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Ex full service prostitute AMA

401 replies

Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 20:31

I did it for around 5 years

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:38

nocoolnamesleft · 24/04/2024 21:24

What a journey. Vulnerable, to abused and exploited, to escapee, to survivor. You must be a strong woman to have got out, and built a whole new life. Respect.

I’m quite proud of myself when I see it spelt out like that. Thank you x

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:38

Longcovider · 24/04/2024 21:24

Sounds horrendous OP, I'm so glad you were able to get out x

Thank you so much x

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:40

StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 24/04/2024 21:25

Did you have a speciality? Were you able to say no I don't offer that service?

I offered GFE - girlfriend experience. There were things that I didn’t offer (bareback, anal etc) but I couldn’t have refused a client without justifying myself

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beastlyslumber · 24/04/2024 21:41

It's fantastic that you've got out, got a job and a boyfriend and turned your life around. I hope you feel really proud of yourself for everything you've survived and achieved.

Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:43

Herecomesthesundoodoodoo · 24/04/2024 21:25

Thanks for replying OP.

What do you make of women who do claim to enjoy it and advocate that it’s “real work”? Do you think they are in denial and probably have some underlying trauma/MH issues that has pushed them towards this kind of work!

Yes, definitely, I know I do. To be fair, I sort of agree with the ‘real work’ stance. I always felt like I was working and really bloody hard. But I don’t believe it should be encouraged and glamourised at all. I’m not sure if that makes sense, can’t put my thoughts into words

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:44

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 24/04/2024 21:26

What an evil abusive man your ex was. I'm so glad you're in a safe place and enjoying your new relationship. You should be really proud xx

Thank you so much x

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:45

Churchview · 24/04/2024 21:27

I admire your strength and resilience OP and hope that your life is all you want it to be going forward.

What do you think of the way sex workers are portrayed in the media?

Thank you so much. I feel like some are demonised whereas others are glamourised and I’ve never been able to get my head around that

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:46

1dayatatime · 24/04/2024 21:27

"DisforDarkChocolate
No question but I'm in awe of your strength in getting away from the ex and a life that harmed you."

I simply want to thank you for your courage of raising a AMA thread giving honest answers to difficult questions about a period of your life that you would probably much rather forget about and making clear that the reality is very very different to "Pretty Woman ".

If your thread manages to dissuade just one woman from going down this path then that is a mother, father, brother, sister, child that will always be grateful to you.

If anyone is reading this and in a similar position, feel free to reach out to me if you feel like it would help x

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HappyGoLucky96 · 24/04/2024 21:47

Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:22

Never knowingly saw a police officer but I’m sure I did, plenty of doctors and powerful people. I used to work near a hospital and I had a couple of regulars that would pop over on their lunch breaks etc. Very blatantly

I’m glad your safe now 🩷

did u have any women clients

LoompaOompa · 24/04/2024 21:47

Thanks for answering my previous question.

You said you were paid £200 an hour which sounds like a lot of money. Does that affect the kind of men you met? Are there different tiers of sex workers? Are there younger or more vulnerable women and girls who are being bought/sold for much less? Sorry, that's very clumsily phrased. I suppose I'm thinking that at £200 am hour you're more likely to be working for affluent/professional men who have more to lose if they're found out.

This is a really interesting AMA. Thank you. I have so much respect for you! X

yummytummy · 24/04/2024 21:48

Does your boyfriend know about your previous work? If so what does he think?

Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:49

TurtleMoon · 24/04/2024 21:27

Well done for getting out OP!

What does "full service" mean?

Did anyone know what you did for work? What was your cover story?

Is it true most prostitutes don't kiss?

Do you prefer prostitute or sex worker?

Full service basically means sex.
My boyfriend obviously knew and my closest friends, to some extent. I was a student and I wasn’t flashing cash around, I’m also not that social so I never really felt the need for a cover story.
Yes, it’s true. I didn't.
If I was having this conversation with my friends, I’d probably use the term ‘prozzy,’ I haven’t ever referred to myself as a sex worker.
Thank you so much

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:50

AdoraBell · 24/04/2024 21:29

I also don’t have a question but I’m glad you got away. Well done. A family member said she would do this, back in the 80’s, and thought it’s “easier than working”. Her mother managed to talk her out of it fortunately.

Thank you so much. I have actually heard this quite a lot. It’s absolutely mental to me. I’m glad your family member didn’t go through with it

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:51

cushionfiend · 24/04/2024 21:31

Hello - does your current partner know about your past, or have you decided to keep it to yourself and move on? I hope they do know and have been understanding and loving to you.

No, he doesn’t know. I don’t think I’ll ever feel comfortable enough to tell him either

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warmcookiedough · 24/04/2024 21:51

You've come so far I hope you continue to enjoy your life now and you should be really proud of yourself.

Sorry if this is TMI but what do you do when it's time of the month did you work through it or have to wait until it was over? Did any of your clients ever want more from you?

Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:53

cryinglaughing · 24/04/2024 21:32

Does your boyfriend know of your past?
If so, does it cause issues at all?

Well done for escaping, may life get better and better for you 🌺

Thank you so much. No, he has no idea

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Factsareimportantplease · 24/04/2024 21:54

No question.

Glad you got out whilst you could.

Good luck.

Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:54

Corksoles · 24/04/2024 21:33

Wow. What an amazing woman you are, OP.

How do you think the men reconciled to themselves having sex with someone who wouldn't have done it without money? I think anyone who wants to have sex where there's no mutual desire is by definition an abuser. Do you think they convinced themselves you were into them?

Thank you so much. I actually have no idea! Of course I pretended to be really into it so maybe that’s how they justified themselves. Delusional.

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:55

MummySam2017 · 24/04/2024 21:34

Hi OP. Hope you’re okay my lovely, I’m glad you’re in a much better place now.

Do you support any charities that assist women to get out of this line of work? It sounds like such a tricky position to be in, possibly scary to escape?

Big hugs to you x

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Thank you so much. I don’t but I would absolutely love to do this. Maybe it’s something I’ll consider doing one day

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:56

beastlyslumber · 24/04/2024 21:41

It's fantastic that you've got out, got a job and a boyfriend and turned your life around. I hope you feel really proud of yourself for everything you've survived and achieved.

Thank you so much x

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:56

HappyGoLucky96 · 24/04/2024 21:47

I’m glad your safe now 🩷

did u have any women clients

Thank you. I didn’t, no

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:59

LoompaOompa · 24/04/2024 21:47

Thanks for answering my previous question.

You said you were paid £200 an hour which sounds like a lot of money. Does that affect the kind of men you met? Are there different tiers of sex workers? Are there younger or more vulnerable women and girls who are being bought/sold for much less? Sorry, that's very clumsily phrased. I suppose I'm thinking that at £200 am hour you're more likely to be working for affluent/professional men who have more to lose if they're found out.

This is a really interesting AMA. Thank you. I have so much respect for you! X

Thank you so much. Whilst I’m not 100% sure, yes, i believe it does. I’d say the majority of my clients were ‘normal’ men with decent jobs, nothing weird or sleazy on the surface. My rates were higher than average as I was advertised as younger.

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 21:59

yummytummy · 24/04/2024 21:48

Does your boyfriend know about your previous work? If so what does he think?

No, he doesn’t

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 22:01

warmcookiedough · 24/04/2024 21:51

You've come so far I hope you continue to enjoy your life now and you should be really proud of yourself.

Sorry if this is TMI but what do you do when it's time of the month did you work through it or have to wait until it was over? Did any of your clients ever want more from you?

Thank you so much. Generally, I didn’t want to work but a lot of the time I did which was absolutely disgusting. I’d pretend I didn’t know, must’ve just came on, they hurt me etc.

I don’t think so. Though I had a handful that would give me more money, get me small gifts etc but maybe it just made them feel better about themselves, who knows

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Pleasetellmeitgetsbetter · 24/04/2024 22:01

Factsareimportantplease · 24/04/2024 21:54

No question.

Glad you got out whilst you could.

Good luck.

Thank you, I appreciate it x

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