 30 years later...

Unbelievably hot bloke at work, he turned up to our first meeting without all the necessary paperwork but in his scrubs - I forgave him.

All the time. Seriously. And it’s very fleeting, cos I probably won’t fancy them or even recognise them again. I’m very flighty with my interest.

Shirley and Dont It'd take you days to get through all the layers he wears. 22 degrees and Kev is in a puffer jacket, gilet, 2 jumpers and a t-shirt. I dread to think what the underwear situation is like. People have trekked through the Arctic with less weather protection.

A guy I kept seeing on the train two years ago! That was the last time!

@Dontfeellikeaskeleton beautiful eyes and an aloof air sounds right up my street!

I've had a 'dry spell', shall we say, for a good few years now. Would love to get the fanny gallops again! What better reason is there to get up for work in the morning?!