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Does your DH or Male DP groom his pubic hair?

116 replies

Tartpop · 27/10/2018 11:41

Just that really. I would quite like it if DH were to take a little more pride Grin in his downstairs area Grin.

He thinks it very unmanly to groom this area and is a bit neanderthal about it.

I have thought about doing the same myself and seeing how he likes it!! Shock

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HairyArmpits · 27/10/2018 12:10

Mine does. He's excellent at ensuring it's maintained 

ThisMustBeMyDream · 27/10/2018 12:11

Yeah my DP trims. I don't really care either way.
He would prefer me to have none. He asked me at the start of the relationship, he got given short shrift. He will never ask me (or anyone else!) the same question!
I trim and tidy the edges when I get time. Which isn't as often as I like.

Cleanermaidcook · 27/10/2018 12:12

Yes, well I shave it for him.

KanielOutis · 27/10/2018 12:12

No, he doesn't trim. And I wouldn't want him to either. He's a man, I like him to look manly. It'd be different if the actual penis was hairy.

PoesyCherish · 27/10/2018 12:13

Sadly mine doesn't. Wish he did though. I had an ex who shaved and it looked a lot better. But then it's his body and he can do what he wants so I don't ever mention it.

artio0 · 27/10/2018 12:13

Mine doesn't and I don't care. I quite like the fluff, it feels soft Grin.

I used to groom myself but since being pregnant I'm sporting my own fluff and he doesn't care.

HairyArmpits · 27/10/2018 12:14

He doesn't shave it but trims it well and to be honest I don't like to have a big hairy bush either myself ams maintain mine well! I personally find werewolf style hairiness a huge turn off.

Heismyopendoor · 27/10/2018 12:14

DH trims his pretty short and then let’s it grow (3-4 months?) and trims it again. He also does his underarms, still has lots of hair on them but just less wild looking.

It’s His preference and I’ve never asked him to do it.

PlasticAlternative · 27/10/2018 12:16

Yes and has done for years and years independent of our relationship and indeed any relationship.
He prefers it. Not everything just the base of penis and ball sack.

GlassOuijan · 27/10/2018 12:17

Mine does. He's excellent at ensuring it's maintained

This is from a poster called "Hairy armpits"! 😂

Growingboys · 27/10/2018 12:17

Hahaha! No!

AssassinatedBeauty · 27/10/2018 12:17

"werewolf style hairiness" - it's not, it's just normal adult hairiness. Which I can see not everyone likes, but it isn't weird or abnormal.

flubbadubble · 27/10/2018 12:18

I'm not sure Confused I have never thought to ask and it doesn't have initials or anything on it so it's not that obvious if it is!

Pesilica · 27/10/2018 12:21

He trims it right down, he prefers it like that as do I.

CheekyRedhead · 27/10/2018 12:24

I hate man bush. It's been a unwelcome surprise when dating.
I like a trim/tidy man.nobody wants a face full of hair!

LinoleumBlownapart · 27/10/2018 12:27

Yes, he trims it.

CompletelyKate · 27/10/2018 12:27

DH does as a matter of course. He says it enhances sensitivity during oral so is not just for cosmetic reasons. He recommends trying it. I have to say I prefer it too.

EllenJanesthickerknickers · 27/10/2018 12:30

God no! Then again, neither do I. Maybe it's an age thing. I'm mid fifties.

IsTheRainEverComingBack · 27/10/2018 12:33

Yes he generally keeps it quite trimmed. It’s completely from him though, I’ve never asked him to. He has taken it really short before and I’ve asked him not to do that because it’s uncomfortable for me

bellsbuss · 27/10/2018 12:36

Yes mine does, he has done it since before we met.

MuttleyLaugh · 27/10/2018 12:38

No, never and no desire for him to. Surprised by the balance of responses, I’d have assumed this was only a thing for men in their 20s, say.

Notjustanyone · 27/10/2018 12:39

No thank goodness!

SoupDragon · 27/10/2018 12:40

🤔

crunchtime · 27/10/2018 12:41

The very idea makes me want to boak.

ComtesseDeSpair · 27/10/2018 12:41

Most of the men I’ve dated or slept with in recent years (ages around 35-45) have done something between full on shaving and trimming and tidying. I prefer the latter but don’t mind the former either. Either are much more pleasant for giving a blow job than full on pubic bush.

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