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I work in a sexual health clinic...ama

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Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 21:51

Go for it! Nothing is too much

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Merseymum1980 · 15/02/2026 22:30

What is cis women please.

MeouwKing · 15/02/2026 22:30

Do they still stick an umbrella device down a man's penis?

Flannelfeet · 15/02/2026 22:30

Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 22:28

Hiv is a blood test. From the home test kit it can be from a finger prick test. We cover everything genital related. STIs, something which isn't right, any type of non consensual sex. Its more that just a clap clinic

Thank you. Gum clinic is something ive never really thought of. Interesting topic mind you.

Flannelfeet · 15/02/2026 22:31

Merseymum1980 · 15/02/2026 22:30

What is cis women please.

I wondered this too

Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 22:31

lordun · 15/02/2026 22:28

I meant in terms of the partners don’t know they are taking different women there so assume they are only sleeping with them.

Speaking from experience here - I thought my partner was only with me but he was cheating and I found out took many other women to get tested. Many years ago now when I was young and he was a lot older!

Yes. I see atleast 2-3 women a day in your situation

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Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 22:32

Flannelfeet · 15/02/2026 22:31

I wondered this too

Female assigned at birth and identifies.as being female

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Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 22:33

MeouwKing · 15/02/2026 22:30

Do they still stick an umbrella device down a man's penis?

Nope....its just a urine sample, unless they have symptoms then its a small plastic swab. Not like the olden days

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Longsight2019 · 15/02/2026 23:02

Do you believe many sex workers offer unprotected full sex and is there a high demand from men?

NowForSomethingCompletelyDifferent · 15/02/2026 23:06

Merseymum1980 · 15/02/2026 22:30

What is cis women please.

⬆️ this. Women are not a subset of their own sex. Part of the problem with men is men pretending to be women.

NowForSomethingCompletelyDifferent · 15/02/2026 23:07

Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 22:32

Female assigned at birth and identifies.as being female

Female observed at birth (and female since conception)

HeavenHelpMeAgain · 15/02/2026 23:08

I have had the worst itchy vagina for months and months; use vagisal for a week and it’s fine, soon as it wears off itching is back. Could I go to a GUM clinic for something like that?

Happyjoe · 15/02/2026 23:14

HeavenHelpMeAgain · 15/02/2026 23:08

I have had the worst itchy vagina for months and months; use vagisal for a week and it’s fine, soon as it wears off itching is back. Could I go to a GUM clinic for something like that?

Tried Fluconazole? Thrush pill, a generic version is about a fiver at a chemist.

Heartofmetal · 15/02/2026 23:16

HeavenHelpMeAgain · 15/02/2026 23:08

I have had the worst itchy vagina for months and months; use vagisal for a week and it’s fine, soon as it wears off itching is back. Could I go to a GUM clinic for something like that?

Could be lichen sclerosis easily treated by GP but can be dangerous untreated. Please get it checked out.

Designless · 15/02/2026 23:17

Do you ever think it's kind of weird what a rigmarole it still is to get a checkup in that department? You'd think in 2026 a person could just pick up a kit no questions asked but it's always intense background checks and being made to feel like you're a bit odd for being a middle aged lady with a sex life

Designless · 15/02/2026 23:17

Heartofmetal · 15/02/2026 23:16

Could be lichen sclerosis easily treated by GP but can be dangerous untreated. Please get it checked out.

I thought that was essentially incurable and you just had to hope it didn't progress too horrifically?

HeavenHelpMeAgain · 15/02/2026 23:25

Happyjoe · 15/02/2026 23:14

Tried Fluconazole? Thrush pill, a generic version is about a fiver at a chemist.

Yeah I’ve tried that, worked for a week or two and the itching was back!

MintDog · 15/02/2026 23:32

Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 22:14

Yep. Providing they come from a clinic. We send out home testing kits for chlamydia, gonorrhea, hiv, and syphilis. All accurate. But can't speak for tests from amazon

How would you get hold of these tests then? Who do you contact?

ImDoneOnceAndForAll2 · 15/02/2026 23:33

Are HIV rates rising?

Heartofmetal · 15/02/2026 23:43

Designless · 15/02/2026 23:17

I thought that was essentially incurable and you just had to hope it didn't progress too horrifically?

I was diagnosed with it years ago but it’s mainly dormant now and has been for a while. Treated with steroid cream when active and have it checked periodically but it doesn’t cause me any issues thankfully. The itching was extreme when first diagnosed and I had tried otc treatments which helped at the time but obviously didn’t clear it up.

Hereandthereandeverywhere · 16/02/2026 02:03

Longsight2019 · 15/02/2026 23:02

Do you believe many sex workers offer unprotected full sex and is there a high demand from men?

Sex workers are the safest people to have sex with. If they get an STI they are out of work for 2 weeks with no sick pay. I'd say there is demand for it. But don't shame sed workers. Its the men who play away who need shaming

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Hereandthereandeverywhere · 16/02/2026 02:06

ImDoneOnceAndForAll2 · 15/02/2026 23:33

Are HIV rates rising?

Amongst heterosexual women, yes

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Hereandthereandeverywhere · 16/02/2026 02:09

NowForSomethingCompletelyDifferent · 15/02/2026 23:06

⬆️ this. Women are not a subset of their own sex. Part of the problem with men is men pretending to be women.

You can absolutely go away with this view. I wish you all the best but YOU are the problem. The problem with men is men. Not trans women. Show me any women who has felt intimated or has been assaulted by a trans woman compared tomorrow a cis man

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Hereandthereandeverywhere · 16/02/2026 02:10

MintDog · 15/02/2026 23:32

How would you get hold of these tests then? Who do you contact?

Your local sexual health clinic

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Hereandthereandeverywhere · 16/02/2026 02:12

HeavenHelpMeAgain · 15/02/2026 23:08

I have had the worst itchy vagina for months and months; use vagisal for a week and it’s fine, soon as it wears off itching is back. Could I go to a GUM clinic for something like that?

Absolutely yes!!! As a clinic, we have clinics for long term issues such as this. Please go and get seen

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SkipTheIntro · 16/02/2026 02:15

Hereandthereandeverywhere · 15/02/2026 22:32

Female assigned at birth and identifies.as being female

So women then. No need for cis. 🙄

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