Ex full service prostitute AMA

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I did it for around 5 years

I’m afraid it’s too outting and I can’t risk it, sorry. The pay is a lot less tho, lol

Do you think there's a certain sort of man who pays for sex workers?

It's not something they likely admit in person and it's crazy to wonder what men I know have done this.

So pleased to hear you are in a happy relationship now and well done you sound amazingly strong

Did u always enjoyed it when having sex? What can you do if u not enjoying it?

Adult work, Viva Street etc. Thank you so much x

What a journey. Vulnerable, to abused and exploited, to escapee, to survivor. You must be a strong woman to have got out, and built a whole new life. Respect.

Sounds horrendous OP, I'm so glad you were able to get out x

Did you have a speciality? Were you able to say no I don't offer that service?

Thanks for replying OP.

What do you make of women who do claim to enjoy it and advocate that it’s “real work”? Do you think they are in denial and probably have some underlying trauma/MH issues that has pushed them towards this kind of work!

Thank you so much. It really means a lot. I was debating whether to do this or not but honestly, it’s quite therapeutic answering the questions and I know I would’ve had lots of questions if I had never done it

What an evil abusive man your ex was. I'm so glad you're in a safe place and enjoying your new relationship. You should be really proud xx

I admire your strength and resilience OP and hope that your life is all you want it to be going forward.

What do you think of the way sex workers are portrayed in the media?

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No question but I'm in awe of your strength in getting away from the ex and a life that harmed you."

I simply want to thank you for your courage of raising a AMA thread giving honest answers to difficult questions about a period of your life that you would probably much rather forget about and making clear that the reality is very very different to "Pretty Woman ".

If your thread manages to dissuade just one woman from going down this path then that is a mother, father, brother, sister, child that will always be grateful to you.

Well done for getting out OP!

What does "full service" mean?

Did anyone know what you did for work? What was your cover story?

Is it true most prostitutes don't kiss?

Do you prefer prostitute or sex worker?

Generally, I don’t like men. Aside from my boyfriend, I avoid them at all costs. I wouldn’t even see a male medical professional if I could avoid it. I definitely wouldn’t be befriending any

Thank you so much. I’m much happier now…but I probably still have some way to go too. I was in it longer than I have been out of it at this stage

I also don’t have a question but I’m glad you got away. Well done. A family member said she would do this, back in the 80’s, and thought it’s “easier than working”. Her mother managed to talk her out of it fortunately.

Thank you so much x

Hello - does your current partner know about your past, or have you decided to keep it to yourself and move on? I hope they do know and have been understanding and loving to you.

Does your boyfriend know of your past?
If so, does it cause issues at all?

Well done for escaping, may life get better and better for you 🌺

Wow. What an amazing woman you are, OP.

How do you think the men reconciled to themselves having sex with someone who wouldn't have done it without money? I think anyone who wants to have sex where there's no mutual desire is by definition an abuser. Do you think they convinced themselves you were into them?

Hi OP. Hope you’re okay my lovely, I’m glad you’re in a much better place now.

Do you support any charities that assist women to get out of this line of work? It sounds like such a tricky position to be in, possibly scary to escape?

Big hugs to you x

Thank you so much. To be honest, at the time, all I could think about is how pathetic they were. But looking back, it’s probably the men that you’d least expect. There wasn’t anything weird or sleazy about the majority of them…apart from what they were participating in. The majority seemed entirely ‘normal’ - well dressed, politely spoken, good jobs, decent holidays/cars etc. I’m probably not describing them well, sorry but generally, they seemed like decent men

Thank you so much.
Aggressive and rough, yes but not violent.
I think it should be legal. It’ll always happen so it’s better if we aren’t pushing girls underground. I had dealings with the police and always found them to be decent, they sign posted me to some really wonderful support…. So it would be a shame to lose that

I didn’t enjoy it at all but I must’ve been good at pretending I did